Who's awake? So I just wanna pour out my heart
I think my era of dating might be over. Not because I’m heartbroken, but because I’ve become the opposite. I’m usually the one who ends up breaking hearts. I used to be a hopeless romantic, but now I feel emotionally numb and more like a robot .
When it comes to love, I seem to have terrible luck. The women I truly love something always comes up to ruin things and the women who love mez genuinely good women, I find myself unable to give them what they deserve. I try to love them back fully, but no matter how much I want to, it’s never enough.
No woman wants a man who says good morning and disappears till evening. No one wants a partner who’s okay with not calling and if I’m being honest, that’s who I’ve become.
I can’t imagine getting married without love. I’d never forgive myself for that. So rather than stay in relationships where I can’t show up properly, I feel it’s better to step aside and let women find men who can love them the way they deserve.
Maybe I’m not meeting the wrong people. Maybe I’m the problem. I feel disenchanted with love itself. After being hurt too many times, love now feels like stress and an inevitable heartbreak waiting to happen.
For now, I think it’s best I remove myself from relationships altogether.
make Allah make it easy for everyone
Ur not the problem kawai har yanzu baka haɗu da wacce kakeso bane, we have the same problem nima bana iya waya ko mssg akai akai zan iya 1 week ko fiye ban damu dan banyi waya da saurayi ba wasu kawai basa son takura kuma sunaji kar su takura Partners ɗinsu, but duk da haka nidai ban taba breaking heart ɗin kowa ba gaskiya cause Allah ze kamaka akan hakan, ko bakason mutum just make sure baka cutar dashi ba kuma kunyi rayuwar mutunci da girmamawa, ka nemi yafiyar waɗanda kayi breaking zaka ga chanji In sha Allah.
ni Kuma I need attention ko da yaushe no matter how busy I am. gsk bana Jin dadi mace bata bani time dinta. idan mukayi 2 DayZ Baki bene ni ba haushi zan fara ji like you don't care about me.
Tab 🤭 wlh ni duk wanda yayi dating ɗina ya sani, ina ɗaukar hakan takura sosai gaskiya
gsk ni kam Ina son ma beb ta takura mun.
Kuma I hated to send messages a Whatsapp and she's online Kuma ba tayi reply ba
sometimes har ya Kai 4 dyz 7 without response and she's online everyday. I hated it oo 🤣 and also hate myself
I feel you bro
I mean it gets to a point that I feel like am not meant to be with someone ,like that’s Allah’s plan and is depressing as hell.
For me is not that I don’t want attention but craves it actually but like it weigh on me when am on a call or just chatting but when we don’t talk I actually feel relieved. definitely a mind fuck and it mess you up big time so you are not alone and By Allah’s grace we will find who is right for us .
and think of it this way Allah is helping you choose and when you meet the right person shit will just feel right
If you start a relationship with someone, and you realize things aren't going well for you, you don't have feelings for them. What's the more honorable option? Continue fooling each other and wasting each other's time or walking away? When I said breaking hearts, I didn't mean betrayal. I'm talking about not being able to reciprocate the love they've shown me. I'm not happy about it, I don't go around asking girls out , not like I'm proud but for clarity sake, most of the times, it's the ladies that show interest in me, then I'll try to get to know her and along the line if i realize I don't have feelings for you or we're not compatible, we go our seperate ways. Her heart might be broken but does that make me a bad person?
Ameen
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