Billing 101: ladies, How do you ask guys for money?

So recently I saw a video on TikTok, this lady was teaching her gender how to get money from guys, she even said she has an ebook on that topic for sale. so I checked the comment section and saw a lot of ladies dropping different methods of how they bill guys and I saw one that one girl used on me. This happened some few years ago, this girl was in Kadpoly ( I won't mention her tribe, but she is from Kogi state). we dated for a very short time while she was doing her ND, but I had to withdraw because d billing was much. So this time around, she came back for her HND. Anyway, we got back to chatting, we even asked ourself why we became distant. So this girl will call me morning, noon and night. She will call me on WhatsApp video call at night, we will be on call till it's very late. she made sure she did that for like a whole week, then suddenly she stopped calling. No more video calls, no WhatsApp voice notes, no text, nothing nothing . Then when I decided to make an enquiry, Thats when she started dropping the bomb... I don't have data, my foodstuff have finished, my fone is bad.. and then it all dawned on me that it was the reason she has been lovebombing me. I had to run for my life. So for the ladies, which method have you been using to bill your guys, and for the guys, which method does ur babe use to bill you. pls let's make the forum fun, don't just read and pass, say something