I need advice on my relationship
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Anonymous Nov 6, 01:59 PM

I need advice on my relationship 2

so apparently I really I met this guy September, we started chatting and we became really close , along the line this guy told me we were 3girls in the whole stuff Kuma they gave him deadline to bring a wife home. So to me it started looking like a competition one of the girls decided to remove herself.. remaining me and the other girl. His mum doesn't like a girl from kaduna he's from Katsina and I'm from Kaduna, but he assured me he will make the final choice.I really like this guy Alhamdulillah I also see a future with him ..we became more close that we literally know what's going on in each other's lives but Everytime I'm insecure cause there is another who isn't willing to give up too...I seriously need an advice whether I should continue or just stop
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Abubakar Usman Nov 6, 02:39 PM
Asslm perform Istiharah… may Allah see you through.
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Ummeetaa Nov 6, 06:29 PM
Dear sister perform istikhara if he is khair for u he will be yours insha Allah
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Feesah Nov 6, 06:45 PM
sweetheart (sis), i hope you are doing fine. my dear your spouse has been written and destined by Allah, don’t ever force it, if you feel you are running a race of competition ,just take a break and give it some time. a good marriage dose not start with such compromise where you should prove love over the other woman. love is not enough to go into marriage. you need to have the full confidence that he want you for what you are as a woman who deserves to be crowned as a woman not the other way and you should also be saying yes to him because you know what you are getting into, marriage is not to show off but you are taking a great responsibility that Allah aline can reward you, be sure he worth it to some extent. that should be the things you are discussing with a right man not engaging you in a race of competition. salam! i love that you seek for advice! may Allah guide you Amin
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Anonymous Nov 6, 07:22 PM

I will In Sha Allah
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