Anonymous
Nov 6, 11:17 PM
I need your opinion and advice on a situationship
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so there's this guy that I knew some years back and eventually our path crossed and we immediately clicked, months into the relationship he proposed marriage to me and also sent his parents to mine and I was just starting University then. so my people didn't accept the proposal because of reasons like he comes from a very large family and all so they fear for me, but we kept on talking dai and along the line we started having a lot of issues here and there which eventually led to our breakup.
our parts crossed again after some years and unfortunately ba wani rabuwan mutunci akayi ba gaskiya but we let bygones be bygones and we were communicating once in a while and during that time he told me that he still wants to marry me and honestly I also still like the guy but here is the problem.
nidai according to what i know and see, he is a good guy and he is also religious and again family'n shi really showed me love when we were together sosai, even his step mums muna waya kawai dai kunsan dan Adam can't be 100%. so yanzun what I am concerned about is should I leave this guy because my people don't really want me with him or should i let him to send his people again and try to convince them this time around. I have done istikhara for some time but i am still having mixed feelings.
I have also tried talking to other people but I keep on comparing them with him cause gaskiya he is better than like 90% of men that i have actually had a thing for after our relationship. please do advise me and sorry for the long surutu.
