the story of my relationship.
Anonymous Jan 15, 11:31 PM

the story of my relationship. 0

slm, everyone hope y'all are having a wonderful time. the main reason I'm writing this post is to share my testimony. once upon a time I met a very kind lady, which we dated for 1 year +. to an extent one very good day I brought out a ring and give it out to her and told her this is a sign of promise from me to her, and I told her I will come back for the ring if she show me the ring, I will fulfill my promise to her. unfortunately 2020πŸ’” we came back to Nigeria, I went to my state kaduna and she went back to her own state Abuja, between few weeks she call me and told me πŸ’” she wants us to have a breakupπŸ’” which before God and man, at that very point I don't know what breakup means till she explain it for me what it means. then I asked her what my offense that she went to breakup with me πŸ’”, she replied nothing I just want breakup πŸ’”, it was not easy for me because I've never been in love that long till I met her, time to time I do call her and beg if their is anyway she could accept me back, she will replied no she don't wanna talk about it but if Allah says she is my wife in future that's it. days came to passed, Allah hold me strong πŸ™ I move on since she doesn't want us back πŸ’”πŸšΆ, 3 years now her name is not out of my mouth, and I had 2 dreams 1 says the person I had promise fulfill. the second dream I went to her house they open gate for me to enter, I saw her upstairs looking at me. we are not dating now for 3 years, even last week that we had a phone call that last us from 8:03pm to 11:15pm... please and please what I'm asking now? what type of sign is that?? please I need answers from anyone god give chance to say something, thank you I will be in comment section and please do hide my i.d. bye...
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Rukayya Abdullahi Wali Jan 15, 11:56 PM
Hmmm I'm speechless just take heart bro
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Anonymous Jan 16, 12:02 AM

thanks so much for taking your time to wish me the best jazaakallah khair sisπŸ™
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Anonymous #1 Jan 16, 01:37 AM

You haven't moved on man. You made those dreams yourself. You are still thinking about her. Since she still picks your call, then I think you should let her know. If she says No, then forget about her and talk to someone else. There are lots of options man, they key to getting the right one is prayers bro. PRAY EVERYDAY ABOUT IT. May ALLAH choose the right one for us. Ameen
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Anonymous Jan 16, 05:59 AM

good afternoon, actually I've moved on longest time ago, I don't even have any feelings for her or asking her to come back, wlh even god knows I don't even have that time. that's it
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Khadija Abdullah Jan 16, 07:59 AM

then what are you asking for, if you don't have anyone in your life and you still feel for her then tell her ask her,hear from her the thing is that no matter how it is if you really love someone wholeheartedly is hard to forget it and lemme me tell you something don't allow her to deceive you be quick and fast with her ask her if she has any feelings for you she may come and be like she wants you and daga baya bahaka bane
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Anonymous Jan 16, 08:33 AM

that's right, you got all the point but seriously since we breakup with her, I find it so difficult to follow any woman from the northern part of Nigeria, the fact I'm Muslim and a hausa man. when I went back to Malaysia πŸ‡±πŸ‡· in 2021 I don't know what enter my mindset that I refuse to date a Muslim women no matter how clean she is. as of now as I'm telling you this what I see as a goal is to get married to a white woman which I don't have problem with her religion or the way she leave her life. the fact many people are afraid I should not do something like that due to my slince and they didn't see me with any woman. it just so weird. and wlh allah I don't even have feeling for my ex no more or want her back.
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Khadija Abdullah Jan 16, 09:02 AM

the fact that you want to married a white woman is that for me your a man you should know what you want your children to be shi musulunci dadid ne da shi musan man idan allah ya hada ka da abokiyan zama nagari so you should pry allah yaza ba maka nagari if you think the white woman is the best for you then fine allah hada kanku
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Anonymous Jan 16, 10:32 AM

magana ki haka taki kam gayawa kowa wlh mace mai kyau sai musulma πŸ₯° but I don't know why I find it so difficult to believe in any, at times even I saw a loyal woman what I believe she is just been around to mess up with my sense and time. if I can recall each time I visit Nigeria my mom's friends and ours neighbors they will be like please the way you are staying in overseas always don't married a white woman come back home and married they are beautiful girls masu sallah.
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Anonymous Jan 16, 10:41 AM

tabbas yar uwa prayers is key to light, but what I want you to know matan Nigeria sunce amana ta over ne, from the one that went and married my cousin, zuwa wanda tayi breakup dani. I do think maybe that's why my heart got dry and stop thinking about positive, I know no family want their children to married white woman. but sabida abinda aka min, nace tow shikinne ba white woman suna son black African guys ba, kuma they do regular stop us and talk to us. na huce magana Allah magana Annabi, but I find it difficult to believe any Muslim women wlh.
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Aisha Muhammad Aminu Jan 16, 11:46 AM
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah! from the post and ur replies bro it seems u hold d lady for mind u never forgive her, please forgive and forget, Allah loves those who forgives, we often disobeys him but he welcome us when we want to repent, just forgive and forget, move on, we are not all equal so stop thinking that all Nigerian ladies are rude, when ever this thought came to ur mind remember this saying of Allah "But perhaps u hate a thing and it's good for u and perhaps u love a thing and it's bad for u and Allah knows while u know not"Allah SWT loves us more than any other person not even our mother'sπŸ‘Œ, remember nothing can pass u if it's destined to be urs, we plans but Allah's plans are the best, move on bro reassure ur self and ask for Allah's choice(Istikhara) he sees everything and he is the all hearing. May Almighty chooses the best spouses for us, those that will hold our hands to Jannah AMEEN
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Anonymous #2 Jan 16, 02:17 PM
I feel ur pains seriously,but Almighty Allah is with you.keep praying God knows the best for you but marrying a white woman I don't think is the solution because of ur future children.good northerner women re out there ur future children matters.may Almighty Allah Grant you the best bro
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Khadija Abdullah Jan 16, 04:44 PM

Kagani babu abunda yakai wana dadid you know what kai yakamata kasaya da keyu ka ne ma abunda kake so kuma kayita adua allah ze ba ka abunda kake ne mah
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Anonymous #3 Jan 16, 06:47 PM
hello πŸ‘‹ my advise s brief no matter what you r going through, Good women still exist somewhere, js keep on praying ND being positive
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Anonymous Jan 16, 06:55 PM

amin w/slm. actually it possible maybe due to what she did unexpected to me, cause I never saw that coming. no issues wlh I have heard all you said, na huce haka. I will try to adjust my heart a little bit, I will try to visit Nigeria with open heart and see what it takes, but if I got disappoint Allah Kareem that will be my good bye to Nigeria.
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Anonymous Jan 16, 07:06 PM

πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’” behind keyboard I feel so much pains day after day cause what my fellow Nigeria did to me I never thought of it, wlh allah since I breakup with this very particular lady have not been completely into my self. the fact I work so hard to forget every single step and go ahead, in her I never think about marrying 4 wives but now haba Ina I can't assure any lady hundred % my house belongs to her. now I begin to see the reason why so man are wicked to woman later on after married. wlh mun san gaskiya any white woman you get married to she will not allow you to go back to your home country we know that.
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Anonymous Jan 16, 07:17 PM

that's right, I believe you Allah. yanzu haka ina da lbr akwai wata da aki so abani wai if I come back to Nigeria sabi da I should reduce my staying in overseas or I should not get married their. but alfarman annabi I will disappoint them when I get to Nigeria lfy lu zan tashi kuma inko ma, nothing will sub.
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Aisha Muhammad Aminu Jan 16, 07:37 PM

Karkace haka, Allah yana jarabtar bawanshi a inda baya tunani may be kai taka jarabawar kenan, karkace idan hakan y qara faruwa zaka yi bankwana da Naija, no please Allah ze iya barinka da dibararka akan hakan, people often fails more than 3 times in life but still trust Allah and never give up, so don't lose hope please in sha Allah God is with u no matter how, just have faith and add some patience.
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Baiwar Allah 36 Jan 16, 08:24 PM

kayi hkr insha'Allah zakasamu tagari don't loose hope kayi Addu'a Allah yabaka ikon cin jarabawar Rayuwa Wlh Wlh a shekarun baya nasami kaina i rin jarabawar nan amma da na zauna nayi tunani sai nace nasan akwai mazaje nagari dayawa a taskar Ubangiji so bancire Rai ba So don't lose hope insha'Allah Allah zai haΙ—aka da tagari a nigerian da kake πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ
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Anonymous Jan 16, 10:13 PM

I'm impressed with your words, totally you rest my brain, indeed I never stop believing in god work, I myself I'm a testimony wlh. I do believe in faith and that's what keep us going. harga Allah I'm so happy with your words which actually show me good woman do exist the fact bad eggs still been around. it just some people who made some people not to be believing in another people again. alfarman annabi you will eat your own, you will visit so many places anyone never thought u will visit, your story will go viral alfarman annabi inshallah.
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Anonymous #2 Jan 17, 06:11 AM

seriously i know it's so painful but u have leave it in ur past, keep on praying,wallahi Allah prayers will completely heal you, constant recitation of the holy Qur'an.definately u will see wonders insha Allah.if u can be waking up in the night,is a bounse constant tahajjud,I can give you some Du'as if u don't mind.May Almighty Allah see u through insha Allah
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Aisha Muhammad Aminu Jan 17, 07:25 AM

In Sha Allah, May Allah SWT chooses the best for us, I'm so happy to hear this from u "totally you rest my brain" so many people are going through difficulties some more than we can all imagine but they still pray and never lose hopeπŸ’”, Allah does not promise us everlasting happiness in this world without sorrow and Difficulties without ease, In Sha Allah zaka samu Mar'atussaliha idan kayi kyakyawan haquri. Thank u
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Yazeed Jan 17, 08:08 PM
Hmm guy is completely not easy but sha keep on praying something good is coming up insha Allahu
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Nanamimi Jan 17, 09:02 PM
Do istikhara. if she is meant to ur your's she will definitely be your's.
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