Jan 1, 09:48 PM

finding it difficult to fall inlove again.

I literally want to settle but I don’t know y am I finding it difficult to fall in love again, no lies I’m still not over my Ex more than a year I have been struggling with this I really want to get him out of my mind but couldn’t since when we’ve been apart not a single day cames and goes without him crossing my mind, I pray hard everyday just to get rid of that, but still. now it is because I’m not over him or it’s just that banga wanda ya min bane yet? sometimes saina Na danne zuciyata na bawa wani chance but da ya fara min soyayya sai inji wani bacin rai da bakinci yana damuna they will later on release sai su bani space wlhi rayuwa bayamin dadi bcos of this i cries a lot and pray hard Allah ya yayemin 🙏🏻

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Jan 1, 09:54 PM
Amin Amin Amin
Jan 1, 10:26 PM
Ameen Ameen
Jan 1, 10:36 PM
Why Don't You Try And Fix Things With Him.If What He Did Or What Went Wrong Sakanin ku Is not Beyond Repair.
Jan 2, 02:02 AM
Ayyah, Allah ya kawo miki mafita ya chanza miki da mafi Alkhaiiri
Jan 2, 02:54 AM
At first u didn't think u could ,but you got through a year right? that was so tough I know but at least comparing the pain from the first weeks,months I know you re alot better ko bahaka ba? my dear that means you re changing but you failed to see that cuz maybe you have the hope of him returning and not for you to get better. How about " Let him go in peace,what's meant for you'll find you, take it easy and watch it all unfold.The good will come,u jst need to have hope!!! it will get better,it'll get easier,good will come In Sha Allah....Until then,it's time to shift the focus.Focus on your goals,glow and grind. what's meant for you will always find you and if you re meant to be with him,you'll find each other again .... But free yourself first and pray! pray!pray
Jan 2, 09:18 AM
Jan 2, 09:49 AM
i have experienced this too but with time you will get over it in shaa Allah although it’s not easy sha.
Jan 2, 11:30 AM
Allah Sarki yar’uwa bazai yiwu kishiga ba da rayuwa cikin kunci ba maybe ma shidakikeyi akansa ma yasamu wata So you should please find a place in ur hearts to love again I know it's difficult but u can't continue like this forever duk da its rayuwa sai hakuri kowa kikagani yanada tasa jarabawar amma idan kayi hakuri kika barwa Allah lamarinki saikiga yakawo miki mafita cikin sauki Kuma mace bata auran mijin wata, It has been written And whenever u find another man don't be too submissive kuma kifara Istihara akansa idan alkhairi ne Allah zainuna miki ko kiji kinsamu nutsuwa dashi Shikuma waccen idanshi yacuceki Allah yasaka miki kuma yabaki wanda yafishi and Kiyawaita karanta ***Rabbi Inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer🙏
Jan 2, 12:09 PM
Ayushakc Jan 1, 09:54 PM

Amin Amin Amin

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thank u🙏🏻
Jan 2, 12:09 PM
Khadija Abdullah Jan 1, 10:26 PM

Ameen Ameen

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thank you 🙏🏻
Jan 2, 12:10 PM
Sgabdo Jan 1, 10:36 PM

Why Don't You Try And Fix Things With Him.If What He Did Or What Went Wrong Sakanin ku Is not Beyond Repair.

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I don’t think it’s possible Allah dai yamin zabi na alkari
Jan 2, 12:11 PM
Flexyy Jan 2, 02:02 AM

Ayyah, Allah ya kawo miki mafita ya chanza miki da mafi Alkhaiiri

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Ameen ya rabbi 🙏🏻
Jan 2, 12:21 PM
Hauwa'u B Jan 2, 02:54 AM
At first u didn't think u could ,but you got through a year right? that was so tough I know but at least comparing the pain from the first weeks,months I know you re alot better ko bahaka ba? my dear [...] At first u didn't think u could ,but you got through a year right? that was so tough I know but at least comparing the pain from the first weeks,months I know you re alot better ko bahaka ba? my dear that means you re changing but you failed to see that cuz maybe you have the hope of him returning and not for you to get better. How about " Let him go in peace,what's meant for you'll find you, take it easy and watch it all unfold.The good will come,u jst need to have hope!!! it will get better,it'll get easier,good will come In Sha Allah....Until then,it's time to shift the focus.Focus on your goals,glow and grind. what's meant for you will always find you and if you re meant to be with him,you'll find each other again .... But free yourself first and pray! pray!pray
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ya Alhmdllh it’s getting better coz at first duk wanda ya sanni ya ganni at that very moment yasan bana cikin hayyaci na I was depressed but with time na samu sauki still hopping to be much better insha Allah.
Jan 2, 12:22 PM
Deejah Almustapha Jan 2, 09:49 AM

i have experienced this too but with time you will get over it in shaa Allah although it’s not easy sha.

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insha Allah, thanks
Jan 2, 12:26 PM
Anonymous #1 Jan 2, 12:22 PM

insha Allah, thanks

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you’re welcome dear.
Jan 2, 12:27 PM
Milah Jan 2, 11:30 AM
Allah Sarki yar’uwa bazai yiwu kishiga ba da rayuwa cikin kunci ba maybe ma shidakikeyi akansa ma yasamu wata So you should please find a place in ur hearts to love again I know it's difficult but u[...] Allah Sarki yar’uwa bazai yiwu kishiga ba da rayuwa cikin kunci ba maybe ma shidakikeyi akansa ma yasamu wata So you should please find a place in ur hearts to love again I know it's difficult but u can't continue like this forever duk da its rayuwa sai hakuri kowa kikagani yanada tasa jarabawar amma idan kayi hakuri kika barwa Allah lamarinki saikiga yakawo miki mafita cikin sauki Kuma mace bata auran mijin wata, It has been written And whenever u find another man don't be too submissive kuma kifara Istihara akansa idan alkhairi ne Allah zainuna miki ko kiji kinsamu nutsuwa dashi Shikuma waccen idanshi yacuceki Allah yasaka miki kuma yabaki wanda yafishi and Kiyawaita karanta ***Rabbi Inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer🙏
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it’s not that I am waiting for him to return no I just want to get rid of him in my heart completely may be I can be able to feel someone’s love by then. Ameen ya rabbi thank u🙏🏻
Jan 2, 03:23 PM
Allah zai yaye miki komai lokaci ne ki cigaba da addua
Jan 2, 04:49 PM
Aaamiin ya hayyu ya qayyum
Jan 2, 05:25 PM
agaskiya try nd made up your mind.babu abun dayafi qarfin addua.inharda gaske kina neman mafita to kiyi qoqari ki wallafa Allah komai,dage datashin dare sosai.
Jan 2, 07:49 PM
Ameen ya Allah
Jan 3, 05:43 AM
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