How the guy i'm supposed to Marry got married & told me it's his immediate broda
Anonymous Mar 18, 01:14 PM

How the guy i'm supposed to Marry got married & told me it's his immediate broda 0

So I met this guy last year (2022), a month after our meeting he kept insisting that he wants to move things to the next level and wants to go home, I got scared and didn't want to jump into a marriage of 1 month relationship I told him that I'll have to tell my parents first. So I went home and informed my sisters and aunts, so I was told to just let him come home tunda ba immediately ne zaayi auren ba. I told him that it's okay he can come meet my Dad, he visited home and introduced himself. but a few days later, he began to complain as to say I act too "composed" around him and as to why I don't want to hug him or even hold his hands when we meet. I began to have 2nd thoughts about him. told my siblings and they said maybe he's trying you give him time and see. We kept moving he visits and calls a lot. His name is Aleeyu. we kept talking and discussing as normal, when it was my birthday he took me and my siblings for dinner. he'd visit home with gifts to see my younger siblings and greet my aunts. everything was normal and we talk about marriage which he wanted before Ramadan or after. With the discussion we kept having, the marriage is supposed to happen after Ramadan. to cut the story short 2days ago he called me on a video call on his way to the airport traveling to Lagos. we talked and gisted and he called me "his wife" as usual. wished him a safe trip. Yesterday night, I checked Aliyu's status and I saw Aleeyu posted his pre-wedding or should I say Post wedding pictures with another woman. I couldn't believe my eyes and I commented, to last month you went to Maiduguri for your wedding?? I asked him what happened I didn't even know what to say because I was very shocked and confused! Only for Aleeyu to reply that it was his "immediate brother" I went blank for a few minutes and then decided to forward to my friend. She called and she was shocked as well. she's in school so I guess she showed her roommate and the roommate told her to go on instagram and check @She_said_yes_to_Ali πŸ’”πŸ’” My friend called me back this morning and shared the news only for me to check the account and to God who made me it was "Aleeyu" wedding events Aleeyu "IMMEDIATE BROTHER"??? An "IMMEDIATE BROTHER "who looks exactly like you and bears the same name as you??? I still went back to ask ALEEYU and he still denied the fact and said that it's his brother I am just exaggerating things. So after seeing the instagram page I decided to go ask him of his immediate brother's name. and he still hasn't replied yet!! I want to; Should I go ahead and forward the page to him, or should I just ignore him and move on with my life?? I AM HURT VERY VERY VERY HURT BY HIS BEHAVIOR!! ALEEYU got married last week, which means he was already a married man the day we spoke while he was on his way to the airport which was 2days ago😭😭😭 ALEEYU ALLAH YA ISA, this pain you've caused shall be done upon you too InshaAllah, I don't know what your motive was behind doing all this but denying "Your marriage" to my face just to make me feel like a fool alone is what hurts more!! ALLAH YA BAKU ZAMAN LAFIYA BUT ALLAH YA SAKAMIN ALEEYU. Dear men, Put the girl's you hurt in your sister's shoes before doing anything to hurt their feelings Danallah! Emotinal Damage is real and Mental health is important!


Yamma Mar 18, 01:23 PM
subhanallah. may Allah ease this heartache for you. Inn sha Allah you'll find someone way better for you than him. please stay strong.
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Ramatu salihu Mar 18, 02:14 PM
Allah ya Baki juriya and sister don't worry is not ur husband insha Allah,Allah will grant u someone dat is better than him in every aspect and pls don't confront him just ignore him Allah is d all seer
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Fateemaah Mar 18, 03:49 PM
He’s not your husband shiyasa you see all this happened, wlhy ki gode wa Allah daya sa abun ya tsaya anan,,,Allah ya zaba miki mafi Alkheri… And suma Allah ya basu zaman lafiya and don’t confront him ki barsa da Allah insha Allah, Allah sai ya nuna masa! Maza kuji tsoron Allah wallahi
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AH2003 Mar 18, 03:51 PM
I understand your pain I am once in your shoeπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί keep praying sis it is the best thing at the moment
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Anonymous #1 Mar 18, 06:01 PM
Eyyah poster kiyi hakuri yanxun maxan yanxun 99% ensu haka suke basuda kirki yaudara ajininsu take kuma kisawa ranki cewa shiba mijinki bane kiyi moving on da rayuwarki akwai wata rayuwan bayan nan kuma ubangiji baya yafe hakkin wani akan wani kinjii Allah yamiki sakayya cikin gaggawa😒
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Maryamlabeeba Mar 18, 06:19 PM
Allah yabi miki hakkinki,kai Aliyu Allah ya shryeka xaka haifa ne,wlhy kuma daughter dnka seta gani abnda kayiwa er wani,ba baki nake mishi ba,in sha Allahu he shall taste the pain of deciet
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Anonymous #2 Mar 18, 07:03 PM
this is heartbreaking, dear poster there is nothing here that will make you feel any better. it is actually up to you to fight it kuma ki sa arai this is indeed the best for you, kuma daman shi ba mijin ki bane kuma Allah ya ga abin da aka miki kuma zai saka miki.
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Teeemeeer Mar 18, 07:45 PM
Allah sarki, Allah yasaka Miki Allah yabaki Wanda yafisa πŸ₯Ί wlh maza suna bani tsoro πŸ’”πŸ˜° Allah ka hadamu da nagari so sad
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Dr A A Mar 18, 08:14 PM
Aleeyu ban kyauta ba amma kiyi hkr not all aleeu are like ur me im different πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘
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Khadeejert Mar 18, 08:24 PM

yaya, wat on dis planet re u typing abi u re sleep typing 🌚
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Dr A A Mar 18, 08:26 PM

Allah sarki deeja kina nan abunki tun da muka maki aure shikenan kinjin dadin aure kin manta mu ko🌚🌚
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Anonymous #3 Mar 19, 08:15 AM
sorry sis, I even go search for@ she said yes to Ali on Instagram, gaskya Bei kyauta ba, js forget him Abt him sis, buh we arewa frum mark his face
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Aeeshatou Mar 19, 08:16 AM
take heart poster allah y mana zabi mafi alkhairi
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Aleeyujr Mar 19, 12:44 PM
the fact that u said Aleeyu gabana har faduwa yake yi poster Allah ya baki hakuri Insha Allah komai mai wucewa ne
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Mum fareeha Mar 19, 02:59 PM
subhanalah Allah ya baki juriya da Kuma miji nagara jinkirin yazama alkhairi
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Anonymous #4 Mar 19, 04:53 PM
tashin hankali
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Anonymous #5 Mar 19, 10:30 PM
ummm I know it's hurts 😒 hold a grip of yourself and but put it in your mind that someone better is coming. I heard a saying that you meet someone for a lesson or blessings sister don't worry blessing is come your way in sha Allah πŸ€—
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Fatimah Ummi Mar 20, 11:38 AM
May Allah make it easy for you,sister keep praying insha Allah you will get someone better than him,it's indeed hurtful but Allah Almighty will bless you with the righteous
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Khadeejert Mar 22, 01:19 PM

πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜… haba yaya wani aure kumaπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜… i know dat u missed me awwwnnn
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Aleeyujr Mar 23, 05:08 AM

Wallahy πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
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