So I met this guy last year (2022), a month after our meeting he kept insisting that he wants to move things to the next level and wants to go home, I got scared and didn't want to jump into a marriage of 1 month relationship I told him that I'll have to tell my parents first. So I went home and informed my sisters and aunts, so I was told to just let him come home tunda ba immediately ne zaayi auren ba. I told him that it's okay he can come meet my Dad, he visited home and introduced himself. but a few days later, he began to complain as to say I act too "composed" around him and as to why I don't want to hug him or even hold his hands when we meet. I began to have 2nd thoughts about him. told my siblings and they said maybe he's trying you give him time and see. We kept moving he visits and calls a lot. His name is Aleeyu. we kept talking and discussing as normal, when it was my birthday he took me and my siblings for dinner. he'd visit home with gifts to see my younger siblings and greet my aunts. everything was normal and we talk about marriage which he wanted before Ramadan or after. With the discussion we kept having, the marriage is supposed to happen after Ramadan. to cut the story short 2days ago he called me on a video call on his way to the airport traveling to Lagos. we talked and gisted and he called me "his wife" as usual. wished him a safe trip. Yesterday night, I checked Aliyu's status and I saw Aleeyu posted his pre-wedding or should I say Post wedding pictures with another woman. I couldn't believe my eyes and I commented, to last month you went to Maiduguri for your wedding?? I asked him what happened I didn't even know what to say because I was very shocked and confused! Only for Aleeyu to reply that it was his "immediate brother" I went blank for a few minutes and then decided to forward to my friend. She called and she was shocked as well. she's in school so I guess she showed her roommate and the roommate told her to go on instagram and check @She_said_yes_to_Ali 💔💔 My friend called me back this morning and shared the news only for me to check the account and to God who made me it was "Aleeyu" wedding events Aleeyu "IMMEDIATE BROTHER"??? An "IMMEDIATE BROTHER "who looks exactly like you and bears the same name as you??? I still went back to ask ALEEYU and he still denied the fact and said that it's his brother I am just exaggerating things. So after seeing the instagram page I decided to go ask him of his immediate brother's name. and he still hasn't replied yet!! I want to; Should I go ahead and forward the page to him, or should I just ignore him and move on with my life?? I AM HURT VERY VERY VERY HURT BY HIS BEHAVIOR!! ALEEYU got married last week, which means he was already a married man the day we spoke while he was on his way to the airport which was 2days ago😭😭😭 ALEEYU ALLAH YA ISA, this pain you've caused shall be done upon you too InshaAllah, I don't know what your motive was behind doing all this but denying "Your marriage" to my face just to make me feel like a fool alone is what hurts more!! ALLAH YA BAKU ZAMAN LAFIYA BUT ALLAH YA SAKAMIN ALEEYU. Dear men, Put the girl's you hurt in your sister's shoes before doing anything to hurt their feelings Danallah! Emotinal Damage is real and Mental health is important!