Stop being in a hurry to grant financial aid to ladies you just met, especially those you approached. Be intentional about the talking stage and maintain the status quo otherwise it might become a billing stage. If you truly want to build something natural or solid with her, then avoid any situation that may compel you to grant financial aid. Nigerian ladies undervalue financial aids during the first two or three weeks of meeting each other, Because many of them have this feeble preconceived mindset that boys will always try to impress or pretend to care. Even if your intentions are pure, she has got her doubts in play and trust me, she’s not that moved. The “Thanks!” You get afterwards is just a formality, deep down she still feels- Oh well, boys will always be boys! To put this into perspective, I mean girls who casually, stylishly puts you in that position like : I’m hungry. I’m not fine. I’m broke. That is tactical blackmail, It’s all manipulation. Do not fall for it and do not try to prove how much you care by lending financial aid. She will most likely turn you into a simp and maga because the tactical blackmail and billing will never stop. She’s always going to be hungry. Always going to crave ice cream. Always going to need that urgent 2k very urgently… I mean you could ask why she hadn’t returned your calls or message and the next thing is - I am out of data/airtime. She turns everything into an opportunity to bill you because you’ve shown her you have money to give and that will affect how she sees you. Many girls don’t see any reason to go into a relationship with you if already gain financial benefit benefit from you. And the most annoying part is the fact that they don’t appreciate your kindness, In their small minds they feel you can’t resist or say no to them. They believe you are always quick to come through for them because you want something from them. Granting financial support to a girl you like but just met is risky because it can quickly change the direction of your relationship with her. Avoid it!!! Talking stages are meant for conversations not semi blackmails and tactical billing. Never try to prove anything with money because whatever you start with money, will definitely require money to finish up.