Khalleed
Mar 19, 07:20 PM
Am I asking for too much?
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Slm barkan mu da shan ruwa, I have this girlfriend and there are things she does that doesn't sit well with me. Though it might be minor to some but it messes with my mental health. I work from 10 - 5pm, then I'll get home by 6 or 7 if there's traffic. Im working in a data analytic firm, my work demands topnotch focus..... So I'm not opportune to chat most times during the day except at night when im back home. During my free time I'll send random hellos check up on her and disappear. She hates it, she wants my full attention at work and it's not possible. Since checking up on her and disappearing is causing issues, I decided to stop, I only message when I'm home. This got her mad too. Nevertheless I decided to just try and create more time for her while at work for peace to reign.There are times I'll be busy, stressed, and I might not be able to chat for most of the day, when I get back home, I want her to ask me what happened at work that kept me away from her, what stressed me, I should gist her about my busy day at work... You know stuffs like that, that will calm me after dealing with a days stress. But no, she'll start giving attitude, sometimes it ends in quarrel and honestly I'm sick of it. When I'm back home, anything 9pm she'll say she's feeling sleepy. And I don't complain. I feel I've been away for the whole day so why should I complain if she decides to sleep at night?
Also, you know how men are? We don't like to share our problems with people, whenever something is disturbing me and I'm distant,rather than checking and asking why I am like this. She'll turn it into quarrel making things worse for me. My peace of mind is at stake here. I'm planning on introducing our parents to one another after Eid but I don't know. I'm just here second guessing things. She loves me but I don't find peace with her.....