Anonymous
Dec 3, 08:03 PM
My Preference (Scale of...) of a Lady
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I'm what majority will describe as slim. So a lot of guys might find my taste or preference(s) in a lady rather odd or weird, and would wonder how my taste is such, because majority of guys prefer the slim to average body type ladies to chubby plumpy type ones.
I think majority of chubby or plumpy ladies have more of the well-rounded front and back lady figure than slim to average ladies, although there are slim to average ladies that are buxom and curvaceous.
If a lady is slim and still buxom and curvaceous, then fair enough I can opt for her.
But if a lady is as strikingly beautiful in the face as Barbie or Rapunzel or Jasmine or any of the other Disney princesses(all of them are slim), she's a 10/10 in facial beauty, she's so beautiful like the "son kowa qin wanda ya rasa" type of lady, but she hasn't got the well-rounded front and back lady figure, especially especially the front figure, if she's not curvaceous or buxom, then wallah I don't consider her my wife material. That's just me.
An averagely beautiful looking lady in the face that is chubby, plumpy but curvaceous, voluptuous and buxom is my "son kowa qin wanda ya rasa" or rather, "so na qin wanda baya son irin ta". Although I can and will opt for a slim to average body type one that's curvaceous and voluptuous.
May Allah grant my wish.
Allah ka azurta ni da irin daya daga cikin su.
PS: What say you house people about this complicated preference of mine?
....Of course hali and tarbiyya and addini are the most important things to look for. Yes I know looks isn't, aren't the most important thing(s) to look for.
But you know, these most important things are subjective. Meaning every one has got their respective levels of how much they consider okay for hali, tarbiyya and especially addini.
We men are visual creatures. That's why the first thing that attracts us to a mate are the visuals. We subsequently judge based on our respective individual levels if the potential mate's hali, tarbiyya and addini are okay, if they suffice for us.
And then subsequently again, we get to enjoy the looks of course while they last, and we finally get back to zaman mutunci and amana and jin qan juna and soyayya, because the beautiful looks that attracted you to them in the first place have faded due to saaboo and/or shekaru or girma.
Wallaahu ta'aalaa a'lam.
