Your prayer matters!
Relationship
Anonymous Apr 30, 09:33 PM

Your prayer matters! 2

Assalam. I've been thinking really too much these days, raised by a single parent (God bless our mother's), I have bachelor's degree and I'm also islamically oriented, I have a good business of my own which I support the family with, I believe that I'm disciplined in character and all rounds...well mannered, and I can also say I'm beautiful, you will never be bored around me I'm social too to some extent I'm sure of that, I'm someone neat and also gentle, im someone that i think should easily attract any man but I'm experiencing the opposite it's like I'm almost invisible to men or like I have a negative energy around I'm not noticed easily and the few times I mustered up courage to initiate a connection with anyone I got turned down. I'm not talking of a connection here online but even in my physical environment. I sent out couple of requests too on the site all negative and I haven't gotten any requests since the time I registered on the site I don't know how I'm supposed to feel about it. I'm tempted to even delete my account right now I'm losing hope for love in this world but God knows all. Alhamdulillah! Pls pray for me brothers and sisters. Thank you.
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Nairobi Apr 30, 11:57 PM
Don't worry sister..don't loose hope, i would strongly advise you to pray hard during this holy month...most men are scared of beautiful ladies thinking that all beautiful ladies are taken (Dating) and the truth is the gentle and the nicest are most scarier but insha Allah u will be happy at the End...even impossible says I M possible...best of lucks sis..and Ramadan kareem!!
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Anonymous #1 May 1, 05:43 AM
I think you are just getting impatient. i'm sure you are not up to 3month on the matchmaker, (if not correct me pls) but you are already loosing hope. what if your future husband is yet to join. there is no limitation that says after this amount of weeks you can't find anyone. Stay on the page and pray about it you will see changes Insha Allah
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Anonymous #2 May 1, 11:52 AM
Know that Allah test his servants in so many ways, be patient please losing hope and deleting your account will only make you depressed, use the opportunity of the holy month we are in and pray harder to Allah nothing is impossible for Him, whatever He wishes to happen He only say to it be and it becomes.
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Anonymous May 1, 02:25 PM
Amin Ya Allah! Thank you all for the kind words, advice and motivation, I agree more patience and prayers are the key. Allah karamana imani baki daya. Amin.
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Jamilu lukman May 7, 11:43 AM
Slm... Would like to view your profile, while you view mine also. May Allah ease all that is difficult in our lives, and choose the right partner for us.
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Anonymous #3 Jan 14, 02:02 PM
There are a lot of women who go through this . But then , just Do your part and leave the rest to GOD. Continue investing in yourself.
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