I gradually lost interest in relationships due to some sad realities
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Anonymous Mar 13, 10:40 PM

I gradually lost interest in relationships due to some sad realities 1

Salamu alaykum... I don't know where to start from....I'm just simply confused and I don't know what to do about it...growing up I've always seen marriage as the best thing that could happen to a girl....I've always dreamed of the day I'll get married... but recently.... I experienced some things that has made me realise that marriage is not all about the fantasy.... stories of women getting abused,cheating husbands and so on...I don't feel encouraged or eager to get married like before... another issue is that...I'm veryyy social...so I have a lot of guys in my DM....most of them promising me heaven and earth, i hate disappointing people...so I don't know how to turn then down...I don't want to hurt them...I tried telling one that his feelings are not reciporicated and he went around making me feel like a bad person... the zeal to get involved in relationships has dissapeared....How exactly do I tell them that I'm not interested without hurting their feelings?
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Khamis Jamil Mar 14, 02:27 AM
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Anonymous #1 Mar 14, 04:34 AM
Hmmm my dear, face the reality. Heaven is in Jannah but this duniya you have to struggle. Pray for Religious person first & all what your afraid of will not happen in sha Allah. But go for something else then your on your own. Make your intentions pure & you’ll find everything going as you wish, Always pray.
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Ramatu salihu Mar 14, 07:57 AM
sister most of the marriages you c or hear about too dose girls were scared almost all of us are scared but it should not make to say u don't want to get married (complete your Deen,look for your aljannah) u should just pray for Allah to grant u pious spouse and grant u test dat u can take and pass Allah ya ba duka mu miji nagari
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Jibril saeed Mar 14, 08:23 AM
cut the the off shikenan
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Abdulkarim Badamasi Mar 14, 09:49 AM
the reality is, life is full of struggles. ofcourse there are school of thought’s that’s it’s okay to stay single and celibate as long as you don’t use that avenue to commit sin. however, living life itself is full of struggles, people get into accidents doesn’t mean I won’t enter a car anymore, people getting fired doesn’t mean I won’t find a job anymore. pray for yours to be among the best and God won’t leave you with your struggles
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