this is love ko MUGUNTA? He doesn't want me to complete my school or work
Anonymous Jun 15, 11:51 PM

this is love ko MUGUNTA? He doesn't want me to complete my school or work 0

Assalamu alaikum,hmm Is this love ko kiyayya,we have been dating for 3yrs yaso Muyi aure Ina gama secondary school sai wani aiki ya fita da shi kasar waje,be dawo ba Sai da na fara diploma bayan ya dawo he insist ayi aure my father was ok than he come up wai sai dai na bar school,i was like ai babu Transfer a health sai yace wai no aina gama school kenan,and by the other side familysa na fada sai mijin sister sa ya barta tayi master but me common diploma yanaso yayi stopping dina is that love?and he once's told me that macen da batayi boko ba ai ba macen zuwa unguwa bace infact shifa yana son mace mai zurfin karatu,I don't know ko nice bayaso da karatu,am done with my diploma da kyar yanxu anzo maganar aiki yace bazanyi ba and after auran da 5months zai tafi school na 3yrs he's stopping me from working kuma ya hanina karasa karatu wai business ma babu Amfani tunda nauyina yana Kansa,ga uban rules and regulations,wai sai dai na zauna gida,he was even saying wai babu namijin da zai yadda Hakan I told him akwai kuma in Allah ya yadda Allah zai bani supportive husband nasan akwai Su.
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Zee Abdul Jun 16, 05:51 AM
Life can be simple and straight forward if you want it to. These type of people who like to dominate a lady to feed their Ego hmm, i will rather not marry than end up with any of them. My first priority is having my education intact and having the ability to do anything that can sustain me financially, all other things come after, we now live in the modern world where having a source of income as in individual is necessary. Also Ladies must accept that Marriage is not by force, you can still live your life and sustain yourself. what mainly matters is having a meaningful life and striving for Jannah.
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Anonymous #1 Jun 16, 06:02 AM
I'm sorry sister, but gaskia it's very important for a woman to be educated. And then it's good idan ta samu tana aiki. As a man, I won't mind my wife to go as long as she wanna study and/or work as long as zata tsare mutuncinta da shiga ta kamala. However, if your man won't let you study or work, then I think business will be idle. Regarding rules and regulations, gaskia it's a lil red flag. Why rules and regulations kafin ma ayi aure? Both of you are suppose to be like friends, companions, and supporters of each other. Finally, do what's best for you, don't rush, don't be desperate. Allah ya tsaba mafi alkhairi
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Funtua Jun 16, 06:39 AM
Haka Yana faruwa Amma kuskure ne, abinda akeso Nan inyi magana an shine HANGEN NASA. yanzu dai kuna tare Amma babu tabbacin zakuyi sure ko Kuma a'a, namiji bakoda yaushe yake jure yawan banibani ba, idan Kuma kunyi auren ba ta Allah ta kasance dashi ga yara Baki da aiki Baki iya Sana'a ba. Yana nashi hujjojin Amma Ina ganina wadanda na lissafa sunfi gamsar Dani. Koda Sana'a ce wadda ba sai kin fita.
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jun 16, 08:12 AM
ke 😲 wlh run for ur life, I repeated again..run for ur life. if not wlh wlh wlh za kiyi regretting, dga gni Dan iska ne a university beso aci nshi idan taje. take note: my sister tayi aure bulbul, ga NCE ta karike lkcn sunyi aure. but guy dn nn yana d chance na Samar mata aiki yaqi, and he refused to let her take an offer na teaching
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Anonymous #2 Jun 16, 07:37 PM
Red 🚩, Red 🚩, Red 🚩. Yana son mace mai zurfin karatu, another Red 🚩.These are the kind of men that don't want their wives to succeed. Sai after 3years a turai ya dauko ready made eg Lawyer kai kuma a hadaki da sorry
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