I am obsessed with him, what can I do please?
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Anonymous Apr 9, 10:37 PM

I am obsessed with him, what can I do please? 0

salam alaikum guys,so when someone tells me he's in love I used to laugh because I never really believed in love sometimes I just get into relationships for fun and killing of time I used to wonder if I would ever find someone that I really love to the extend I will think of getting married here I am madly in love with my ex closest friend who has a girlfriend though he doesn't really love the girl but he's still dating her and most of the people he knows likes him with the girlfriend but I'm really obsessed with him and I feel I can't leave her for him most especially when I see him with her I've done a lot of prayers and I've even gotten more closer to me god I'm depressed because of him and I feel I can do anything to get him my friends are trying to make me leave him but it's not just working the obsession keeps increasing every day I really need advice what should I do it's really affecting my mental health I was taken to the hospital and the doctor said I have anxiety disorder and I'm sure it's because of him
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Habebaahh Apr 9, 10:53 PM
So sorry dear, Allah ya kawo miki mafita.
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Anonymous #1 Apr 10, 07:46 AM
da ganin alama akwai kaayaa a hannun shi ne 🤔
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Abdourl 12 Apr 10, 08:28 AM
Being obsessed with someone isn't a good sign, I was in a place of obsession and I had a lot of mental health issues in the past because of love which at end happened to be the reason why I saved a lot of people from relationship issues. Here's my advice for you.... The main reason why you are obsessed with this guy is because you're in love with the idea of this him not the reality of love, which unconsciously leads you to chase him, you might keep trying a lot of tricks just to have him but you keep failing, that's why your biggest fear in life is to lose him which you can't afford that, and it's the reason why you developed anxiety and you can't have peace in your mind because of it. However, there are so many things you need to know and I have so many tips to help you out but unfortunately I can't explain everything in the comment section.... If you're ready to get over this issue and you're okay reaching out to me, you can send me a mail (amnaseer7514@gmail.com)
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