I met this guy 2 months ago (he's a civil defence officer). last month he said he's too busy at work and not allowed to pick calls in front of his Oga so I should try to stop calling while he's at work that he'll call me when he's able to. he only calls when he's at home (around 6 or so) and it's usually very brief. once he calls and says hi, how are you and other things, he says he has something to do and he ends the call. we don't chat much, he only asks how are you, how's everyone at home and have you eaten, nothing deep. we can talk just once a day for busy 2 minutes and that's it. Last week, I asked him to be honest and not waste my time and he said he didn't approach me to waste my time and Inn sha Allah he will never waste my time. I expressed all of my dissatisfaction with the relationship and he only apologized but had nothing to say. I was so hurt I ended up crying and after that, he started putting effort for like two or three days and we're back to the same pattern again. I want to break up but I don't know if I'm being impatient. please help me with sincere advise.
I see nothing in this sister if it’s true he is busy at work if he’s not then.u find ur way but if it’s work or he is dat type dat don’t prolong in gists or charting then u try nd cope with him or change him when he is urs nd gradually
you should be more patient
Inn sha Allah. Jazakallah bi khair
He's not serious. As a civil defence officer wani aiki ne zeyi da he can't have your time.. so he use to be in front of his oga from morning till evening? ko PA neh ai baze zauna office daya da oga dinshi ba.
If he loves you he will surely create time for you. Be wise and don't be used
Aji tsoron Allah
One thing u women need to know is dat dating an officer especially forces have little tym for demselves nd even their fam(majority of dem). Just learn to cope nd if u can't den look for a civilian
Find someone who gives effort as a standard, stop wasting your time with a man that doesn’t know what he wants sis
I dont agree with you.. but if u say time in terms of physical appearance i can agree
Yeah sure buh at times tooo even to call na wahala for dem
I am trying my best to be patient wallahi but as it is, the last time we spoke was last night. He never called throughout today. I've already gotten used to it.
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