What is the disadvantage of dating you???

poster to me what I understand on relationships is whenever we understand each other I feel like having the best boyfriend in my life, secondly understanding each other help in terms of whenever I am in a situation where he or both of us can solve it, I can ask advice from you. but to me I can have those conversation of 20 mins on phone calls I think is too if necessary I would like to chat with you not phone.

I'm another version of you living in the same universe...I always don't care! I'm not a relationship stickler... most people used to tell me that "banida nacin soyayya" just like you said about yourself, I also used to forgot that I'm in a relationship wlh... worst part ma shine; I don't enjoy lovey-dovey chats, I hate it self, it annoys me and I used to consider it as 'duk karyane'...more especially if you meet a silver-tongued devil 😂😂

I don’t like calls, I can send text, or chat with you as much as you want but calls should not be more than one minute a day. I’m working on improving this part of me especially.

my problem is i give dsame energy given to me , u care, i care, u don't?, i don't too, i always reflects my partners actions and give the same love given to me

Hmm

Haha I can't explain it but it seems ladies tend to like compliment a lot even if you are lying to them . As for Me I think it's all g@rbage If it's not coming from the heart. I make compliment and write sweet words occasionally and I like it when I do lol I do feel like Shakespeare and every word I pen down is coming from my heart . Most times people say I'm not caring and I kind of feel bad . I feel my brain is wired to define caring in a whole different way

I don't like constant calls too . Call in the morning afternoon evening midnight Ah ah its too much

Hmmm You probably don't love them well enough to risk it

I don't even like calls.

The truth is nowadays relationships are too demanding.. Sometimes, i question myself.. If i have what it takes to be in a relationship... I'm a struggling young guy.. Who sometimes got carried away sorting issues of life.. Even though, am very much available online n care enough.. Buh d ladies am in relationship with always complain i don't call even when i do once in a while.. I begin to question myself.. Why js it that ladies even if they know your condition cannot b satisfied with chats.. n maybe call once in a while even if they know chat can b a bit cheaper.. Why must them expect you to recharge all d time n call them?? Why do they have many expectations that engulfs money even if they know you're struggling.. Seriously at some point, i feel i don't have what it takes to b in a relationship....

baka hadu/baki hadu da Wanda kake so/kike so bane....that's why you re saying all this

Same here

I too don't like calls. Seeing the way people complain on how their partners don't call them make me feel relationship is not for me or I will have problems in my relationship. Cos the way I hate calls ehn. Like my phone ringing could put me in a bad mood or ruin my peace and kill my joy. And even if I plan to call, I'll procrastinate forever. My friend always used to tell me that I'd really have to try hard and change for my relationship to work if I'm really going to date. Fast forward to few months back when I met a special lady, omoh, I don't know how but she was the only person that when my phone rings and I see it's her I get overjoyed. I too call her a lot we spend 1 to 2 hours on phone. Sometimes up to 3 hours ma. If I had met someone in the past and the person tells me there will be a time I will use my own hand to call someone and spend an hour phoning, I'll be sure to call the person a liar with my full chest 😄😄. Unfortunately we had to part ways and now I hate calls more than I have ever

There's always Whatsapp call, it's economical. If that's not enough, you can get CUG lines and subscribe monthly.

lol 😂 of course if you are in love with someone..you will like to do something for that person even the things you hate doing

I easly get angry n sometimes i have an i don't care attitude

see me here smiling when you said you got a special one and always on the phone with her, but sadly it didn't have a happy ending. some disappointments are blessings, and that someone special is out there for you

I need a relationship

🥲there's someone out there who will reason with you and take you as you are. you have all that it takes for you to be in a relationship, just focus on your goals and believe in yourself.

….. I was outspoken and speak my mind without filter, I argue for the right things without compromising, I don’t get vulnerable, like that feminine energy was not there. I knew I was the problem. Then I went in a quest to make myself better. And I started reading articles and books on the female gender and how she could act. Then I became a better version of myself.

Thank you. Looking forward to meeting that kinda Babe.

In Sha Allah

Where are you chatting from if i may ask Sis?

I agree 😅

In sha Allah. Thanks sis 🤗