Anonymous
Dec 18, 11:27 AM
Relationships of Nowadays
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Relationships of nowadays is terrifying honestly, abin ya koma kamar dai Maza sune Mata and Matan kuma Sun zama Maza. After being Matched, they expect the girls to make the moves, the calls, the text and everything. Not only that, what's so annoying is that if you didn't call or text for two days or so, they won't bother to check on you.
Like seriously, and you guys are somehow planing to become life partners. Indeed! Allah is the best planner, but at least show some care for the time been before destiny decide on you two. There's no Relationship without communication, communicate to understand each other, if you're not interested tell her please and don't waste her time. Some will be claiming busy busy. Hello! Who's not busy in this life. Everyone in one way or the other is busy, just that there are very important things in life da dole yana buqatar little time out of your busy schedules.
It is seriously hurting me wallahi, just because a girl comes to a platform seeking for a partner doesn't makes her unworthy, there are several situations as to why a girl despite the shyness comes out boldly looking for a husband. And that doesn't give you(guys) the audacity to disrespect her or even look down on her. Walahi mace na da daraja da qima so show some respect.
I'm currently matched with a guy, not from this platform though. The guy seems smart, intelligent, Gentle, Calm and Religious. He's open to some extent and realistic. And honestly that's what attracted me to him coz irin qualities din nake so a wajen namiji kenan, amma shi matsalar shi sai ku kwana fiye da uku ma baku ji daga juna ba. Bani da much expectations amma inaga I can't be with someone da kamar ma be damu dani ba, I can't be with someone that can't check on me within 24hrs or so, I want someone caring enough. I'm just praying Allah ya mana zabin alkhairi daga ni har shi amma gaskiya bana jin dadin yadda yakeyi, maybe ko don ba shi ya ganni yace yana So ba, Wallahu A'alam. I think is just better to wait for Love find you on your doorstep. Sabida yadda Guys sukeyi nowadays is discouraging. I think will just focus on my career and other life activities dina na manta da wani maganar Aure, lokacin Mutum idan yayi ko a Ina yake Allah zai hada shi da rabon shi.
Allah ubangiji ya hada kowa da abokin\abokiyar zama nagari, wadan da zasu zama hasken idanuwar mu.
