Anonymous
Nov 19, 06:27 PM
how my marriage was called off
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I met this guy during lockdown and we started off pretty well. He met my parents last year and our marriage was fixed. his family and mine were cool. they met a couple of times. my issues with him started when we were about buying lefe. he asked me to make a list of everything I wanted and I did. we started buying things. he spoke to his sister and I guess she told him he shouldn't buy lefe with me. coz out of the blue he switched size and it was always my sister said this , my sister said that. considering the fact that I was way ahead of his sister I felt she couldn't buy anything to my taste. I spoke to him and he refused.... After they brought the lefe to. my house no. one was. impressed about it. not even my parents... so my mum called his sister and spoke to her. the next thing she sent my mum all kinds of messages that we should tell them if we don't want the wedding that we insulted them that our family is way better so they should take there lefe to a poor house where it will be appreciated. and between Allah and I that wasn't what my mum said.... I spoke to him about it and he didn't see anything wrong in what his sister did. rather he was asking me to call her and apologize. I told him I couldn't do that... when my mum ignored his sister. she got my dad's number and told him she has the right to stop the wedding if she wanted to and nothing would happen... so. many things. made me feel like she never wanted me to marry her brother I got so upset that even after everything he didn't apologize to my parents but rather wanted me to apologise to his. I asked him to come take his lefe coz I couldn't get married to him again. I. called off my wedding myself coz I couldn't watch anyone disrespect my parents... no one knows how I feel deep down in my heart and. how I'm hurting... I love him so much yet I had to compromise that for the respect of my parents.... wedding that was supposed to happen in a months time won't be happening anymore. I feel devastated I feel frustrated... I don't know if I did the right thing.
