Alhamdulillah I've always gotten a positive feedback from this forum and am forever grateful to the kindly advices. Am in a relationship with a married man that has 2 kids. We have decided to meet for the very first. We agreed on him coming to my house but he is insisting he won't enter inside my house because it is too early for him to meet my parents. I actually understand his point, but I feel is not a big deal if he gets to great my parents. And sometimes I feel he doesn't trust me that is why he don't want to come inside my house. Pls house kindly advice me we'll be meeting soon and I really want him to see my dad because he will be travelling for almost 3 years before he returns In Sha Allah.
U should tell about ur dad's journey if he instead about nit meeting ur parents, then sorry to say I don't genuinely like u
is early and isn't early, don't Rush yourself. understand eachother, I guess he has his own reasons don't won't to see your parents right away.
just be patient to him and see
a a baiwar Allah yaje gun manya Susan manufarsa.
domin a hkan sai ya bata Miki lokaci Kuma yyi gaba ba Wanda ya sanshi.
Amma idan yazo zai fadamusu maufarshi da Kuma lokacin da yakeji. zai iya auren ki idan yyi musu sai ki jira then relationship din zai zama me tsari Kuma babu dardar
sister, in all honesty a shariance when a guy sees a girl he likes he goes to her parent in ma he feels one kind he can take someone along with him and ask for izni ya din ga zuwa ku fahimci juna bawai cewa akayi aure za’ayi kai tsaye ba tun kafin ma wani talking stage in an daidai ta tohm Alhamdulilah in kuma ba adaidaita bama to Allah hada kowa da rabonsa amman, yakamata a din ga bin addini Iyayenki sune guardians dinki they suppose to be involved sai an nemi permission daga garesu .Ba daidai bane kuna chan a gefe kuna soyayya da ba’ason inda matsayin abin yake ba
I don't think it is early at all, in fact you are doing the right thing and best thing according to the Sunah. If he really wants to marry you, he shouldn't hesitate to meet your parents as quickly as possible except there is something he's not telling you. This will should even make him respect you so much because you have a sense of responsibility.
if not at home to where will u meet ai gara yazo gida koda harabar gidan kune koda be ga Baban ku ba zai ga wasu daga cikin yan gida suna dan shiga suna fita daga haka zai Fahimci gidan idan har bada gsk yake ba zaki ga bazai dawo ba
Thank you so much for advices....jazakumullahu khair
gaskiya wannan ba dagaske yake ba ki share shi duk samarin shaho ne na taba yin irinsu duk ba ko daya .duk mai sonki tsakani da Allah zaiso ganin iyayenki farko.
Wlhy hakane.....yanzu haka anyi bincike an gano ba mutumin kirki ne ba
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