I feel there?s an empty space what can I do
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Anonymous Jun 11, 09:45 AM

I feel there?s an empty space what can I do 1

I broke up with my girlfriend a long time ago and since then I have been feeling empty inside me like there’s a part of me that’s missing I feel I need someone to be close to me to be able to share my life issues and problem with someone that will always be there for me I feel I just need someone to be with badly but I cannot go back to my ex girlfriend because of the complexity in the breakup and I these few months about a year have been so much difficult for me Finding another girlfriend is like an uphill impossible task finding someone I truly love I tell my friends finding a girlfriend is not easy they laugh and are like you are the one that doesn’t know what to do it’s all just soo depressing they are like no girl can reject you but I don’t even know how to explain it please what can I do
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Khadijah Jun 11, 11:38 AM
You always have that one amazing creator that he is waiting for you to ask him. He said ask me and i will give you thank me and i will add more for you Make Dua he is watching you he will help you. go back to him, be faithful. You will find peace and solace while remembering him and he will give you the right girl at the right time. Kayi ta addaua
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Hawwa Adamu Jun 11, 01:11 PM
Well, what i suggest is that, you should be strong enough to train yourself on being single. if you really cannot live without a girlfriend then it is a weakness that you need to overcome because it shows your life can be dependent on it. i am not saying you should not find someone else but try to experience life outside relationship and train yourself to live in it. it is an advantage
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Adermsy Jun 12, 06:21 AM
Hmm walhi i have been going through exactly similar problem its morethan a year now that i have been without a G.F since my breakup,my frnds too always think am d one that is not interested in relship any more but no walhi bansan taya zan fara baneh,i just don't knw how to start allover again...nd gaskia my life hasn't been normal all this while ,i become more introvert i don't socialise with anyone nd always depressed Allah see us tru
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Shamsu Don Jun 12, 01:27 PM
i am just thinking of why will you as a man be feeling so empty because there is no woman in your life? women are not so important to the extent where you are feeling empty deep inside please find something else to fill that space not women. there are many things in life worth living and fulfilling than just a common woman. please bro think about it. you are a man make an agenda for your life outside girls they are not worth what you are feeling.
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Shamsu Don Jun 12, 01:28 PM

haba kawai soboda mace? please realize life is beyond women. you need to be stronger than this try and find something you are passionate about and fill that empty space you are feeling.
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Humayrer Jun 13, 11:38 AM

I feel its because you've not gotten over her,har yanzu da sauran son ta a zuciyar ka dats why u are finding it hard to get a new girlfriend
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Humayrer Jun 13, 11:42 AM
You are finding it hard to get another gf becos you are still attached to your ex..try as much as possible to get her off your mind since u cant go back,just den u might be able to welcome someone else into ur life....plus,never attach ur happiness to anybody to d extent it becomes depression
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Bng Jun 13, 02:38 PM
Firstly i wont criticize you coz love is real, and offcrs if you really did loved her, then you will be depressed or sad for a while and thats okay. That means you are human. And when your heart is hurt dole ka ji mata/ maza sun fitan maka daga rai. But you see komai na Allah neh fah, so why wont we just leave everything to Allah, face your career and try upgrading it, if you dont have one then focus on finding one. It whiles away time and unnecessary thinking. Another major question, how is your relationship with Allah?? Upgrade it, pray more Nafila, read more, do qiyam al layl more and while you are at it, Ask Allah to give you that wich is better and make your heart accept it. Just trust Allah, and ka maida komai ga Allah, you heart will gradually ease, you will find happiness in every blessings of Allah, and love will find its way to you. Trust me it works
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