How do you ask a guy out as a lady?
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Anonymous May 9, 03:23 PM

How do you ask a guy out as a lady? 2

How do you ask a guy you love out
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Meenah2 May 9, 04:18 PM
🤔u as a woman asking a guy out? sme1 should cme nd help a sis I want 2 knw too
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MuhammadS May 9, 06:06 PM
same way a guy asks a lady out. it's just a question of availability and interest. if the feelings are mutual, then the outcome should be obvious.. just that matan hausa da kunya, so you'll have to figure a way to slide in the idea...
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Anonymous #2 May 9, 08:46 PM

then you hug QADDARA kawai
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Anonymous #3 May 9, 10:17 PM
men can disappoint u dear sister,If u re not that valued to him he will take it as u re not serious,he will even make fun of u... but if u re luckily enough u re part of him he will take as ntn nd he may appreciate it!! knw who u re dating bfr asking for that,knw how he moves on his lifestyle first...
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MuhammadS May 9, 10:24 PM

akache the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. gwara haka ma kema daga Nan Kya huta da obsession din kawai. but then most of the time, there usually is a chemistry before a crush. idan bukuyi wa juna ba toh bazakuyi matching ba. it's a science of it's own dept. 😂 it's worth it to try gaskiya. you never know...
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Mustapha Ibrahim May 9, 11:06 PM
The hardest thing which is also the key aspect is finding a way to talk , finding mutual interests, finding common grounds . Here's how to ask a girl out if you are a guy If I saw a lady I like , first thing I'll do is finding an excuse to approach her ,if it is in public I will walk up to her and pretend to be lost and I'll be like do you know so and so place ? I can't seem to find my way there . From your question,there's a 90% chance that she knows what you are up to . Watch her facial expression and tone of her replies you will know if it's worth going further with her not . If she's open and free ,you can go ahead and ask questions in order to find mutual interest. I might ask her "is this place always hot like this" if she says yes that tells you she stays there. From there You can jokingly tell her to give you her contact just in case you get lost when coming there again. By this time,she knows your games and if she's interested she'll give it out if she's not she won't give it out . If she gives you her number then the ball is in your court . When you call , first thing to do is thank her, you should do most of the talking,try to make her laugh , try to know her more ,no deeply personal questions , don't rush,keep the conversation short and interesting. End the call when it's getting interesting . Don't call ,wait after a few days , call again, get to know her more , after some time if there's common interest and attraction,that means the field is clear . Shoot your shot. I won't teach you how to do that. If there's no common interest and it's always one sided (only you call,keep the conversation going etc) don't bother pursuing the relationship as it'll end in heartbreak. Remember don't rush . Take your time to know her
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Mustapha Ibrahim May 9, 11:30 PM
As a lady ,if you want to ask a guy out ,it's very easy compared to a guy asking a girl out . Like I said earlier find a way to talk , don't ever make the mistake of directly telling him you like him , you don't want to look cheap,don't be direct,it's a turn off . the key is to hold eye contact with him , look away when he looks back. If you don't know each other,you can walk up to him and ask for his timetable or lecture notes if he's in your department in school or ask him something like is he so and so person and did he attend so and so primary school,he looked just like your primary school classmate. He'll say no . Ask for his name, from there You establish contact. The next question is who makes the move ? He knows you are up to something,if he makes the move himself and looks eager etc . Huge red flag but if he acts uninterested, try to reach out to him first ,like sending him good morning messages on Whatsapp, asking if he has eaten and all those sort of things .after some days stop sending it . If he's interested he'll be disturbed and start messaging you first or calling you. From there You know each other more and decide to shoot your shot or not . This is a process ,don't rush, trying to know the person who you are interested in is better than asking them out. Be free but also maintain your class,don't be afraid to take a step back if you feel you are the only one pushing things.
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Anonymous #4 May 10, 02:21 AM
Ok so it must be a Yes or No, and it's better you know sooner rather than later. So just be like: Hey! There is this new restaurant that just opened and people are talking about it or just mention a place you wanna go. So I was wondering if you would like to join me some time next week? or tell me your availability Good luck! 😊
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Roqeeb May 10, 06:16 AM

My advice is "Do it for the sake of Allah." So, if it goes well, Alhamdulillah. and if not, believe Allah has a better plan for you. Barakallahu feekum
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Anonymous May 10, 07:49 AM

Wish me best of luck!! I will try it starting from today and give feedback in a week time if it’s negative I will surely cry here😂😂🥲
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Anonymous #5 May 10, 03:21 PM
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Please check your mail and you can take it down. thanks
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Engr Awwal Yarima May 16, 10:23 AM
how to ask
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