What men value most...beauty or character

Everyone to his opinion, I will always consider character as my highest priority, she doesn’t have to be that beautiful, as long as she is okay, knows her worth and has good self esteem, I am good. In the long run, it is the character that sustains the peace in the home, not the beauty. My peace of mind before anything else.

prioritize character over physical beauty because beauty may fade with time, while character is enduring and influences how she will raise your children, instilling good values and morals. many other reasons character is better than beauty

Some individuals are entirely focused on physical beauty, regardless of the individual's character. Conversely, those who place a 100% emphasis on character are exceedingly rare. What I mean here is that while some highly value character, to the extent that if a girl's appearance doesn't meet a certain standard ( I mean if she is not reasonably good-looking), she won't even make it onto their radar. However, even if a girl is exceptionally beautiful, if she lacks good character, they will simply acknowledge her and move on. Therefore, character plays a vital role for many, and beauty is undoubtedly a factor, but it is not the primary concern. I believe I am one of such individuals."

Seriously, me too this issue has been bothering me.. Though, am a Man but am stucked between two of my girlfriends thinking'bout who to choose between them. I like the first one because she's very humble, nice good.. But she's not good looking. While the other one is not as humble as d first one.... Believe me majority of people keep saying character is what sustains marriage not beauty and obviously it's a true saying.. But then, people highly regard beautiful ladies to the extent that some of your friends, family and relatives might mock you because of your choice...

As always on point.

true talk

Well, I do make mistakes sometimes also😂😂😂😂

But we should always prioritize peace,at the end those people dont get to live with you.the beautiful ones has the mentality even if i live i will get more suitors,the less beautiful ones tend to make their home work for they know the struggle.And as Always there are the good and bad ones in every category l.Allah ya zaba mana magi alheri

And humble too

Humble ke😂😂😂😂 please ooo😂😂😂

Always a pro in discussion 🤩🤩

😂😂😂😂 but a disaster in real life. 😂😂😂 I barely talk offline unless I’m with close friends or family, and they are few.

nace ba! this fair slim tall one da kinkace is she single?😂 character is basis men consider amman fah afterra day or two. day ones always beauty kuma for wii lots i think we can tell from the very first moment if we want to marry her go through the serious lane proper or just do guys theng forra bit and mueve on innit!

narabaka da she doesn't have to be beautiful 😂 Billahillazi tau!

slow down on the slangs...she is but nope...am a protective big sis and from the way you just spoke i dont think so.no offence

A’ight it's calm still. say less i hope I didn't say nothing wrong? would you like to adopt a likkle younger brada Me.!!!

Gaskiya in the society that we are today alot of people focus more on beauty than character both the male and the female which is very bad seriously

Like I said, everyone to his opinion. My choice isn’t necessarily gonna be yours. 😂😂😂😂

I wouldn’t want you to generalize, there are people out there whose priority is character and just pray and hope to meet them.

It's easily said than practiced... #Bitter truth

Just make duas to meet the right person that will treat you well. And also work on yourself for we all have our shortcomings, all the best.

People say its always the character that sustains marriage.. But then, it's easily said than practiced. Especially when you have sisters... Su zasu fara maganar meka gani ga wance da kake so. As in there are better options than her

So you allow the opinions of others to shape a decision that you will live with your whole life??? We are all really different. If they criticize her for lack of character, that’s okay especially if she really lacks character but criticizing someone based on looks, that’s even unIslamic, criticizing a creation of Allah over what they have no power on.

Character supersedes beauty without any doubt, however, even with good character the man has to be satisfied with her looks. Once the Prophet (SAW) asked one of his companions to go and look at his bride to be. This shows that even with good character, both males and females have their own preference. One may like a tall girl while the other may not, and for the ladies its vise versa.

Thank youuuuu👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾