assalamu alaikum I'm a young lady who is so full of life since my day one I grew up hearing my story as a jovial little girl that everybody loves toh yanzu I'm grown up alhamdulillah I'm a kind of lady who wishes to have a man that will give her that love and attention a man with the intention of marriage. like I have so many ways to Express love to someone I always learn about that but I haven't gotten the right man I feel like I'm in a wrong generation I'm a girl who loves a lovey dovey man cuz I'm a lovey dovey person but I haven't met the right man to Express those. I've been in a relationship where the man tells me I'm too good for him and I deserved better it happened to me more than twice and they tell me that same statement of"i deserve better" SO WHEN WILL I MEET THE BETTER PERSON " the society has made me hide my real self although I'm a happy person regardless I'm supposed to enjoy baby girl treatment 😭 not that men like that don't exist they do but I just see them doing that to other women and I feel those women are lucky to have the life I wish to have(not that I'm jealous of them ) I'm even happy for those ladies. my kind heart and loving heart is fading away due to meeting wrong men 😔 sometimes I feel like I'm under a spell or something (asiri) because whoever I met as a man tells me how wonderful I am and we never really breakup due to fight issue we just split because they think I deserve better 🤧 or they just ghost
just to add up my friend told me I'm too good and men deserve someone who is quite rude that's the only way they can be faithful is that true?
please never think you are under the spell.
have faith in Allah and yourself the right person will come.
I dont know your age I believe you are still young
thank you I'm 25yrs
wow I understand your concern now.
Insha Allah nagari zaizo so that by next year muzo biki.
Just keep praying and give other people a chance as well
Don’t worry the right man will come just keep praying and put ur trust in Allah
he’s the best planner
Any update from you?
I actually thought it's an old pos written years ago, lol
May be telling you, you are too good for them is just a polite way of saying there's something you're doing that's not okay. So just ponder more and if possible ask them not with the intention of going back to the relationship to clearly tell you what actually made them to leave you
not true gaskiya
Allah sarki…irin macen da nake so kenan
Same issue with me all the girls I'm meeting after investing so much trust and energy time financially emotionally they will end up saying I'm too gentleman and religious for them 😭 Im slowly giving up on love I presently focus on building my self my my career brand love is not for me.
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