There's a new me!!
Relationship
Anonymous Nov 3, 12:12 PM

There's a new me!! 0

Assalamu alaykum, good afternoon Arewa MM.. I am an active member of the platform, i want to share something with the platform. Sometime ago u strongly partook in giving me advice to not give up while i was at the verge of loosing following the horrible moments with my previous life. Alhamdulilah i am doing well now, thanks to you and others. But i think something changed within me, i have become too immune, timid, nonchalant about relationship, love and marriage, now i feel like maybe i was born to remain single and alone, God knows i have tried and i was extremely patient and embraced what crossed as part of my fate,. I am deeply praying, to become soft like i used to, now my brain, heart, mind thinks like a robot now, i now try to love me, take care of me, and never stressed me again.. Emotionally trauma is like an automatic ticket to early grave if one isnt prayerful and patient.
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Sgabdo Nov 3, 01:22 PM
that Will change too just keep praying.
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Anonymous Nov 3, 01:26 PM

Always in shaa Allah.. But I hope it doesnt affect me henceforth..
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Umar Abdulsalam Nov 3, 01:28 PM
ayya am so sorry
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Anonymous Nov 3, 01:29 PM

That is a result of emotional damage.. Allah ya kawo mana sauki
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Sgabdo Nov 3, 01:48 PM

it won't in sha Allah
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Tijjani Muhammad Nov 3, 05:47 PM
insha'Allah it will change as long keep praying, try something new out of your comfort zone. if you are really interested to talk to someone to keep you company I am here just email me tijjanimuhammad933@gmail.com
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Nasssss9 Nov 3, 09:35 PM
don't play with night prayers..I promise you will see changes,but make sure u are praying correctly. Starting from ablution all the way down...Allah did not forget about you sister..We will also include you in our prayers
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Anonymous Nov 3, 09:42 PM

Prayers, babu Wanda bana yi, already used to longer prayers.. I followed prayer links, pages, name it.. Nonstop, fervently...
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Xoxo zee Nov 4, 01:32 PM
Remember Allah loves you Step 1 avoid Haram relationship. Allah might just be testing you and your faith Step 2 , look for a hobby/ job you love doing. Focus your energy on it Step 3 , Duas and saddaqah goes a long way Step 4 , if you need a friend to talk to . @gambozainab700@gmail.com I'm one email away
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