Do married men with no female friends exist .
Anonymous Jul 17, 11:42 PM

Do married men with no female friends exist . 0

I have a fiancé ,he is average in deen ,and very brutally honest . I talked to him about stopping his interactions to his female friends after marriage yace abun ne mai wuya ya daina. Is it sth I should be worried about? The crazy thing is this man doesn't feel guilty about it . I'm scared . My brother introduced us , we clicked and got parents involved .When he told me he has 'chicks' I did my best since the beginning of the relationship to show him it is haraam for him to establish relationships with women who are “strangers” to him unless with in purpose of marriage . Please does talking to many girls makes him a womenizer . Should I break up the engagement. My sister told me even her husband has girlfriends not girlfriend ma 😭 Wai it's the new normal. By Allah I love this Man so much but What I don't understand is they want me to close my eyes and choose a person who knowingly wants to go astray as the father, and role model for my future children🥹. Ni rashin guilt din na damu na.
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Anonymous #1 Jul 18, 05:49 AM
Well, it depends on the type of friendship they are involved in. I am a Man & don't think just having female friends is Haram, it depends on your dealings with them if they engage in haraam stuff then, its haram. Else its okay to have just few around for friendship sake.
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Anonymous #3 Jul 18, 06:51 AM
it depends idan kawai gaisawa ne ko business ke hadasu. Ni idan bnda business da mace ko magana baya hadamu. Now in my area akwai mata sun Kai 20 yrs but I don't know their names. so ki tamby brother din ki womanizer koko
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Anonymous #4 Jul 18, 07:54 AM
Dear poster, First of all, having female "friends" doesn't = to a "womanizer" Second, unless he is engaging in a haram relationship with them, honestly you shouldn't worry. Third, when you say "talking to many girls" what does that mean? like just normal hello hi on social media? or long phone calls? or meeting with those "friends"? And finally, we guys will never suggest a person that we know is Dan air to our sisters, so the fact that your brother brought him, is goid enough to trust him. Wallahu a'alam 😊 Allah zaba mafi alkhairi
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Sadeeqsak Jul 18, 12:18 PM
i don’t think so
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Anonymous #2 Jul 19, 06:29 AM
Allah yahana but mazanan sunki ni nawa ma bestie inshi ce itace best friend dinshi...kuma ni banaso..am thinking of telling him but I don't know yadda zaiga abin
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Anonymous #5 Jul 19, 10:12 AM

Bawani depends.. Haram is Haram..shi dan iskanci ma har bragging yake da aikata haram din kenan ...magana ta gaskiya dan iskane..coz in wata bai samu hadin kai da ita ba definitely zai samu hadin dai da wata.
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jul 19, 01:55 PM

madam confront him and ask him me ysa zai zubar Miki da qima. don wlh ko hugging dinta yy zai ce Miki normal ne
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Nizam Aug 21, 12:26 AM
as long as he doesnt share sexual inuendos and flirtation with them its quet safe.............but let me tell you the truth men only keep female freinds for one reason and one reason only, that is if his current relationship fails he has places to elapse to......trust me...i also have female freinds and i think getting closer than freinds all the time, the only reason i dont is coz am married
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