how he left me with a broken heart
Anonymous Apr 8, 11:38 AM

how he left me with a broken heart 2

Hello, really I'm not good at this kind of stuff, so my story started ending 2018, I met this handsome guy, and we started dating, I was 16 then, freshly out of secondary school and he was 9 years older, I was full of life then, young, I had everything a teenager my age would ever ask for, and being my first, we became deeply in love, everything was a fairytale for me wallahi, after some months everything changed, no more calls from him, I became the caller, the crier, my best friend started stalking him on snapchat, the dude was cheating, when I knew about it, I dehydrated myself. I cried my life out, and still I went cool with it, everytime I get ignored I just cry, we later came to the phase that I don't cry anymore because of this quote "if you take poison everyday, it won't kill you one day" I no longer felt pain, but I still loved him, even after all he did, 11 month later, another issue of him cheating came up, with a girl young enough to be my baby sister, I confronted him about the matter, he didn't deny, I was deeply hurt, but I didn't cry, because I had no tears left for him, I broke everything with him. Even though that wasn't my wish, I loved him so much, to the extent that I've been praying for him, for 2 years of the relationship, my life was all about him, I was stupid, I was crazily in love, and I can't forget him, he took advantage of my innocence and he broke me so much that love is just a word to me, I'd like to call this an unjust love of a teenager.
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Khadijah Bashir Apr 8, 08:29 PM
Salamualaikum dear sister, You can and will forget him. Pray harder and put it at the back of your mind that whatever will be will be and whatever he has reaped he would surely sow. Try your best to move on with your life, because life has it's own share of happiness and sadness and simply because you're hurt doesn't mean you won't be happy. Be confident in your self that you would be happy without his thoughts and without his memories. Keep an open heart, for a beautiful page of love might be around the corner and don't forget that in life and love there is always ups and downs. May Allah SWT see you through this hard times. Amin.
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Anonymous #1 Apr 9, 03:37 PM
My sister when you were telling this story it felt as if you were talking about me. thats exactly what happened to me.he cheated on me with my bestfriend but when I confronted him,he denied it and was even on the verge of getting angry.at that time I love him so much that I couldn't imagine living life without him,so I let it go and after some days,he started giving me the silent treatment,I was always the one to talk to him first,he never called me.at that point I decided to give up on him.though it was the hardest decision I've ever done wallahi,I cried almost every day.I just had to hold mulyself from calling him.it took me 2 years to finally let him go completely from my,Although I do think about him somedays,but I no longer love him. What I did during those years was pray! I even fast just to ask Allah to help me forget about him and Alhamdulillah all is good now
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Nairobi Apr 12, 01:27 AM

Allah sarki..i really and seriously love my girl...the only thing that's scaring me is those last comers...i pray no one will snatch her from me cos im afraid i break into billion pieces...im sorry for ur sad story sis!
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