so I met my boyfriend in uni so everything so fine so we didn't stay for long about 3 days he said he want to see my parents And I told him not yet we hardly know each other so after one month we we're back at school things were going normal sha after a month he said he will like to introduce himself to my parents and I told my parents will not allow it because my family will say I'm too young to make a decision to get married and he was okay oo with I told after I'm done with school I will talk to them about it he said fine he's going to wait and he usually have stomach pains and he told me about it and I felt somehow oo and because I don't want to be selfish In my own way so I told him to look for someone that is ready to get married so that he can satisfy his urge for sex so this girl started dating one girl like this let call A so the relationship didn't last so his friend introduce another girl to him that's in kasu this girl let call her B .so this B is a final year in kasu and she's from zaira o and him also too .i do encourage him to talk to her and understand her so that things can go well so this guy hardly have my time he doesn't even care about me anymore I use to be the one that check on him and sometimes when I call him he will tell that let him pick call of the lady B it kept happening and I'm tired of staying in the relationship now because I just feel he doesn't regards me now .I use to be Patience with him in everything I use to obey .the reason why I told him to get a girlfriend was that if he marries her and when I'm done with my school we will get married and I will be this second wife I don't mind but now I have made of my mind I'm not more doing again dama I never want live in zaira let me tell you his rule he told me that if we get married I will not go to work i will work as a full housewife it a compulsory to wear hijab visiting of family is when necessary only Important things kuma the maximum of my stay is one week fah kuma with time I will be wear niqab fah 🤧 kuma he want many children like 12🤧 for one wife kuma this guy hardly care about me now everything he mention his girlfriend name into my hear I don't like it and a day before yesterday I wanted to him to know how it feels so I told about a guy my friend introduced me to him he started reacting about it fah kuma it's a lie Wlh it pain when I told him about the guy I'm this type of a girl that I Don't double date no Matter what happens even to talk to guys I don't do that so men sha no Dey fear God