Aug 31, 09:43 PM

Why does it seem like men don’t value the woman that lives them

I have often reflected on a question that troubles many hearts: why does it sometimes seem as though men do not value the woman who truly loves them? It is a painful reality that many women give their all, love, care, devotion, and sacrifice, yet their worth is overlooked. The truth is that when love becomes certain and sure, some men fall into the trap of complacency. They stop putting in the effort they once showed, believing the love will always remain no matter how they treat it. This is a great mistake because love, if neglected, grows weary and the heart that gives endlessly without appreciation will one day go silent. There are also men who chase excitement more than stability. They pursue novelty, failing to realize that the real treasure lies in the woman who stands firmly by their side. Some others wrestle with pride or insecurity, not knowing how to honor the love they are being freely given. Sadly, many only discover her value when she has already walked away. My message to men is simple: never take for granted a woman who truly loves you. If she prays for you, supports you in stormy days, and brings peace to your soul, you are holding a treasure beyond price. Protect her heart, cherish her presence, and never allow familiarity to blind you to her worth. And to women, remember this also: love is not meant to drain you or make you feel less than what you are. A man who truly understands love will honor you, uplift you, and never let you question your value. Love is not a game. It is not to be played with or carelessly handled. It is a sacred gift, a bond that should be nurtured with gratitude and respect. Let us all, men and women alike, stop taking for granted the ones who love us deeply. For in the end, life is too short to lose a good heart that was always there for us.

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Sep 4, 11:32 AM
men will never understand this. Your gender prefers hurting us and making us feel like we are the villain in the story but Allaah knows best
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