Seeking for advice
Relationship
Anonymous Nov 9, 09:08 PM

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Assalamualaikum pls I need your advice and suggestions. there is this girl I meet on dating platform for the past 3 months we are still talking. she is cool beautiful. she is the type of lady I have been praying to have All my life. and finally I got her. the issue here is. it's been 3 months since we meet. she accept me everything is going well. but the problem is i still don't feel connected with her. we sometimes want to chat but we both loose idea and not knowing what exactly to discuss about. she will be online i will be online too. but after greetings it all turns out to awkward moments same thing on phone call. our bond is not getting stronger at all. pls what could be the problem and pls can someone suggest solution because i can't afford loosing such a kind and beautiful soul in my life
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Saibladan Nov 9, 10:00 PM
Ask what's her favorite food, color... 😂
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Sgabdo Nov 9, 11:48 PM

he Said 3 months fah I think they have past that Long ago
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Anonymous #1 Nov 10, 06:07 AM
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to make this connection work. Go back over your recent chats and interactions to see if there’s any sign of a disconnect or recurring issue. Sometimes, you may come across someone who just isn’t very engaging, giving short or unenthusiastic replies that make conversation feel forced. If this seems to describe her, don’t stress too much about making every interaction lively or perfect. One approach that worked for a friend, though it’s a bit of a risky move, is to suggest a double date where she brings a friend and you bring one too. This can create a relaxed group dynamic and help break the ice. Plan some light activities or games to make it fun, take a few photos, and then create a group chat for the four of you afterward. This shared space gives you all something in common to talk about and naturally keeps the conversation flowing without as much effort on your end. In this new group chat, you’ll get a chance to see how she interacts with her friend and respond to shared experiences, making it easier to keep conversations going without forcing it. Just be aware that these situations can sometimes lead to unexpected chemistry with the friend or vice versa, so stay focused on your main goal and be mindful of any shifting dynamics.
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Nov 10, 10:25 AM
3 months fh kaii 😂😂 anyway malam love is stupid. ka rinka bata lbr na nishadi kamar na magana jari Dana mijin novel😂
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Jibril saeed Nov 10, 04:20 PM
you're still a junior lover bro, try hard to upgrade to senior.👍
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Anonymous Nov 10, 04:52 PM

you made mention of games. can you please suggest the type of games that can be played. because if things go as planned she is going to be my future wife. without proper communication we can't get to know each other
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Saibladan Nov 10, 09:21 PM

Just being sarcastic brr, why would he even ask that
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Anonymous #2 Nov 10, 09:51 PM

Toh in My Case Mine Give me such Stories Believe me it's interesting. Bringing Out Moral Values in this kind of Stories. it will help Out In Shaping your future kids.
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Nov 10, 10:04 PM

rabu dshi maybe if am not mistaking u are not grown-up man . soyayya dole sai ka koma kamar baka da wayau idan kana son saka partner farin ciki. may own beb na bata lbrn irin cooking da male students suke na hauka. so abun Yana bata nishadi idan taji hauka da akayi wurin cooking din. you must act childish in other to make her happy
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Nov 10, 10:07 PM

bro knn. if you really love her you have to find a solution to make her happy. dole kayi abinda sai ta Bude baki tana dariya sosai ba tare da ta sani ba. you have to study her sosai. dole ka rinka mata abinda idan kazo ka tafi sai tayi spending hours tana tunanin ka. ko Kuma idan lkcn yyi bata jika ba she gonna call Y
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Bulama A Nov 11, 04:44 AM
You guys should stop trying to be perfect, you guys should be yourselves
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