Never been in a relationship.
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Haidar Ali Feb 12, 05:30 PM

Never been in a relationship. 0

Few days ago someone made mention that he has never been in a relationship and some people found it odd despite his age. The incident got me thinking; Is it a must for one to be in a relationship or must have been in a relationship or more at a certain age? Is relationship that cheap that anyone at anytime can decide they want to be in a relationship regardless of whether they have a goal or not? Or if the goals are justified? Has people's hearts become something anyone can just toy with at anytime and move on to the next? I'm not ruling out the fact that there could be reasons like being unwell physically, mentally, spiritually etc. But that isn't always the case. Even an unwell person can still be in a relationship the way some relationships are these days. It is like some people don't think it through before jumping into relationships. They just act as their hearts dictate and then end up hurting themselves and/or others. A lot of people are in relationships just for the fun of it. That is why there are so many broken people in this generation. Lots of hearts have been broken more than they should. No regards for love. I believe relationship or courtship or dating or whatever name it has, should be sacred and should only be with the purest of intentions. I know sometimes there's that feeling that if you don't make the move now you're going to lose the person for good. So you just jump in. But forget not that there's that special person written for you (unless you're destined to go back as you came 😅😅. Which could be unfortunate). Find comfort in that. If they are yours, both of you will definitely find your ways to each other at the end of the day. You can also confess your feelings to someone and still not be in a relationship with them. Telling someone how you feel about them and being in a relationship can be two different things. Don't come for my head abeg. Nayi nan 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️
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Fatima Zarah Feb 12, 06:18 PM
Yeah i agree with what you're saying, there is a time a friend of mine was asking me if I'm in relationship and I said No I'm not in any relationship and her reply was kuma kinajin Normal......not everyone has the feeling of being in relationship and not all relationships are emotionally stable for one's well-being.
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Anonymous #1 Feb 12, 07:07 PM

akwai best friend Dina wlhy Bai taba shiga wani relationship Bah har yanxu he is almost 30yrs
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Ferteemah Feb 12, 07:28 PM
That’s true sister🙏there was a time a (male) friend of mine yace are in relationship? my answer was No and guess what he said wai “as beautiful as you are you don’t have a boyfriend, wannan ba girmanki bane ba” can you imagine😂💔
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Ahjummaah Feb 12, 08:27 PM
Thank you poster wlh it’s better not being in a relationship than a heartbreak 💔 sai dai kaga ana serving wasu breakfast ya kamata ace duk abunda mutum zaiyi kar ya manta da addua in ka rike Allah ka gama komi Allah yasa mu dace 😊
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Isma'il Abdullahi Feb 12, 08:55 PM
Hhh if someone post his issue about a girl serve him breakfast wlhy I'll just laugh insha Allah I'll not be in any relationship till the days I want to get married why hurting myself for no reason saboda Allah haba I can't be in a relationship that's why my life now it's perfect in my view and Alhamdulillah I've been enjoying my life so I will not carry wahala put inside my heart may Allah see us through all
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Anonymous #2 Feb 12, 11:01 PM
I can relate wallahi, ni ma dai I've never been in a relationship. Da in aka tambaye do u have a bf, idan har nace aa toh zancen shineh "anya kamar ke dinnan,haba wasa kike" abeg nazo kawai nayi deciding if person ask me I'll just tell him yes I've got a bf. so dayawa ina tambayen kaina toh meh aciki in ban da saurayi din, akwai lokacin da wani har ce min yyi kodai ni yar lesbian ce ,hmmm ni kan ma rasa meh zan ce mishi nayi Allah. abun sai a slow
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Haidar Ali Feb 13, 12:17 PM
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😂😂 Ai the deed has already been done
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Haidar Ali Feb 13, 12:18 PM
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If I should say no are you going to delete the screenshot?
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Haidar Ali Feb 13, 01:09 PM
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You don't need my permission biko. After all it is your phone not mine
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Haidar Ali Feb 13, 01:09 PM
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😀😀😀
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Asiya Aliyu Feb 13, 03:20 PM
Allah yasa mu Dace..Allah ya. zaba Mana Mafi Alkhairi🤍
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Haidar Ali Feb 13, 04:28 PM
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👌🏽
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Musa mufida sanda Feb 13, 08:12 PM
bro it's ok....no mind dem....the aim to b happy
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Haidar Ali Feb 13, 08:18 PM

Abi o my sister
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Musa mufida sanda Feb 13, 10:52 PM

yeah.....mental health over everytin
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Anonymous #3 Feb 18, 11:03 PM
for me this is normal
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Haidar Ali Feb 18, 11:18 PM

it should be
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Amsah Feb 22, 06:11 PM

yea but my brother catch up please
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Haidar Ali Feb 22, 06:17 PM

I don't get you. Catch up as how please?
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Amsah Feb 22, 09:19 PM

try be in a relationship 😊 you will learn
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Haidar Ali Feb 23, 05:04 AM

😄😄😄 What makes you think I'm not in a relationship at the moment or never been in one?
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Haidar Ali Feb 23, 05:06 AM

But first of all, what will I learn? Let me understand this first let it not be as if I misunderstood
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