Way out please
Relationship
Anonymous Nov 7, 09:33 PM

Way out please 2

I’m the type with particular taste when it comes to girls (mai tarbiya, fara, siririya, doguwa). Now that I’m looking for a serious relationship that’ll end up to marriage I’m finding it difficult meeting up with my taste. There’s this girl in my area and of which her Mom (late) is a friend to mine that fits perfectly to my taste, but she used to call me “Yaya ******” , currently studying and she doesn’t have any suitor on ground; sourced from her sister. The thing is my parents just of recent, suggested her for me. Now I don’t know where to start or how to confront her (clueless ). I called her once letting her know that i have her as contact and she said it’s okay, no problem.
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Mr. Aulaz Nov 8, 10:34 PM
well, I can understand how you feel. I think just tell her u want to be friends, and then be communicating frequently kuna Hira like friends do and then u can take it further and start dating after sometime in the friendship.
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Aiesher sadiqq Nov 13, 10:03 AM

Yes, just start as friends, get to know each other before beginning a relationship. Call her often, say hi. ku Dan Yi Hira, gradually the friendship will build up.
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Anonymous Nov 22, 05:47 PM

Thank you all for the advice, after the first call, I performed istihara concerning the issue and Allah has shown me a way out. I sent her a message one Friday night like that, “how was her day” ba reply, following day I called, we did the formal greetings asking that and that and that’s all. Like 30mins later, I received her message stating “she’s in a relationship with someone who already asked her out through her Father. 😂 I had to pronounce “ALHAMDULILLAH” loudly.
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Bng Nov 26, 12:11 PM
In this era of social media, courting a girl is easy my brozer, almost everyone is on whatsapp, so just chat her up regularly, develop a consistent friendship and then move to relationships. Good luck
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