is he the right guy for me? what are the things to consider
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Anonymous Nov 11, 12:39 AM

is he the right guy for me? what are the things to consider 2

so I've been in a relationship with this guy for over a year now and it's kind of on and off because he usually leaves after an argument or something doesn't sit well with him so he disappears for a while and then comes back again. He's made his intention clear that he wants to marry me from day one. so we had a fall out and he came back recently and he's still on the marriage matter, he wants to get married as soon as possible now. I am not there mentally because I feel like he can just go off whenever he wants to and I can't emotionally connect because of that. what are your thoughts???
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Anonymous #1 Nov 11, 08:23 AM
I think the first question, do you really like him? if you do. Have a conversation with him about being consistent and the others you feel about him, just be honest with him. If he is meant for you, he is meant for you
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Saudat Mansur Nov 12, 08:21 AM
idan har kina sanshi,kiyi istikhara kamar yadda ma'aiki (s.a.w) ya koyar damu
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Anonymous Apr 24, 07:40 PM
if he keeps going on and off that means he hasn’t made up his mind yet. just because he told you he’s ready for marriage doesn’t mean hes saying the truth. his actions need to match his words. you can keep him as option because in all honesty that’s what he might be thinking of you as. give other people chance and see how it goes
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