I need an advice about our relationship with my cousin
Relationship
Tmama Jun 9, 07:19 AM

I need an advice about our relationship with my cousin 3

Malama I need your advice and yan aji abt our relationship with my cousin.. Muna soyayya dashi amma no any sign of care, affection or anything, in na mishi magana sai yace shi haka yake kuma b4 kafin mu fara soyayya mun fi shiri sosai amma yanzu I don't know why ya chanza yanzu abun ma ya zama worse cuz sometimes ma ce min yakeyi ya fasa daga bays kuma yazo yace wasa yake min but still babu any sign of care.. I'm confused Malama yana min wasa da hankali kuma abun yana damu na kuma ya fara affecting karatu na. Pls I need your advice and yan aji. Thank you
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Sa'ada Jun 9, 08:05 AM
Don't kill yourself please let him go if not edan akayi auren keh ceh zaki sha wahala namiji kabarshi yana follow up ma ya ka qare ballantana kai kakeh yi maybe kin nuna mishi excessive love & care that's why namiji Zuma neh sai da wuta I know it's hard to let go of someone you truly love but gsky the best thing to do is kiyi istikhara
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Deejangala Jun 9, 09:21 AM
Maybe yafi dacewa ku tsaya as just cousins he is taking you for granted, ke kike bin shi shiyasa yake miki haka, it will be hard but move on, ki share shi,kin fi karfin haka dai. Allah yahada da wanda yafi shi... Ameen
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Phartymerh Jun 9, 12:29 PM
it seems like he has taken your love and concern for granted. try to ignore him for a while and see idan ze damu. idan ya nuna be damu ba ki rabu da shi kawai. Insha Allah zaki samu me sanki sosai ahankali just don't rush.
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Khalid Jun 9, 06:38 PM

Nikam nafi gamsuwa da wannan shawarar, may be feelings da take dashi tun farko yafi nashi. Give him space and time, if he’s in zai hankalta, idan akasin hakanne kuma kinga shikenan. NB: pray for the best if it!
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Jamcy Jun 10, 07:20 AM
may Almighty help you
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Asiya muhammad Jun 10, 07:46 AM
Please sister run for your life. Let him go, and continue praying for miji nagari someone that will loves you morethan you love him.
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MARYAM MANSUR Jun 10, 08:37 AM
Pls ki zaunar dashi kuyi magana ta fahimta, if he is no longer interested he should let u know coz I sense deception from our story n most importantly do istihara and give Allah zabi. May Allah guard us against all evil.
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Fatima Shettima Abba Jun 10, 09:12 AM
Kiyi ending relationship din kawai. Sai kiyi addu'a Allah ya kawo miki na Gari and kiyi addu'a Allah ya cire miki sonshi idan ba alheri bane....and kiyi avoiding duk abinda zai sa ki tuna shi just focus on ur education
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AnDex_Blaq Jun 10, 10:00 AM
He doesn't love you right from the start, he just wanted to be in a relationship because maybe most of his friends are in one, for the fact that you are related, he has taken you for granted. You know what to do to get back your respect, I don't need to spell it out. Show him you are worthy of someone better, focus on your studies also, it gives me joy seeing area girls studying.
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Ibrahim baba Jun 10, 10:19 AM
He is your cousin and oldest friend because probably you grew up together so you know more about him than anybody else. If you feel the relationship is not healthy or he is being pressured then you should have a heart to heart discussion with him and know where he stands. He might have met somebody else that's why he is giving you these signs. Or he just want to see if you really love him that's why he is testing your emotions so if this is the case then you need to pay him in his own coin by reciprocating to the way he is acting because everything in the relationship is reciprocal. That is, if he not shown in emotions then you too should stop showing emotions or care and if he says 'ya fasa ' sometimes you too should say 'na fasa' tit for tat. And that will show if he is serious or not or he is just looking for a way out.
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Hindatu paris Jun 10, 04:00 PM
Sit him down and talk to him. Kinuna mishi wat he is doing is hurting u to d extend that ur not doing gud in ur studies.inhar bai gyaraba my sister the world is a bigger place to roam let him be. Allah zai kawo miki Wanda yafishi
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Bng Jun 24, 01:58 PM
I think its coz he noticed kin mutu mai neh. You know most guys have this stupidity of taking girls who loves them a lot for granted. So catch your head, stop showing him love, or care, ki shaare shi kawai, kaman baki damu ba. Idan yana son ki zai dawo yayi ta neman ki, idan kuma dama ba son ki yake ba, shikenan, Allah ya baki wanda ya fi shi
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An_chindo Jun 25, 12:37 AM
This is a serious issue, kuma I think kina son shi sosaine ammah maganar gaskiya baya sonki kuma to me is better ki samu ki manta dashi karki saka rayuwarki cikin damuwa.
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