Hello everyone, men in this platform - I'm here to look upon your views about a working class lady- the question is that : za ka iya auren macen da takeyin aikin gwamnati ? Ko kuma zaka iya barin matarka tayi aiki gwamnati? I've discussed this issue with some of my colleagues and 70℅ of them prefer a non working spouse .and I was surprised of their various reasons for that. What's your own view and justify ?
Unless she's needed in an essential feminine-centric field like medicine (especially O&G), I prefer she stay at home. Even then, there will be rules, like 'the children come first'. When women work, their children are neglected.
Also, she should be a sensible, trustworthy, pious and reliable woman, because she will be exposed to a lot of fitnah at work. She should know how to shut it down firmly. Many women respect their boss more than their husband. That is not a good situation.
I’ve come across a lady that seeks for divorce from her husband. her reason was he asked her not to work after marriage and she agrees. she left her well paying job for him and got married. after some years, with two kids.. she seeks for divorce. her reason was; she was tired of always asking him money for her needs, she was tired of always being told no by the husband because money was not enough.
since he can't afford 100% of her why don't he allow her to work or run a business!
kawai ni dai matsala ta kishi, Kuma wasu mutanen kamar animals su ke basa Gani suyi shiru Koda matar aure ce
ni to me gsk bana da problem as long as zata kiyaye daga mutanen banza, Kuma zata bawa Yara dni time. then am good to go.
sbd am very sure cewa I can't afford her 100% responsibilities but I would try my best to make sure she got all what she want, even if she's working or run a business period!!!
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