Anonymous
Jan 23, 02:24 PM
He wants to be intimate with me & our marriage is already in process
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Assalamu alaikum...
am here to seek for advice and prayers, am in dilemma, I have a boyfriend that we have been in a relationship for like 8yrs , but the relationship is on and off for the 8yrs not steady, around 2020 muka cigaba da relationship, I noticed he want to have sex with me which I deny, har mukayi fada but he still come back that he cannot leave without me, so around December 2022 he plan to take a step forwarder and I agreed, normal procedure are taken gaisuwar iyaye and finally date was fixed this January, the date fixed is 7month, we're happy and we started planning most of the part of lefe is done in less than 4weeks, so yesterday we are together I cooked his favorite he come to pick it up, so we're into conversation and he request for sex I ignore him and left, so earlier this morning I wake up to see his missed calls and messages, shi ya gaji bazai iya jurewa ba he need sex if not he will find it somewhere else idan nan yarda ba, to me I make a promise I'll never commit zina and pray it should not be in my destiny, ko za a sa wuka a wuya na bazan aikata ba, his words are unpleasant sometimes I feel like to tell him yaje yayi mana but I don't want to push him to do unlawful, and the way he keep pressuring me am depressed, I have this taught in mind I should involved my parent to know what is actually happening between us ko zai daina treating dina because na gaji, bana son mutuncin sa da kimarsa ta zube a idonsh, Ina sallar dare da addua kullum but astagfrullah...like my prayers aren't answered, please advice me😭🤲🏻
