Good communication is often underrated in all relationships, be it parent to child, siblings intending partners and even married couple.. Am a lady so I will talk from our point of view.
I have always wanted someone who I can communicate well with, someone I will be able to say anything to without being judged.I have notice most men lack good communication skills... Is either they let the lady steer the conversation, and contribute so little to the conversation that will make her feel he is not interested. And with time the lady will suppress so many things she wants to say.
We ladies tend to overthink... We create many scenarios in our head when we don't understand your actions.. And sometimes those scenarios makes us so paranoid we react in the wrong way. We are wired differently pls guys learn to communicate well. There's no harm in picking up your phone and texting 1.babes I will be too busy today do not worry incase you don't hear from me
2.You did this and am not happy.
3.i need some space, no you didn't do anything wrong... Am just trying to sort some things out.
4.thank you I like it when you do this
5. I love the affectionate you
6. It's been a rough day I need some love.
7.i love this and this about you and I will love you to improve on this and this...
Please guys we need good communication. Learn to show your emotions.. I take God beg una.
great advice thanks alot dear
good though but this problem you talk about (communication) isn't about men only even some woman have the same attitude,
communication really matters in relationship but it depends on your partner,
is it someone that open up in everything about his lifestyle to you?
if no
then it will be very hard to understand how you feel for you nevertheless to have good communication.
Moreover we have individual differences and we can't be equal.
we should just wish our self to have a relationship both of us we will show ourselves equal love.
Indeed communication matter in relationship
Allah yabamu dai dai damu
Masha Allah thanks Allah ya hada kowa da daidai shiii
Amin ya rabbi
True..yep the problem is with both genders.and communication isn't always surutu Cha Cha Cha... It's about seating down with your partner and discussing likes, dislikes boundaries.. Etc
yeah are you right they should be open to each other
the problem is Women don't Know What They want... I Do All This. But Still be taking for granted....
sorry
Jazakallah
My number 1 priority is to find a partner I will be able to talk to. My parents have that and I would love to have that...
I also have this kind of attitude of not calling my lady even though I always use to think that when I call her what should I be saying or talking about since we shouldn't be talking about a single issue everyday
you will have that too in sha Allah... when you do don't play with it pls.... you will be left with regret when you do
You can text...
1 Hey there just checking in
2.I saw this and and it reminded me of u
3.hey there you just cross my mind.
Etc... I have more but this will help...
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