Is this normal?
Relationship
Anonymous Oct 18, 08:41 PM

Is this normal? 0

I was scrolling through social media and I came across a recent photo of my ex boyfriend and his wife, she has given birth and I felt jealous, I did not even know he had married let alone having a child. He and I used to date and we were very much into each other but he was even more into me than I him. The last time we spoke was in 2021, we didn't fight, we never broke up, we just didn't contact each other. Then one time like that I just saw that he had unfollowed me on social media, I was just like whatever I don't even care and moved on with my life, I didn't try to find out why (back in 2021). Fast forward to October 2023, 2 years after we stopped talking, I saw photos of him and his wife and Wallahi it hurt me so much. I don't know why because I really thought that I didn't care but Wallahi seeing that made me cry, I realized that I miss him and I wished that it was me. I feel bad for feeling this way because as someone whom he once loved I should be happy for him but instead I'm feeling this way. Prior to seeing the photos I can safely say that I had forgotten about him, so I don't understand this feeling. This has never happened to me before with any of my exes. Is this normal? I feel like it shouldn't affect me the way it did given the fact that we have been apart for such a long time.
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Sgabdo Oct 18, 10:27 PM
just Try ANd Forget....You Don't Love him You Just Got Jealous. Maybe his Wife Is Pretty. maybe because you are not married. so just pray for him and. your self and move on
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Anonymous #1 Oct 18, 11:38 PM
To be frank and sincere, I don't pity you. Now you have seen where your habit of 'in baka nemeni ba bazan nemeka ba' or 'ai shine ya kamata kullum yana kirana'. You see where it led you to?
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Ahmad Aysha Oct 19, 01:02 AM

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Ahmad Aysha Oct 19, 01:04 AM
Just pray for him and his family that's the only thing u can do now, He was into u once and is like u did not love him, because if u did u could have reached out when he stopped the communication, so just pray so that u will get urs too
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Ibrahim 1 Oct 19, 01:18 AM
move on my sister
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Anonymous Oct 19, 01:27 AM

Thank you, I wasn't looking for your pity anyway. I have everything going good for me and I'm getting married to someone I love next month in shaa Allah so I'm definitely not regretting anything. I just experienced a feeling I didn't understand that's all.
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Zee Abdul Oct 19, 06:15 AM

its not like that, because you think its something of pity, she already mentioned she even forgot about him its just a feeling she got.
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Anonymous #1 Oct 19, 07:20 PM

You are getting married to someone next month, then why were you crying when you saw his pics trending on social media? Har kina hoping inama ace kece. You really thought you didn't care but har kuka kikayi da kikaga photonshi da iyalinshi....😅😅😅 Ahhbeegg, batun bakya dana sani duk bata taso ba..kuskure kin riga da kin yi shi and you have to admit it whether you like it or not. Truth is bitter
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Anonymous #1 Oct 19, 07:24 PM

Had it been she forgot, she wouldn't have cried out when she saw their pics. pls wat feeling is that?
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