I want to break up with my boyfriend
Anonymous Nov 5, 03:31 PM

I want to break up with my boyfriend 0

Salamu alaikum i have a habit of loving wholeheartedly and I always end up being hurt, whenever na fara so to da duk zuchiya nakeso and seriously i want to stop or adjust cos my current boyfriend is showing me shege this man is giving me red card but i kept ignoring cos I can't bansan yadda zanyi in cire shi a raina ba💔 please advice me on this, yadda zamu rabu without me getting hurt sosai and also how to love irin kadan2 dinnan Thank you❤️
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Sgabdo Nov 5, 04:06 PM
Well I Will Advice You To Pray First.. And Try Talking to Him And Working Things Out. Breaking Up Is Not Always the solution Not Anyone or Any Relationship Is The way It Should be, So Try Fixing it Not Breaking it. if What he is Doing to you is in his character And You know You can't deal with it If You guys marry Then. tell Him You the things you Don't like. nd Ask Him What He Don't Like You guys Should correct. if You Can't then Take your Time and Make it Slow in a Way You Don't hurt him or your Self. make it a Gradual process.May Allah Make it Easy For You
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Al-Ameen Abubakar Nov 5, 04:27 PM
Wslm.... On my take kamata yayi kisamu ku tattauna masalaha, domin kuwa rabuwar soyayyah akwai ciwo musamman mutumin da kakeson shi tsakani da Allah (with all heart)... Idan kuma ba'a sami daidaito kada ki dagawa kanki hankali, ki cire dukkan tunaninshi ta hanyar dena tunaninshi ko kuma nesanta da dukkan wani hanyar da zaki dinga tunaninshi. Domin hakan zatasa ki manta da dukkan wani radadin ciwo... Haka kuma idan kika tina dashi kidinga rayawa kanki cewa fa "ubangiji ya rabakune domin shi ba alkhairi bane gareki" Daga karshe ki dinga yawan azkhar da neman tsari da dukkan abin dayakasance ba alkhairi bane gareki.
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Umar Abdulsalam Nov 5, 04:30 PM
kiyita Addu'a sa'annan kidena tunaninshi idanma zakiyi tunanin nashi to kidinga tuna mumman halinshi ahankali zakiga kin rage sonshi
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Abubakar Usman Nov 5, 04:42 PM
Waalaikum assalam! first you need to ask yourself why you love him that much, and if there is no significant answers than you are just dating him because you don’t want to be alone. being hurt or getting hurt is almost normal in any relationship you need to also put that in mind but however when you really love someone never ask for love in return or else you will get hurt. I advise that if you really love him just talk to him exactly how you feel and if he still gives you red card then believe me there are many men out there that are looking for someone exactly to treat like a princess. please never beg for love or else it will hurt you more… may Allah ease your affairs Ameen.
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Ummeetaa Nov 5, 04:53 PM

I love him fisabilillah but the thing is getting out of hand, we talked on this (exactly how i feel)more than once but the answer is always thesame "SORRY"💔but nothing change! Yanayin hakan ne using the love i have for him Ameen jazakallah
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Suleiman Mukhtar Ibrahim Nov 5, 05:07 PM
I think you should pray about it and try to talk to him and see if he will change but if he doesn't then come let me give you some tips on how my girlfriend did when we had our own problem.
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Abubakar Usman Nov 5, 05:37 PM

I think you have the wrong definition of loving a person fisabilillah... loving someone fisabilillah means you will always want the person for him. meaning if it's the best for you guys to marry Alhamdulillah and if he has someone else also Alhamdulillah because only Allah knows who is best for who... men don't like it when a girl is too in love with them because they always need space. when next you pray ask Allah if his the best for you then HE should grant your wish and if his not then Allah should should remove the love you have for him... that's exactly what I did with my ex fiancée and now she's happily married Alhamdulillah 😊 may Allah give you the best among the rest Ameen 🙏
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Fatima Aminu Adam Nov 5, 05:59 PM
sister just pray saiki barwa Allah komai
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Maryam Sulaiman Nov 5, 06:28 PM
Me too I'm like that buah wlh yanxun sae dae mutum yaga shege shikadae infact Bama na soyayyar kwata kwata yanxun. My advice here is ki cibaga da addua indan har shi naki ne he will surely be kuma ki daena nunawa saurayi baxaki iya rabuwa dashi ba shiyasa kike ganin Shegu.
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Ummeetaa Nov 5, 06:28 PM
Sgabdo Nov 5, 07:21 PM

you are welcome...
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Sabir Nov 5, 07:56 PM
He is treating you that way cos you made him feel you can’t do without him. you should start making him fee less important.. try to focus on your peace of mind.. pray too.. engage on things that would help get your mind off him.. self restrain and lots of Zikir. ✌🏽
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Sgabdo Nov 5, 10:07 PM

don't Follow someone footsteps you will miss yours in the process
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Suleiman Mukhtar Ibrahim Nov 5, 10:52 PM

Sabir already said it all,don't give him that much power over your heart ❤ try to learn to hold your emotions for him not to feel powerful like you can't do without him and above all pray over it.
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Yasmeen Nov 6, 03:37 AM
You either quit or keep going. They both hurt. May Allah make it easy for you.
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Suleiman Mukhtar Ibrahim Nov 6, 09:19 AM

another one...pretend and tell him you want a breakup and see his reaction. his actions would tell you if he's really into you or not.
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Feesah Nov 6, 06:57 PM
walaikumsalam sis, an innocent girl always find herself in that situation, your heart is fragile, you are honest and trustworthy. its okay to feel that way! you know what i did? one day i was so hurt I didn’t know who to talk to again that will understand me, i stand up for tahajood and I suddenly became shy to talk to Allah because I realized this was not how Allah permit in Islam right 😀 but our time and society makes it a choice for us, so I began to ask Allah to bless me with peace of mind and a strong heart to overcome hurt in everything aspect of life. wlahi I begin to see how irrelevant the things i relied on to make me happy, I don’t fall for player anymore because the things they bring to the table don’t impress me anymore. so now my standards are high and I break hearts instead and I aM HAPPY 😃
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Suleiman Mukhtar Ibrahim Nov 6, 09:32 PM

Then it's time for you to make your decision. I thinks better you have a broken relationship than a broken marriage, may Allah make it easy for you.
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Adan Nov 6, 09:57 PM

wae sheges... who r dey wae muuu😂
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Suleiman Mukhtar Ibrahim Nov 6, 10:40 PM

you are welcome 😊 be strong 💪
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