I need advice
Nasruddeen Muaz Jun 23, 12:10 PM

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Slm NB, Barka da sallah, Allah maimaita. We were supposed to get married 22nd June aka dage zuwa Sept 28th b4 I stopped it all last week. I started dating her 2 yrs during her first year exams at federal university Dutse, lokacin zani taifi karatu singapore, yenzu tana 300L ni kam na kammala msc infotech zan dawo gida July. Masala na shine tayi unknown friends sosai a school wanda gidan su baa sani ba. Ni kuma naji labari wasu lesbians ne, most boyfriends nata kuma masu HIT and Run ne. I want to forgiv and assume it's a mistake, but she is too patchy about it and whatever story version she told is way too watery. I had wanted to disbelieve all as rumour but zuciyana ba nasuwa. When i attempted bto close eyes, my sister warnd against her sketchy stance on the allegations and advised me to avoid love intoxication and think of future consequence. Ga shi bata son maganar especially about her intimate guy calld Bezo irin yaran masu kudin nan marasa tarbiyya who I was reliably told was just a Playboy not a student. I have moved on after calling it up lastweek because I didnt wanna just continue against my instict to whatever the consequence of marrying a green snake could be. But her aunt is now followinng up with much pressure to ensure we are back together, i don't want to come home and meet this issue again, please help me with advice of nb members.
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Sadeek Mahmud Jun 23, 04:05 PM
Take it up with her aunty or whichever family member is trying to get u guys back together. Ai maganar aure ba wasa ba ne. And da most important thing is to by the Prophet's [S.A.W] saying of "Leave what makes in you doubt to that which does not", which u have done. So, kar ka yarda ka auri wadda ka ke da shakku a kan ta. Let everyone knw da truth, if they insist
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Abdulkadir Jun 23, 04:42 PM
Gaskiya dai best option shine ka rabu da ita, tunda ka riga ka gama sanin halinta, kuma koda ace bakaji labarin halinta ba one day one tym zata nuna ma halinta, kuma in tayi ma haka bazaka ji dadi ba.. Kuma shi harka na aure anfiso a yarda da juna, amma da zarar zargi ya shigo tsakani, to a addinance babu aure
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Sa'ada Jun 23, 05:17 PM
Kayi isthikara akai + ur parents ESP Mom su tayaka da addu'a akai edan da alkhairi and your instincts were wrong sai kaga komai ya daidaita edan kuma you were right all along shiknenan pray ALLAH zai sauya maka da mafi alkhairi
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MARYAM MANSUR Jun 24, 01:18 PM
There is saying dat says show me ur friend n I will tell u who u r so please don do anything u will end up regreting coz marriage is beyond this I LOVE U, I MISS U........I s something dat requires trust, honesty, compromise and so on . So Dear poster don't engage in what u have doubt or dat which u r not ready for . Most importantly do isthikara and seek Allah's guidance and hv trust n him he will guide u. Bissalam
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Bng Jun 24, 01:36 PM
Salam, what i know is this. Your accusations may be true or false, because most rumors are lies, you didn’t catch her red handed. However it might also be true and in such if you really love her, and auren zai zama sanadiyan shiriyan ta, then go ahead, Allah zai baka laada. But if you cant marry a such, and you are sure with she is such, then speak to this aunty, tell her your findings and your reasons khalas.
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