Friendship or Cheat??
Anonymous Jun 23, 04:02 PM

Friendship or Cheat?? 0

A Friendship or Cheat? There is this Girl whom we are attended same primary school (2004) with her, even then i can not actually remember her by face but she does know me well. We had no contact sai wani lokaci around 2010 a inda mukayi JAMB a same centre, even then it was a hello and hye from afar. I don’t know what went on with her daga lokacin, she got married, had a Child and at same time schooling. I can’t recall precise time damuka zama friends on Facebook; I’m not the that chat on Facebook rather i go through newsfeed and posts kawai. She’ll send me ‘hello, ya kake, kwana biyu ka boye ka manta dani(mu)’ haka dai gaisuwa kawai sai labarin struggle dinta a school and so on. A haka it got to the point we have a whatsApp group na primary school mates namu, daga nan we had each others contact and our formal discussion goes on, to cut it short we become friends sosai, in a way that all my relationship struggles tasani, she even advises me to date ita kuma da aurenta and nothing of emotion is between us. Toh, I started to think about it, shin idan husband (who’s a military) dinta found out me zance ko ya zatace ? Shin idan nine husband nata ya zanji ? (Actually I’m the jealous type, I cannot take it), there was a time datake fadimin cewa I’m her best friend; i was shocked danaji haka, and nima when i got married how would i face my wife about ita wannan ? *What do you think is the stand of our relationship? **Do you think we should continue?? ***What way zan iyabi dan datse tarayyarmu ba tareda bacin rai ba ???
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Abdulkadir Jun 23, 04:31 PM
Gaskiya abinda ya kamata kayi shine ka datse relationship dinku, bcoz ta riga tayi aure, in ba haka ba zai iya haifar maka da babbar matsala, bcoz koda kayi aure abinda kayiwa matar wani haka za'ayi ma, kuma in haka ya faru bazaka ji dadi ba. Ta hanyar da zaka datse relationship dinku shine by chatting with her once in a while, da haka da haka har tazo ta fara mantawa da zancen ka. Dat is d only solution
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Sa'ada Jun 23, 05:25 PM
Yallabai the best thing to do is cut off your relationship with her she's already married fah edan matar ka ceh takeh cehma wani best friend how will you feel? Kawai kagaya mata gaskiya that your relationship isn't right islamically sef dan kun gaisa edan kun hadu is nothing amma kuyita chatting har ku zama very close din nan to the extent ana best friend edan kuka cigaba soon zai chanja daga besty zuwah darling which ba'a fata ALLAH ya kiyaye yasa mufi qarfin zukatanmu
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MARYAM MANSUR Jun 24, 01:24 PM
Dear Poster the stand of ur relationship is harambe datz d first answer, secondly do t continue with dat relationship and finally ku duka kuji tsoron Allah kuyiwa kanku fara kada bude kofar Barnar dazata kaiku ha halaka. Wallahi a'alamu. Bissalam
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Array Jun 24, 02:34 PM
Salamu Alaikum brother, gaskiya you should cut off the relationship because after calling you her bestfriend now later she might call you something else like my love( Allah kiyaye) but kasan halin mata nowadays wlh wasu basa tsoron Allah and maza kuma your weakness is mata so being this close can cause serious problems har tsakanin ka da Allah sef ba ita da mijin kadai ba, please do the right thing and cut her off
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Fatima Ubayo Jun 25, 10:10 AM
Best solution.. Cut off the relationship.. Ka tuna in kai aka mawa qanwarka ko erka ko matarka zakaji dadie? Mu daina son xuciya please.
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