Assalamualaikum arewa up family. there is something that has being bothering me. there is this girl we meet few days a go. we are getting to know each other but this girl keeps talking about marriage is like she is desperate to get marriage she never cares about love discussion like if I talk to how about how much she loves me and other important things about our future she never reply or she would gives an incomplete reply she would not shows interest about the conversation but when it comes to marriage she'll be nagging asking when I'm I coming to see her parents what year is going to be our marriage and stuffs like that. and she told me early that her dad Is trying to give her out to a already married person if she didn't provide someone. and she said she doesn't like him. I'm afraid this girl never loves me she is only trying to escape marrying that elderly man. I'm afraid of marriage without love. I'm afraid of being trapped in a home where love doesn't exist where issues will be raising due to absence of love pls I'm seeking for advice on this I'm totally confused but I still truly loved her just that I'm doubting her love towards me
just make it clear to her that it's too early to talk about marriage. this is my problem with majority of arewa parents they keep pressuring there daughters for marriage shiyasa da yawa yarinya zata yi aure amma baza a kai 2 years ba ta dawo gidan iyaye they should stop the rush marriage is a life time decision not some joke
just go straight to the point kafadama ta kai you are not in a hurry to get married
don't go and regret it daga bays
Allah ya zaba mana mafi alkhairi
Dan Allah, forget this your idea of love love. Wannan bature scam ne. If she is of good character and agrees, marry her, there will be no problem in sha Allah.
talk to her let her know what on your mind communication is best in relationship let her know before it to late
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