What is the average budget for a good wedding (not simple but also not so lavish)
As a future husband to be , i think i have the one, but i need help from the ladies. What is the ave[...]
I was accused of smiling while sleeping
Of recent my wife accused me of been smiling in my dreams. Mostly i do slept late and she will be up[...]
I'm seeking Islamic advice or a Fatwa
Hello everyone! I've been dating a girl, or should I say I was engaged to her for the past two month[...]
Men like me want to marry but can't afford
gaskiya some men want to marry. na money they stop 😭 us ooo. Allah Ka aure damu... kafara aiki bu[...]
I'm ready and would love to be a good wife, but finding a good husband is hard. Allahuma yassir.
who knew these husbands are hard to find man...
what are general wife expectations i should expect from my wife,
So I am getting married next month, based on our culture in Arewa? what are general expectations fro[...]
My friend's husband seems to be interested in me.
I have a friend that was married last year, we are good friends and i visit her often and i think i [...]
Maza masu dukan matansu da yan uwar kishiya masu zuwa dukan Uwarguda ko Amarya
Aslm dafatan kowa yana lapiya, akwai Wani abu dana lura this days yawan korafe korafe akan maza masu[...]
I don't like my wife anymore, what to do?
I got married in 2019 and so far things are okay but i'm having my eyes on other girls and not findi[...]
assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh yadda aure na na biyu ya mutu a silar kissar kishiya a gas[...]
Karin aure dan samun lafiya... meye ra'ayin ku?
Tambaya nake yi wai dan Allah idan namiji bashi da karfi sosai wajen mu'amalan aure idan ya kara aur[...]
(Inter tribal marriage) A Christian Yoruba lady marrying a Muslim Hausa man
Salaam alaikum, what is your advice or opinion for a Christian Yoruba lady planning on marrying her [...]
Men what's your dream woman like ?
You are given 1000 naira to spend on these qualities you would require your dream woman to have . Wh[...]
Is there anyone that wants to get married but doesn't want kids?
I am willing to get ready to settle down but finding a partner is becoming hard for me, because almo[...]
Hello guys. I realized that if I make love with my wife in the night, I wake up in the morning with[...]
Why don't we do marriage as Islam says not culture?
musulmai adawo yin auran musulunci yadda addini yace ba yadda al'adar hausa tace ba
Salam. Don Allah ku bani shawara ko maganin warin baki. Mijina bakinsa yana wari sosai kuma se ya[...]
Salm everyone so I'm in pain and tears I haven't been able to sleep properly for the past few days [...]
What is Happening nowadays ne waii, why do men misbehave in Marriage?
I know this is very long bcuz I didn't notice the length until I finished. I visited like four of m[...]
Lesson i leant about marriage today
Assalamu alaikum a'hibbayi biqddratillah you are all doing well Alhamdulillah Ala kulli'hali wa'fi k[...]
My love story that lead to divorce
Assalamu alaikum So this is my story, I'm just 21 yrs and a final year student. Na gama secondary s[...]
I feel pressured to get married
the pressure to get married is getting out of hand, to the extend I feel husband should just come fr[...]
dear Badiyyah, I am sending you this text to tell you how much I love you from the bottom of my hear[...]
Why do Hausa men feel reluctant to allow their wives to work?
Firstly, I'm a Hausa person by through and through but there's this attitude of our men that I notic[...]
My co wife finally is pregnant and i'm not, i need advice
Assalamu Alaikum. Please I need help and advice am a married woman that got married last year, Amma [...]
I want to get marry but i have "Dog"(in Parable)
Hello Ladies and Gents, i am 29yrs old Lady. I was born with Breast Poland syndrome(I realized it wh[...]
are women really always satisfied in their marriages
85 percent of men cannot satisfy their spouse why ?
as Salamu alaikum I was married for 10months an sha wahala sosai kafun Allah ya kawo karshen auren,[...]
should i marry now or after im done with school?
so I Met one guy in school when I went for exams and the guy has been stalking me since ,he chatted [...]
i suffered in my previous marriage & now afraid to marry again
Gaskia nasha wahala a previous aurena yanxu inajin tsoron aure. Inason nayi aure but sai nake ganin [...]
Whom should I go for between these two suitors?
assalamualaikum taimakoh Nike nemah I am confused I have 2 boyfriend's let's say A and B A is a fill[...]
should a Groom change his SIM Card after Marriage?
Kuna gani ya kamata ango yai changing SIM Card in ya tare?! sometimes mata akan masu changing.
Ladies, would you marry who you love or who is ready?
Who you love or who is ready?
Marrying A Woman Older Than Me.
I always had the intention of marrying someone older than me but most times the ladies always say it[...]
How do i introduce him to my family (for Marriage)?
Please how will someone introduce her boyfriend to her family, how will she start, telling them she [...]
I wish i can just say this but I need a partner.
Guys I am depressed, sometimes I feel like I don't need a guy or man in my life but sometimes that b[...]
Can you tell your spouse your salary?
As a married man is it advisable to disclose to your wife your monthly salary ? Please state with re[...]
Should a 17yr girl old marry a 23yr old who is ready?
Can't a 17 year old girl get married to someone who is 23, who is ready to take care of her and carr[...]
Me yake fara zuwan ranka idan kayi tunanin Aure?
Aduk Lokacin Da Kayi Tunanin Yin Aure Me Yake Fara Zuwa Ranka?
Assalamu alaikum ya A'hibbah'i I pray and hope you all doing great and blessed. Relationship is a v[...]
should I get married while in university?
I am still in school and I am always torn between getting married in school or after school, don't g[...]
What pushes most men into polygamy ?
Islamically, practicing polygamy is allowed and there is an infamous saying that goes "men are poly[...]
A Message to My Princess (unknown wife)
Assalamu alaikum! how are you doing my princess? first I would like to say I'm so sorry it's been 8[...]
Asslm House nace ba am I the only 23 single lady da ko saurayi wanda ya kwanta min ah rai babu? ev[...]
what's the ideal age for marriage?
Can a girl of 18 get married to a person of 22, but what is the specific age of marriage
would you rather marry a good man who smokes or a good man who's stingy?
which of them will be your choice?
Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi I hope and pray everyone on this platform and beyond are all doing fin[...]
what's your opinion on marrying a female Nurse 😏?
Is it normal to marry a female nurse? They sometimes work overnight.
I have lied to my husband and i still don't want to tell him
I got married to my husband some months back and alhamdulillah we are living fine, but the problem i[...]
So guys I’ve felt sorry for this man. I was coming from my friend’s place today I booked tricy[...]
is Marraige truely what Ladies Want ?
Most Of The Girls here Crying Out To Find The Best Husband They Can Find. But The Question Here Is [...]
My sister doesn't want me to marry a married man, is there any issue with doing that?
plsss mene ne matsalan auren namiji me mata the person am dating now has a wife and 1kid we met jus[...]
Am I the only one that puts getting married to who is ready over any relationships?
For the females how do y'all keep this, Like having a serious relationship which may lead to marriag[...]
A man came to Umar ibn al-Khattab and said: "I had a daughter who was buried alive in pre-Islamic da[...]
I really wish to get Married, but to no avail
Asslm pls tell me komai lokaci ne ina aure lokaci ne ? no matter how desperate and sad I'm in ga ya[...]
Idan ina tare da mace se in ji kaji kamar bazan iya aurenta ta ba, kuna jin haka?
Sai muna tare da mace sai in na tunanin any kuwa xan iya auranta? mene matsala at do Allah.
Why guys ask if a lady is virgin
In my opinion, the biggest reason why guys asked about women's virginity is because if the guy is a [...]
Ni dai nakan ce, matsalar da aketa magana akan zaben abokin zaman aure; muna bari jaki me, mu rika b[...]
How can a person know about a lady's virginity
Pls how can a person know if a lady is a virgin or not?
Do I have to accept you because you repented?
Here is my take... "Everyone has a past", right but... We are responsible for our past. if a man/wo[...]
Is 5 years age gap between spouses okay?
please is 5 years age gap between me and him ok to settle for?
is age just a Number?
"Ciwon 'ya mace na 'ya mace ne"?
We are quite often been told that all women (virgin or nonvirgin) are the same when it comes to marr[...]
can you marry a man below your status financially?
Ladies can you marry a man that is below your status financialy?
I need prayers for a serious husband
Assalam, pls I need your prayers so desperately in seeking for a life partner. I keep getting betray[...]
I want my parents to reconcile, life has been really difficult living with separated parents
my parents have been separated for 8years our father made us stay with him without asking what we wa[...]
Jama'aa Dama haka aure yake da wuya?? hmmmmm
Why do men change after marriage?
Why do you guys change after marriage? WHY????? What exactly do you want? Before marriage you are o[...]
Marriage pressure and lack of Good men
Why is it so hard finding the right man? why is it so hard? The pressure is real out there....the f[...]
My wife became rebellious after i moved her abroad, Pls ku bani shawara
Yau kimanin shekara takwas kenan ina wata kasa, bayan na gama karatu na a kasar na samu aiki se na c[...]
Becoming a wife is so easy but maintaining the position as a wife requires wisdom, respect, patience[...]
Dear Parents guard your daughters against these...
Dear parents, Stop joking about your daughter being someone's wife. Stop condoning random men cal[...]
I feel I'll never get married 😥
ever since I reverted, have never come across any guy, like nobody is asking me for marriage, it's s[...]
guys ina neman shawarar ku inaso na fara hada aure wlh abun yana damu na Mata na kukan aure maza nay[...]
Dilemma: whom should I choose between the two
Umar ya dauki nauyin karatuna bayan nagama 🥺 Abubakar ya bani aiki a NNPC achikinsu waya kamata [...]
I am having severe health issues, need your prayers❤😭😭
Assalamu alaikum yan uwana maxa da mata, danALLAH ina neman adduarku akan abunda yake damuna d kuma [...]
will you allow your female friend to work in the same place with your husband
will you be comfortable if your single female friend is working in the same place with your husband[...]
I am scared of dying and not having my wishes fulfilled
Allah ya sa muna da rabon aure a duniya muma mu ji yanda ake ji. I shiver when ever the thought of d[...]
please who is meant to ask who in terms of other rooms activity like inaso Amma i want to ask is it [...]
After how many days of marriage did you started missing home
After how many days of marriage did you started missing home
As a lady can you marry someone who is younger than you?
Pls As a lady can you marry someone who is younger than you and will your family agree to it?
Do women worry about their performance in bed or they just blame men
Do women worry about their performance in bed 🛏️or they just blame men 🙄🙄🙄🙄 kawai [...]
Why are women Generally in our society so obsessed with Marriage these days
Marriage is Good, but the obsession just gets on my Nerves. You will see a girl of 22yrs or there a[...]
marry because you want to fulfill destiny.
Don't marry because of Sex. Don't marry because you are getting Old. Don't marry because you are o[...]
MEN WHY ARE TREATING YOUR WIVES SO BAD AFTER HAVING KIDS WITH YOU?❗️
By Allah what some men are doing is so wrong and out of line!! you guys have sisters too imagine all[...]
i think i want to get married !!!
I know marriage has its ups and downs but I know that it's not always bad times they are good times [...]
choosing between 2 suitors for Marriage, advice please
Assalamualaikum, am sending this on behalf of my sister. She has two serious suitors one of them Mai[...]
Dear married people, If you were given a chance to remarry, would you marry the same person? I wan[...]
what are some important marriage tips ?
Please what are the important questions and things you should know about a person you just met and h[...]
Ina shan wuya wajen saduwa da mijina
Walh mijina kwayoyi yake hadiya kafin ya sadu dani har tsoro nakeji muzo kwanciya. Se yayi kusan awa[...]
Please kuban shawara. Mace na aura mara kamun kai. Bata jin kunyar yin tusa a gabana. In nayi mata m[...]
I came to a stage in my life whereby I really want to get married but ban samu irin namijin da nake [...]
Some of our honorable teachers advised: If a woman wants a successful marriage; one based in piety [...]
I need your prayers on my marriage
In needy with your prayers I want to settle down please a serious relationship that will lead us to [...]
Dear future wife, Whether you are reading this before you meet me, or stumble upon it after, I wa[...]
can love develop after marriage?
I mean can I marry someone I am not inlove with. wanda zai aure ni shi yana sona amma wlhi ni bana j[...]
Don Allah ina neman shawara. Munyi aure ko sati baayi ba amma mijina ko kunya ta baya ji se ya dinga[...]
I need your prayers, i am facing some life challenges
I'll be 29 years old this month and my greatest desire rite from wen I was 20 years was marriage, b[...]
There is need for a Marriage School
I think its High time we Start Establishing Schools For Koyan Zaman aure With Islamic Teaching For B[...]
is it a crime if you wish to marry someone who is confortable and up to your standard. I'm not from[...]
I have a house but not Job, can i get married?
Assalamu Alaikum, shin buga-buga tana iya riqe aure, don yanzu bani da cikakken abun yi. Don ni ina [...]
A ra'ayin ki/ka a soke lefe ko a'a. Ni nawa ra'ayin yafi ga a soke kawai.
Love Marriage or Arranged marriage? which one do you prefer?
Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage??? Give reason(s) for your answer.
Still searching? may Allah bless us with مرأة صالحة
How should one feel after her husband finds out she's not a virgin?
Salam, As amarya how do you feel after your first night knowing fully your husband finds out you are[...]
checking for your spouse's stars before Marriage
I've been wanting to hear ppls opinion on "star" I mean men now check the star of the lady they inte[...]
How I wish women will learn to keep KISHI aside and embrace LOVE n PEACE
How I wish women will learn to keep kishi aside and embrace Love and peace. Pure Love n peaceful mar[...]
Me 😎 VS My Kid Sisters 👩🏼👱🏻♀️👧🏼
Assalamu alaikum Fam. I hope you all had a fruitful week... So about two weeks back I traveled to Ka[...]
marriage and virgin issues.. very important
To begin with, I am a guy.. so I wonder why a lot of people talk about virgins a lot or say they onl[...]
what i am facing as a 27yr working person but unmarried
im 27 and unmarried,graduate and working in a small organization,i also do small business,but u fort[...]
Du'a for those seeking for marriage.
dua seeker Home/dua for love dua for love Dua to find your soulmate Dua for love Photo of duajoo te[...]
why the increasing rate of Divorce in Kano.
Kano People come here let's discuss on the Increasing rate of divorce in Kano
I'm looking for a serious person, to settle down with I grew up abroad but I maintain my traditions [...]
Concerning the post where the lady was asking if anyone can marry an ugly guy, wlh if he has a good [...]
If I get married, I want to be very married
Assalamu Alaikum Yan'uwana. I am writing this with a heavy heart. I have been through a lot of in my[...]
Assalamu alaikum. There is this guy that stole my friend's heart, he was posted on a story on IG ear[...]
Seeking Marital Advice (intimacy)..
Am married for almost 3 years now but i dont enjoy $** at ol which is causing problem btwn me nd hub[...]
My husband is abusive, I need advice
Asslm, good evening ma/sir pls I need urgent advice I got married this year March me and hubby are a[...]
My husband misses prayers, i need advice
Assalamualaikum Good evening family please I need ur urgent and sincere advice my husband is someone[...]
Salam ma/sir A friend of mine ask me to advice her on this issue She is married with 3 kids but h[...]
Hello. I want join the Matchmaking platform but really I find it difficult to send my ID card becau[...]
Is this enough to change my wife? (Food issue)
I have a problem with my wife, 6 month Marriage but the Food is bad and always late. ni kuma that is[...]
Please advise me i'm getting disturbed over this
Excuse my language but in don't know where else to ask because i am shy and i seriously need advise.[...]
Me yasa maza basu son auren sicklers?
The truth is many women are ready for marriage majorly bcos of their age or bcos they think time is [...]
Al Salam alaikum Hope everybody's doing well? Please I need your advice on something I have a cousin[...]
i want to help my sister to get a good husband
Assalamu alaikum Gud morning everyone.pls ina da damuwa ina sister na she is 27 kuma har yanxu bata [...]
Assalamu Alaikum. i have a question for the men please. why is it okay for a man to boldy specify th[...]
I am a female, educated,fulani searching for a man ready to settle soon
damuwa na guda daya wazan aura????????
Allah kabamu saa
why is it that most of this rich married especially thoses residing in Abuja, are not interested in[...]
happiness husband 😪💔
Please advice me about my husband
Mostly during weekends he comes back 10pm - 11pm while i'm left at home alone, if i ask him he will [...]
Aure da yawa suna mutuwa sanadiyyar kazanta,wasu su jawa junansu cuta especially ta bangaren mata ab[...]
Please is there anything that can be done about this?
Salaam, i am asking this to those that have the knowledge. is it possible to prevent a woman from ha[...]
Salam my brother and sisters in Islam. I need you guys to help me with your prayers. There’s nothi[...]
Salaam, don Allah atayini posting. Ina son in San Mesa wasu mazan in sunyi aure suke sake neman wasu[...]
what's the worst that can happen if i don't get married as a female?
I am a female in my mid twenties, pursuing my career and an entrepreneur. i actually want to achieve[...]
Seeking for a halal relationship that will lead to marriage
Am female 27 years old, divorced, with 2 kids, an entrepreneur, am seeking for a man from the age of[...]
Depression is the leading global disability.
Our parents/ the society should please stop pressurizing us muma bayinmu bane. We're in this century[...]
Asalamalaikum, please is it advisable for intending couples who are both AS to get married? And if t[...]
my cousin slept with my brother's wife
Aslm yan aji, Cousin namu ya kwanta da matar yaya na a lokacin da baya gari. Shin laifin matan ne, c[...]
After 23 years,I just found out that I am a BASTARD.
Zuwa honey moon da abokan ango
please zuwa da abokan ango honeymoon yadace?
Meyasa ake yin lefen aure? Dole ne?
Because of this, wasu har suna tunani lefe addini ne. not knowing culture ne kawai, beda hada komai [...]
Uncle NB ina gaisuwa, dan Allah tambaya nake, wata mata ce take leqen katangar makwabta dan taji ana[...]
Salam brother Khalifa, I think I have interesting question for you to ask on northern blog so we can[...]
Salam malam northern blog plz hide my Id..... Tambaya nakeson yi... Dan Allah is't normal zaka fita [...]
Wai nikam haka maza suke ne? Ni matar shice tsawon shekara da aure, ba ruwanshi da ciwo na! Hasalima[...]
Does anyone here don't want to get married?
yanda mutane suka dauki aure especially a Arewa is too much, ni gaskiya be dame ni ba ko da na mutu [...]
Maza, can you list abubuwa 3 da kuke nema a mace kafin ku aure ta?
Menene maza suke dubawa kafin su auri mace, i was just thinking of it and want to get a public opini[...]
ina neman shawara akan aure na next month
please i only want honest opinions, zanyi aure next month amma mijin da zan aure yayi accident last [...]
Meyasa matan Arewa suke saka too much priority akan Aure?
Naga most girls of other ethnicity are more inclined towards career, education and other self priori[...]
Salaam. Plz help share wit d audience. Ina Neman shawara da kuma addu'a ku don Allah. Allah ya hada[...]
I came about this blog just yesterday and I saw posts on mastubation addiction. I want to warn our y[...]
I'm a 21yrs old married woman, aurena ix 7 months old ynxu. Kuma auren soyayya mukayi dashi. Matsala[...]
Ina so in rabu da Mata na soboda in auri wata
Ina so in auri wata Kuma Ni da Mata tun farko ba wai San juna muke ba arranged marriage ne for 2 yea[...]
Assalam, ya gida ya hidima, akan wacce kishiya bata gaisheta, wato ni tawa kishiyar bakar munafuka c[...]
Salam. Please hide my ID, Ni Marainiya ce both my parents are Late, And am 23yrs old, am graduating [...]
My husband of 5 Years is suddenly acting strange. I've been married for 5 years, I can say I have[...]
to keep the story short, I'm planning to get married in 6 month. everything is in place Alhamdulilla[...]
my wife has left me because of a minor misunderstanding.
Wednesday last week na bude whatsapp dinta naga chat din su da wani guy har yana turo mata hearts da[...]
Miji na baya saduwa da ni? should i do this?
Miji na yayi aure tun April this year since then he doesn't even touch me sexually idan ma ya zo gid[...]
Assuming your Father say stand up and your Husband say sit down... As a wife who will you obey plea[...]
i don't like my wife anymore whats the best way to divorce her?
for about 3 years yanzu muna tare, no kids and i met this lady at my workplace that i seem to like a[...]
what's the best way i can avoid this marriage?
SalamaAlaikum everyone. i just came across this platform and thought by sharing this i can get help [...]
HUKUNCIN SADUWA DA IYALI HAR ZUWA WAYEWAR GARI A WATAN RAMADHAN
YA AZUMINSU YA KE !? YA SADU DA IYALINSA A DAREN RAMADAN, HAR ALFIJIR YA KETO BAI SANI BA: -----[...]
My Dear Sister, Ur Best Friend Boyfriend Or Husband Can Be Ur Future Husband! So, Plz Don't Ignore [...]
Mata masu addu'ar miji da ramadan
meyasa mata suke addua Allah ya basu miji, su abinda ya dame su kenan a rayuwa? ga abubuwa dayawa da[...]
In marriage does it mean mens can do whatever they want unlike women
It always surprises me idan naga yanda ake kuntata wa mata da sunan aure (I’m sorry nasan da yawa [...]
what's bad in delaying marriage?
kawai dan mace ta kai certain age se a matsa mata ta kawo miji ni na kasa gane abin. like what's the[...]
A failed engagement is better than a bad marriage. The mistakes, baggage and hurt you carry from i[...]
Gaskia yakamata iyaye su daina saka pressure akan 'ya'ya mata kan maganan aure,I mean aure lokaci ne[...]
Me ke damun matan Arewa akan the so called "Mallakan Miji"
I was sitting next to some girls today and I heard them talking of how they will go to Malams for ma[...]
Are most marital issues caused by high Blind Marriage rate in our communities?
I was just thinking of this, the rate at which people are getting married these days is very high. A[...]
My wife is not obeying me, can i beat her?
I know Islam has already permit me to beat her, I just want to know if it's justified in this case. [...]
Hypocrisy of Malam Bahaushe in polygamy
Every-time the topic of polygamy countered, the first thing this men will say is that, it is God has[...]
wai meyasa halin maza yake haka???
I was surprised, yanzu 6 years muna tare da miji na, se jiya yake ce min wai Yana dating wata, blah [...]