MARRIAGE

assalamu alaikum brothers and sisters in Islam I'm so pissed off I read a recent post that states that arewa women don't know how to be good in bed pl...

May Allah make it easy for us all

Assalam. I am someone who loves lovemaking in a stylis way. I love deep cuddling, romance and extreme intimacy. I love to enjoy diffrent sex styles/po...

assalamu alaikum I just want to get a husband out my family wallahi last week was my birthday kuma my aunty posted me so wani a family ya ga hoto na a...

I don't know koh a goshi mutum ake ganin shine right person 🥹Buh am tired of dis wrong ones wnd b Allah a ransu duk wnd k hadu dashi the same prob...

All my life ever since I was a kid I've only had one dream which is to get married the Islamic way and settle and have a family. But Allah cikin ikons...

Salam people ..I have a question I am a bit nervous but I rather just ask.. what am I to expect on the my first night with my bride to be. This quest...

Is it right to get married to your best friend's sister ?

pls if there is sme1 who can help me cus I don't know my current situation or let's say problem...this is d third tym my wedding is bn fixed sai afasa...

As a future husband to be , i think i have the one, but i need help from the ladies. What is the average budget for a marriage. I need to start making...

Of recent my wife accused me of been smiling in my dreams. Mostly i do slept late and she will be up before me and be looking at me in the early hours...

Hello everyone! I've been dating a girl, or should I say I was engaged to her for the past two months. We love each other very much, to the point that...

gaskiya some men want to marry. na money they stop 😭 us ooo. Allah Ka aure damu... kafara aiki but you need to gather money before Kaye aure. and e...

I'm ready and would love to be a good wife, but finding a good husband is hard. Allahuma yassir.

who knew these husbands are hard to find man...

So I am getting married next month, based on our culture in Arewa? what are general expectations from both sides, husband and wife. From, emotional, ...

I have a friend that was married last year, we are good friends and i visit her often and i think i like her husband and he likes me too, we ended up ...

probabb

Aslm dafatan kowa yana lapiya, akwai Wani abu dana lura this days yawan korafe korafe akan maza masu dukan matansu ko Yan uwar kishiya masu zuwa dukan...

I got married in 2019 and so far things are okay but i'm having my eyes on other girls and not finding my wife attractive at all, I feel I just want ...

assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh yadda aure na na biyu ya mutu a silar kissar kishiya a gaskiya maza idan kunsan Baku Isa da matanku na gida ...

Tambaya nake yi wai dan Allah idan namiji bashi da karfi sosai wajen mu'amalan aure idan ya kara aure zai samu lafiya?haka naji mutane suna fada.na ne...

Salaam alaikum, what is your advice or opinion for a Christian Yoruba lady planning on marrying her Muslim Hausa boyfriend. Note. She is willing to ...

You are given 1000 naira to spend on these qualities you would require your dream woman to have . Which are going for ? Religious= 500 Beauty = 400 ...

Salam, I want to know why most parents don’t want their son to marry someone older than him. I’m 27yrs old, recently done with my studies, wait...

I am willing to get ready to settle down but finding a partner is becoming hard for me, because almost all people i meet want to have kids, but i don'...

Hello guys. I realized that if I make love with my wife in the night, I wake up in the morning with headache. If I don't have sex in the night before...

musulmai adawo yin auran musulunci yadda addini yace ba yadda al'adar hausa tace ba

Salam. Don Allah ku bani shawara ko maganin warin baki. Mijina bakinsa yana wari sosai kuma se ya dinga sha'awar yin kiss dani. Nikuma gsky ina kya...

Salm everyone so I'm in pain and tears I haven't been able to sleep properly for the past few days in my life my heart is heavy so i made a post pre...

I know this is very long bcuz I didn't notice the length until I finished. I visited like four of my married friends and wallahi all their complaints...

Assalamu alaikum a'hibbayi biqddratillah you are all doing well Alhamdulillah Ala kulli'hali wa'fi kulli'hali. 🤗 ❤️ 😎 To day a very close ...

Assalamu alaikum So this is my story, I'm just 21 yrs and a final year student. Na gama secondary school 2018 and I was 17 then. Mun fara soyayya da...

the pressure to get married is getting out of hand, to the extend I feel husband should just come from anywhere, as far as he's a good man and also po...

dear Badiyyah, I am sending you this text to tell you how much I love you from the bottom of my heart. since from the very first day I came across you...

Firstly, I'm a Hausa person by through and through but there's this attitude of our men that I notice which baffles me a lot. 70% of Hausa men I've co...

Assalamu Alaikum. Please I need help and advice am a married woman that got married last year, Amma mijina yanada mata. Basu taba haihuwa ba mukayi au...

Hello Ladies and Gents, i am 29yrs old Lady. I was born with Breast Poland syndrome(I realized it when my breasts stop growth) I have been in differe...

85 percent of men cannot satisfy their spouse why ?

as Salamu alaikum I was married for 10months an sha wahala sosai kafun Allah ya kawo karshen auren,I don't want to stay long a gida amma ina tsoron K...

so I Met one guy in school when I went for exams and the guy has been stalking me since ,he chatted me one day on WhatsApp ,he introduced himself as m...

Gaskia nasha wahala a previous aurena yanxu inajin tsoron aure. Inason nayi aure but sai nake ganin bazan samu irin mijin danakeso ba,wanda hankalina ...

assalamualaikum taimakoh Nike nemah I am confused I have 2 boyfriend's let's say A and B A is a filling station manager while B is mu uni class mate A...

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘: 1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave hi...

Kuna gani ya kamata ango yai changing SIM Card in ya tare?! sometimes mata akan masu changing.

Who you love or who is ready?

I always had the intention of marrying someone older than me but most times the ladies always say it won’t work due to age difference. I’m 2years ...

ladiessss is this how you'll feel when your husbands are not around(travel) or is it just me🤷‍♀️. I'm depressed na rasa meye ke damuna, ganin...

Please how will someone introduce her boyfriend to her family, how will she start, telling them she loves him

Guys I am depressed, sometimes I feel like I don't need a guy or man in my life but sometimes that baby in me just come out and want someone to care, ...

As a married man is it advisable to disclose to your wife your monthly salary ? Please state with reasons.

Can't a 17 year old girl get married to someone who is 23, who is ready to take care of her and carry all the responsibility

Aduk Lokacin Da Kayi Tunanin Yin Aure Me Yake Fara Zuwa Ranka?

Assalamu alaikum ya A'hibbah'i I pray and hope you all doing great and blessed. Relationship is a very sensitive commitment that most both genders go...

I am still in school and I am always torn between getting married in school or after school, don't get me wrong I'm not in a serious rush but the thin...

Islamically, practicing polygamy is allowed and there is an infamous saying that goes "men are polygamous in nature" but how true is that ? I've hea...

Assalamu alaikum! how are you doing my princess? first I would like to say I'm so sorry it's been 8 years now I have been praying so hard to Allah to...

Asslm House nace ba am I the only 23 single lady da ko saurayi wanda ya kwanta min ah rai babu? everyone around me is getting married oo😂😂

Can a girl of 18 get married to a person of 22, but what is the specific age of marriage

which of them will be your choice?

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi I hope and pray everyone on this platform and beyond are all doing fine Alhamdulillah. There are a lot of unserious pe...

Is it normal to marry a female nurse? They sometimes work overnight.

I got married to my husband some months back and alhamdulillah we are living fine, but the problem is he has another wife and she hasn't given birth, ...

So guys I’ve felt sorry for this man. I was coming from my friend’s place today I booked tricycle (napep) here in kano so you know how those peo...

Most Of The Girls here Crying Out To Find The Best Husband They Can Find. But The Question Here Is That All you Want ( Someone That Can Feed Them Clo...

plsss mene ne matsalan auren namiji me mata the person am dating now has a wife and 1kid we met just recently amma matsalan shine yaya ta bata son na...

For the females how do y'all keep this, Like having a serious relationship which may lead to marriage(no specific date) but has this thinking of "na w...

A man came to Umar ibn al-Khattab and said: "I had a daughter who was buried alive in pre-Islamic days, but I managed to rescue her before she died. S...

A wife lied to her husband before married that she’s a virgin and after marriage he realized she’s not. And she also lied to him that she can rea...

Asslm pls tell me komai lokaci ne ina aure lokaci ne ? no matter how desperate and sad I'm in ga yau nayi aure, ina gidan miji na na farantawa mahaif...

Sai muna tare da mace sai in na tunanin any kuwa xan iya auranta? mene matsala at do Allah.

In my opinion, the biggest reason why guys asked about women's virginity is because if the guy is a virgin, then he also want to marry a virgin. He is...

Ni dai nakan ce, matsalar da aketa magana akan zaben abokin zaman aure; muna bari jaki me, mu rika bugun taiki. Dalilina shine, iyaye a yanzu sun cir...

Pls how can a person know if a lady is a virgin or not?

Here is my take... "Everyone has a past", right but... We are responsible for our past. if a man/woman committed a sin, you should absolutely not tel...

please is 5 years age gap between me and him ok to settle for?

is age just a Number?

We are quite often been told that all women (virgin or nonvirgin) are the same when it comes to marriage, right? But why is it that most mothers are...

Ladies can you marry a man that is below your status financialy?

Assalam, pls I need your prayers so desperately in seeking for a life partner. I keep getting betrayed all the time. I want everyone that comes across...

my parents have been separated for 8years our father made us stay with him without asking what we wanted for the past 8years I and my siblings have no...

Jama'aa Dama haka aure yake da wuya?? hmmmmm

Why do you guys change after marriage? WHY????? What exactly do you want? Before marriage you are okay with everything she does and after marriage yo...

Why is it so hard finding the right man? why is it so hard? The pressure is real out there....the fear and doubts is real.... when family are already...

Yau kimanin shekara takwas kenan ina wata kasa, bayan na gama karatu na a kasar na samu aiki se na cigaba da zama a kasar. Kamar shekaru 3 kenan na au...

Becoming a wife is so easy but maintaining the position as a wife requires wisdom, respect, patience and humility

Dear parents, Stop joking about your daughter being someone's wife. Stop condoning random men calling your daughter their wife. Marriage shouldn't...

ever since I reverted, have never come across any guy, like nobody is asking me for marriage, it's sad tho, but I feel Allah have a better plan for an...

guys ina neman shawarar ku inaso na fara hada aure wlh abun yana damu na Mata na kukan aure maza nayi I will use my energy and resources

Umar ya dauki nauyin karatuna bayan nagama 🥺 Abubakar ya bani aiki a NNPC achikinsu waya kamata na aura ??????

Assalamu alaikum yan uwana maxa da mata, danALLAH ina neman adduarku akan abunda yake damuna d kuma shawararku,ni mache che n kasanche ina shekara 21 ...

will you be comfortable if your single female friend is working in the same place with your husband ?

Allah ya sa muna da rabon aure a duniya muma mu ji yanda ake ji. I shiver when ever the thought of dying crosses my mind. Allah ya gani ban shirya ba,...

please who is meant to ask who in terms of other rooms activity like inaso Amma i want to ask is it ok for me to ask for it

After how many days of marriage did you started missing home

Pls As a lady can you marry someone who is younger than you and will your family agree to it?

Do women worry about their performance in bed 🛏️or they just blame men 🙄🙄🙄🙄 kawai laifin Maza suke gani and be complaining he can't ...

Marriage is Good, but the obsession just gets on my Nerves. You will see a girl of 22yrs or there about complaining that she is worried for not havin...

Don't marry because of Sex. Don't marry because you are getting Old. Don't marry because you are of Age. Don't marry because you are Lonely. Don't...

By Allah what some men are doing is so wrong and out of line!! you guys have sisters too imagine all the wulakanshi you're doing for your wife will be...

I know marriage has its ups and downs but I know that it's not always bad times they are good times for sure I can not wait to do funny annoying thing...

Assalamualaikum, am sending this on behalf of my sister. She has two serious suitors one of them Mai aure saki ne and the other one doesn't have probl...

Dear married people, If you were given a chance to remarry, would you marry the same person? I want to see something

Please what are the important questions and things you should know about a person you just met and hoping it leads to marriage

Walh mijina kwayoyi yake hadiya kafin ya sadu dani har tsoro nakeji muzo kwanciya. Se yayi kusan awa guda yana saduwa dani be kawo ba, kuma abubuwa ir...

Please kuban shawara. Mace na aura mara kamun kai. Bata jin kunyar yin tusa a gabana. In nayi mata magana tace wai ya tanajin tusa zata ki tayi bazata...

I came to a stage in my life whereby I really want to get married but ban samu irin namijin da nake so Na aura ba though akwai waenda suke sona da aur...

Some of our honorable teachers advised: If a woman wants a successful marriage; one based in piety and knowledge, and wants a peaceful home, there ar...

In needy with your prayers I want to settle down please a serious relationship that will lead us to marriage

Dear future wife, Whether you are reading this before you meet me, or stumble upon it after, I want you to know a few things. The reason I am wr...

I mean can I marry someone I am not inlove with. wanda zai aure ni shi yana sona amma wlhi ni bana jin sonshi a raina though bamu fi 2 to 3 months ba ...

Don Allah ina neman shawara. Munyi aure ko sati baayi ba amma mijina ko kunya ta baya ji se ya dinga kallon sex styles iri iri a Bluefilm yana cewa ir...

I'll be 29 years old this month and my greatest desire rite from wen I was 20 years was marriage, but here I'm still no marriage, no job, business is...

I think its High time we Start Establishing Schools For Koyan Zaman aure With Islamic Teaching For Both Male And Females. Seriously It Will Help Solve...

is it a crime if you wish to marry someone who is confortable and up to your standard. I'm not from a rich family, but due to my hard work I made it ...

Assalamu Alaikum, shin buga-buga tana iya riqe aure, don yanzu bani da cikakken abun yi. Don ni ina da gida babba amma ban samu cikakken abun yi ba. z...

A ra'ayin ki/ka a soke lefe ko a'a. Ni nawa ra'ayin yafi ga a soke kawai.

Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage??? Give reason(s) for your answer.

Still searching? may Allah bless us with مرأة صالحة

Salam, As amarya how do you feel after your first night knowing fully your husband finds out you are not a virgin? As ango how do you feel finding you...

I've been wanting to hear ppls opinion on "star" I mean men now check the star of the lady they intend to marry before proposing to her just because t...

How I wish women will learn to keep kishi aside and embrace Love and peace. Pure Love n peaceful marriage is d must beautiful thing in marriage. Learn...

Marriage

Assalamu alaikum Fam. I hope you all had a fruitful week... So about two weeks back I traveled to Kaduna to visit my step mum. my kid sisters 4, 8, an...

To begin with, I am a guy.. so I wonder why a lot of people talk about virgins a lot or say they only want virgins... and if she is not ballagaza ce t...

im 27 and unmarried,graduate and working in a small organization,i also do small business,but u fortunately people still disregard me because im not m...

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Kano People come here let's discuss on the Increasing rate of divorce in Kano

I'm looking for a serious person, to settle down with I grew up abroad but I maintain my traditions as a northern woman. I'm fair skinned and slim, ta...

Concerning the post where the lady was asking if anyone can marry an ugly guy, wlh if he has a good character, marry him. when my fiancé first asked ...

Assalamu Alaikum Yan'uwana. I am writing this with a heavy heart. I have been through a lot of in my life that would have broken many. But I always tr...

Assalamu alaikum. There is this guy that stole my friend's heart, he was posted on a story on IG earlier, I really can't say the page but she fell for...

Am married for almost 3 years now but i dont enjoy $** at ol which is causing problem btwn me nd hubby ive tried so many things..supplements, aphrodis...

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Assalamualaikum Good evening family please I need ur urgent and sincere advice my husband is someone who spent almost all his life abroad so his ways ...

Salam ma/sir A friend of mine ask me to advice her on this issue She is married with 3 kids but her husband has never come to her or ask her for se...

Hello. I want join the Matchmaking platform but really I find it difficult to send my ID card because I am already a family man with grown kids and ...

I have a problem with my wife, 6 month Marriage but the Food is bad and always late. ni kuma that is one of the things that move me, ina so inga na ta...

Excuse my language but in don't know where else to ask because i am shy and i seriously need advise. my husband of 4 years suddenly one night during o...

Me yasa maza basu son auren sicklers?

The truth is many women are ready for marriage majorly bcos of their age or bcos they think time is kicking against them but the reality they refused ...

Al Salam alaikum Hope everybody's doing well? Please I need your advice on something I have a cousin sister who is 18 years old now and she's already ...

Assalamu alaikum Gud morning everyone.pls ina da damuwa ina sister na she is 27 kuma har yanxu bata da mijin aure ba duk Wanda yazo bata mata Lokaci ...

Assalamu Alaikum. i have a question for the men please. why is it okay for a man to boldy specify the kind of woman he wants, irin he wants her to hav...

I am a female, educated,fulani searching for a man ready to settle soon

Allah kabamu saa

why is it that most of this rich married especially thoses residing in Abuja, are not interested in you with a halal intentions but rather want to ke...

happiness husband 😪💔

Mostly during weekends he comes back 10pm - 11pm while i'm left at home alone, if i ask him he will say its his life and he will live it the way he wa...

Aure da yawa suna mutuwa sanadiyyar kazanta,wasu su jawa junansu cuta especially ta bangaren mata abin ya zama sede addua. Waje fess ciki gumus,mace h...

Salaam, i am asking this to those that have the knowledge. is it possible to prevent a woman from having periods forever. i got married 4 months ago a...

Salam my brother and sisters in Islam. I need you guys to help me with your prayers. There’s nothing I want more than to see myself in my husband’...

Salaam, don Allah atayini posting. Ina son in San Mesa wasu mazan in sunyi aure suke sake neman wasu matan a waje? Wani zaka ga mutun na da mata harda...

I am a female in my mid twenties, pursuing my career and an entrepreneur. i actually want to achieve alot but the issue is most of the men that are in...

Am female 27 years old, divorced, with 2 kids, an entrepreneur, am seeking for a man from the age of 40 and above. Divorced, a widower, or even marrie...

Our parents/ the society should please stop pressurizing us muma bayinmu bane. We're in this century where ur friend is married nd the next thing is k...

Asalamalaikum, please is it advisable for intending couples who are both AS to get married? And if they already are is it a ground to annul the marria...

Aslm yan aji, Cousin namu ya kwanta da matar yaya na a lokacin da baya gari. Shin laifin matan ne, cousin koh kuma mijin?

After 23 years,I just found out that I am a BASTARD.

please zuwa da abokan ango honeymoon yadace?

Because of this, wasu har suna tunani lefe addini ne. not knowing culture ne kawai, beda hada komai ba da addini. meyasa mu hausawa muka maida abin bi...

Uncle NB ina gaisuwa, dan Allah tambaya nake, wata mata ce take leqen katangar makwabta dan taji ana hayaniya sai makwabcin nasu ya ganta, yana ganin ...

Salam brother Khalifa, I think I have interesting question for you to ask on northern blog so we can see ppls answers Here is the question “...

Salam malam northern blog plz hide my Id..... Tambaya nakeson yi... Dan Allah is't normal zaka fita anguwa da mijinka sai yayarshi ko kanwarshi kunzo ...

Wai nikam haka maza suke ne? Ni matar shice tsawon shekara da aure, ba ruwanshi da ciwo na! Hasalima sedai ya ringa conplaining ni kullum ganinan ciki...

yanda mutane suka dauki aure especially a Arewa is too much, ni gaskiya be dame ni ba ko da na mutu banyi i would not care.

Menene maza suke dubawa kafin su auri mace, i was just thinking of it and want to get a public opinion. pls drop your honest answers, just list 3.

please i only want honest opinions, zanyi aure next month amma mijin da zan aure yayi accident last week kuma ya samu serious damage on his leg, ance ...

Naga most girls of other ethnicity are more inclined towards career, education and other self priorities even at adult age amma matan Hausa suna kai w...

Salaam. Plz help share wit d audience. Ina Neman shawara da kuma addu'a ku don Allah. Allah ya hadani da wata baiwar Allah Mai hankali da rabiyya Mai...

I came about this blog just yesterday and I saw posts on mastubation addiction. I want to warn our young men to stop it right now no matter the conseq...

I'm a 21yrs old married woman, aurena ix 7 months old ynxu. Kuma auren soyayya mukayi dashi. Matsalan itace any time nayi qoqarin xama romantic to him...

Ina so in auri wata Kuma Ni da Mata tun farko ba wai San juna muke ba arranged marriage ne for 2 years yanzu, Ina dai tunani ne amma ban fada mata ba ...

Assalam, ya gida ya hidima, akan wacce kishiya bata gaisheta, wato ni tawa kishiyar bakar munafuka ce, nice Amarya bamufi 6 months da Aure ba, anma ta...

Salam. Please hide my ID, Ni Marainiya ce both my parents are Late, And am 23yrs old, am graduating this year By God grace. Inataso inyi Aure, but Am ...

My husband of 5 Years is suddenly acting strange. I've been married for 5 years, I can say I have the best husband ever in terms of understanding, ...

to keep the story short, I'm planning to get married in 6 month. everything is in place Alhamdulillah but I found out she has been raped at the age of...

Wednesday last week na bude whatsapp dinta naga chat din su da wani guy har yana turo mata hearts da love words ni kuma abin ya bani haushi da na tamb...

Miji na yayi aure tun April this year since then he doesn't even touch me sexually idan ma ya zo gida na kwana se dai kawai muyi bacci mu tashi kuma o...

Assuming your Father say stand up and your Husband say sit down... As a wife who will you obey please be sincere??

for about 3 years yanzu muna tare, no kids and i met this lady at my workplace that i seem to like alot and realize we have alot in common ni bazan iy...

SalamaAlaikum everyone. i just came across this platform and thought by sharing this i can get help to make better decisions i dont like sharing my pr...

YA AZUMINSU YA KE !? YA SADU DA IYALINSA A DAREN RAMADAN, HAR ALFIJIR YA KETO BAI SANI BA: -------------------------------------------------------...

My Dear Sister, Ur Best Friend Boyfriend Or Husband Can Be Ur Future Husband! So, Plz Don't Ignore D Signs? Coz Ba HARAMU Bane?

meyasa mata suke addua Allah ya basu miji, su abinda ya dame su kenan a rayuwa? ga abubuwa dayawa da za ka roki Allah a duniya amma se wani miji? shiy...

It always surprises me idan naga yanda ake kuntata wa mata da sunan aure (I’m sorry nasan da yawa zasu ce what the fuck am I trying to say) a gaskiy...

kawai dan mace ta kai certain age se a matsa mata ta kawo miji ni na kasa gane abin. like what's the point I am almost 30 but I am working on my caree...

A failed engagement is better than a bad marriage. The mistakes, baggage and hurt you carry from it cuts across generations. Be wise and take your...

Gaskia yakamata iyaye su daina saka pressure akan 'ya'ya mata kan maganan aure,I mean aure lokaci ne idan lokacin ka baiyi ba wallahi ko sama da kasa ...

I was sitting next to some girls today and I heard them talking of how they will go to Malams for magic spells and be doing things without the husband...

I was just thinking of this, the rate at which people are getting married these days is very high. Also the rate of divorce, unhappy marriages and oth...

I know Islam has already permit me to beat her, I just want to know if it's justified in this case. 1. I told her to stop working when she gives birt...

Every-time the topic of polygamy countered, the first thing this men will say is that, it is God has given them the green light to marry up to 4 wives...

I was surprised, yanzu 6 years muna tare da miji na, se jiya yake ce min wai Yana dating wata, blah blah blah, abin ya bani haushi sosai, duk abinda y...