Why do men change after marriage?
Marriage
Anonymous Mar 20, 06:12 AM

Why do men change after marriage? 0

Why do you guys change after marriage? WHY????? What exactly do you want? Before marriage you are okay with everything she does and after marriage you're not. why won't you just come out to her? show your true self. WHY???????
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Jibril saeed Mar 20, 06:14 AM
just pray he might be what you expect again. kowa da yaadda Allah yayishi.
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Tahmairabo Mar 20, 07:07 AM
just Pray for the best sister ❤️😊
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Ramatu salihu Mar 20, 08:13 AM
May Allah grant everyone pious spouse but before you pray for it fits change urself to b a pious spouse
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Anonymous #2 Mar 20, 08:52 AM
I pray to Allah that he makes your relationship beautiful and stable. if a person has good relationship with Allah he/she will have a good relationship with everyone, do your best and improve to get closer to Allah daily. Pray to Allah that your husband changes. Be kind to him so that he returns that favour. Don't ever forget that all of us have our shortcomings. Communicate with him and tell him your concerns politely without pointing a finger at him so that he doesn't feel the need to respond harshly to you. And don’t forget shaytan will always look for a way to distrupt a marriage. I do highly recommend to check Ali hummada a HAPPILY EVER AFTER series marriage on YouTube it’s an eye opener to all the married and even singles out here to know what 'marriage' in itself actual entails.
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Anonymous #1 Mar 20, 08:52 AM
1. some are pretenders. 2 .some irin wanda basu campaign ne after Elections... Allah baku nagari
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Abu Darda Mar 20, 10:19 AM
I think this question should rephrased as "Why do partners change after marriage?" Because men also complain that their wives changed after marriage that's why they also change. In my humble opinion I think it might be attributed to the following reasons: 1- Lack of an effective communication mechanism between partners 2- Egocentric behaviors 3- Selfishness 4- Lack of empathy 5- Inability of partners to compromise in some situations But most importantly, I think if all men will take the life of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (SAW) with his wives as a mirror, then most of the issues arising in marriages will be nipped in the bud.
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Anonymous #2 Mar 20, 03:17 PM

You're welcome sister.
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Rukaiya Muhammad Mar 20, 04:54 PM
absolutely I agree with Abu both partners are facing these matrimonial problems Allah dai ya mana mafita.my observation here is pretending yayi yawa from both like claiming the life that is not urs just to achieve what you want and sai bayan kin ko ka samu biyan buqata sai hali na kwaran yafito irin ana ganin andai shiga ko andaura babu yadda za'ayi.to amma mafi abun illa anan kuma shike kawo yawan broken homes and unwanted divorces. Ya Allah ka shiryamu shirin addinin musulunci Amin.
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Anonymous #3 Mar 21, 06:25 PM
My dear, it's both ways Ooo. Guys are also facing shage in their marriage
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Ayeeshaw Mar 23, 04:37 AM
assalamualaikum most times the problem comes from both sides, but everyone is cleaming to be the good one
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Mohammadou Mar 27, 02:42 PM
hakan yana faruwa indai, kika bada kanki kafin ayi aure, Toh bazaki taba samun dadin zaman aure ba
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