Please advice me about my husband

Inform the elders kawai, as much as it will create drama but i think its best because he doesn't seem to be listening.

or let her lock the house, if he sleeps outside once maybe he will come back to his sense. tell him its also part of your life to lock the door, you live it the way you want.

I dont think telling someone is the best idea, gaskiya.

This may cause another problem, and he can use it against her.

I think he's aggressive person based on his statement, and people with aggressive behaviour are too hard to handle. You can't win by dragging argument or something like that, and even if you reported him to elders isn't necessary for him to change, he may change but it may not last longer and he may bring up many different behaviours that'll make your relationship to be resentful. What I can suggest is, try as much as possible to have open and honest communication with him, sometimes many relationships used to failed because of communication skills. You have to be assertive while talking to him and don't ever try to talk while one of you is vexed, try as much as possible to remaind him about religion, but make sure you know him better 'cause if he's an aggressive person he will use it against you and even get mad that you're telling him something about religion, he may think you're referring him as illiterate, so you have to make sure that you know him well before bringing up such kind of conversations, but if you noticed that the communication is not going anywhere, kindly put it on pause and find another time that will be convenient for you guys to communicate, but if it failed, then his elders have to be involved in this.

Yes u can't fight fire with fire. Notice the times he usually goes out and perhaps find a way to take his attention him by cooking something he likes or other things that can make him to be at home. you know his weakness, i mean his mumu button.

don't report him to your parents , akwai advice da zan baki amma private

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