Matsalar aurena
Anonymous Jul 29, 07:41 PM

Matsalar aurena 1

I'm a 21yrs old married woman, aurena ix 7 months old ynxu. Kuma auren soyayya mukayi dashi. Matsalan itace any time nayi qoqarin xama romantic to him he'll start yelling, sae ya nuna kamar na taqura shi, kuma Ni a iya sanina ana nuna mana being romantic na jawo soyayyar miji. Amma Ni kwata kwata ba haka bane a gidana. He's a kind of person da yake da saurin fushi da rashin haquri. Any time nayi laipi sae ya fara mita ko da kuwa laipin bae kae abunda xaayi magana ba. Shi kuma idan yayi abu baya ma son ayi maganan. Kuma baya bani tym, sometimes sae muna cikin hira sae ya dauko waya ya fara unnecessary chatting which hakan na qona raina beyond expectations. Na rasa ya xanyi in shawo kan mijina, abun ya min yawa. Ni a ganina itx too early for such problems! Sae nake ji kamar ma baya Sona. Ko da tafiya yayi baya damuwa yasan ya na tashi, nd when I call him sae ya nuna kamar na taqura shi sosae. Ban San ya xanyi ba, I love him so much that I don't wanna loose him. Ina so in jawo hankalinshi da soyayyar shi gareni. Dan Allah ku bani shawara ya xanyi na mallaki zuciyarshi ba boka ba mallam? Cox bana so in sa6a wa ubangijina a kan namiji. Thank you.
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Mr Hacker Jul 31, 10:00 AM
Ki same shi kice ya baki time zakuyi magana Explain to him all you've in your mind Mu Muna neman such girls Wani yasamu amma Sai a hankali
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Ibrahim salis Aug 1, 12:41 AM
kila yana san ki amma ba kamar da ba, wasu maza haka suke kawai they don't show affection as expected. kuma its too early for this problems gaskiya just seven month amma kafin kuyi auren baki gano haka yake ba?
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Mubarak Aug 1, 03:49 PM
Gsky abun ba dd wlhy. In har xai baki dama kamata yy kisamu lkc kuxauna ki masa mgn. Kuma sannan kici gaba da hkr da kyautata masa annabi SAW yana ciwa an halicci xuciya akan son Wanda yake yawan kyautata mana. Kici gabi insha Allah xaki shawo kansa
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Hindat Aug 4, 09:26 PM
Farko dai yar uwa kidage da addu'a then kisamu good time dakikasan yana cikin walwala cikin ladabi da nutsuwa kifadamishi abunda yakemiki bakyajin dadinshi, in laifi kikamishi yasanarmiki kibashi hakuri, kuma kicigaba da nunamishi soyayya da kulawa karki gaji insha Allah zaiyi realizing the kind of luv your giving him
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Ameena Aug 4, 09:51 PM
Malama,zan bak shawara ki zauna ki mai magana. Ai ba zama in ba communication, maybe he dosent know he is hurting you get a time you can speak with him
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Hatty Oct 21, 03:54 PM
Salam Alaykum Sister You are quite young and green to understand the complexities of marriage and men. The problem here seems to be that your husband is showing disinterest so early into the marriage and you are beocming desperate to make him interested again. I see three scenarios playing out here. either: 1. your husband is showing disinterest because he is already seeing/speaking to another girl already or all along he has been cheating on you 2. your husband put effort in you before just to get you married to him and now that you are in his hands, he is showing his true colors (which is quite common in our marriages) which is he never liked you in the first place. you were decieved in short. 3. maybe you did something to him and he is punishing you be giving you the silent treatment and neglecting you. I know these first two scenarios may seem extreme or impossible to you but I am much older than you and i have seen situations like these many times. this situation is different from just disinterest from being busy, occupied or emotionally down. he is delibrately ignoring and mistreating you knowing that you are trying to please him and that he is hurting you by behaving like this but still he does not care how you feel. Now, about the question of what you can do to bring his attention back on you, the answer is nothing unfortunately. Just like he showed interest in the beginning on his own, he has to decide to become inetrested again. Now lets look at the solution in these three scenarios: 1. Your husband is cheating so early in the marriage. first investigate and when you have your confirmation, you have to make your decision whether to let go of the marriage or to continue. but if you continue this marriage, remember that you will likely not be happy for the rest of it and may divorce in the future either way. this is because the strength of the marriage is often measured by the first 2 years of it. if you marry someone and you are not eager and excited to please them and be romantic etc., imagine 10, 20 yers from now things will surely detoriorate to abuse. 2. you were decieved into thinking he loved and cared for you when he just wanted to marry you. well, this is also difficult. you need to have a serious talk with him without distractions or phones on how he is making you feel and make him explain his disinterest and why he is being cold. remember there is nothing you can do to make him love you if he is not willing to. 3. there was a misunderstanding. i hope this is the problem . maybe something happened and he got angry so he started showing his anger in this way. when you sit down to talk to him, ask him if you dod anything to offend. if this is the case, let him know he needs to learn to communnicate his frustration with you in a matured and productive way without resulting to neglect. I hope I didn't spoil your day. I hate to be the bearer of bad news and but you need to do something about it ASAP before it beomes worse and lastly, never, ever no matter the situation result to shirtk of babalawo, mallam and tsibbu in the name of anything be it family, marriage, money. it is a very huge sin as Allah said he will not forgive it. Sister the purpose of you creation is to serve Allah and not to be married. remember marriage is not even obligatory in Islam. you whole aspiration in this life is to go to jannah where you will not be subjected to these worldy problems instead you will live as a queen when you are in jannah. I hope you understand what i am trying to say. Let me know of you need further advise Best of luck
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Anonymous #1 Oct 10, 02:38 AM
Kiyita addu'a kawai... Kita addu'a insha Allahu you will live a life you dreamt of.. Just pray.. Allah will see you through insha Allahu
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Anonymous #1 Oct 10, 02:39 AM

Gaskiya kuwa muna niman such girls wanda zasu ringa takura mana haka da soyayya amma shi ya tsaya yana wasa
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