Whom should I go for between these two suitors?
Marriage
Anonymous Jul 30, 11:25 PM

Whom should I go for between these two suitors? 3

assalamualaikum taimakoh Nike nemah I am confused I have 2 boyfriend's let's say A and B A is a filling station manager while B is mu uni class mate Amman nafison B and I would love to marry him not A but the issue here is parents Dina sun fison A shikuma A kawai akwai wasu Hali nashi Wanda banaso I won't say bad Hali but a gurina bashi da kyauta Amman Kuma Yana mAh en wajeh like ni bazai bani bah but zaimah wasu while B duk abunda Nike bukata zaimun dukansu suna sonah Sosai sosai wlhhhh kawai dai B is not ready for marriage while A is and again I am 23 so I am not getting any young shi Kuma B bashi mAh da aikinyi Amman yace he will try ya aureni next year December insha Allah please a gurinka waya kamata in aura
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jul 30, 11:26 PM
tohm
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Anonymous #2 Jul 31, 01:12 AM
HHHhh ki biyewa soyayyar wani B, zakiga B neh a kwaryar shan kšŸ˜…šŸ˜…šŸ˜…,ana neman wanda zai iya sauke nauyi kin tsaya biyewa wata soyyar B,ko aikin yi bashida kuma kince class mate dinki neh,malama ki sake tunani B ba wani aurenki dazaiyi,yaushe yasamu aikin,ya kawo kudi,ya hada lefa,ya kama gida,yasamu kudin shagalin biki na wowo for this gender if u wan marry abeg marry A,in kuma kin biyewa soyayya gaki ga B din nn,u see shege šŸ˜…,fatan alheri gareki
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Anonymous #1 Jul 31, 08:36 AM
the only reason why you like B more is because you spend more time with him than A. heā€™s your course mate and heā€™s able to ā€œsatisfy all your needs within the academic sphereā€. The issue of namiji and kyauta isnā€™t something I get with girls these days. personally, I donā€™t think Iā€™m a stingy person but my fellow guy friend is likely to chop my kobo than a babe. but my wife is more likely to chop than my guy friends. I think when women obsess too much about the material things they stand to gain from a guy, the issue starts when the guy faces life challenges and is unable to keep up. if you canā€™t like a guy without gifts, itā€™ll be hard to like him when life takes a turn on him. ofcourse, I understand everyone likes gifts and likes being pamperedā€¦ but if you canā€™t like someone when gifts isnā€™t involved, then you have to decide whether itā€™s gift you want or a stable relationship.
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AnDex_Blaq Jul 31, 08:57 AM
Why do you have two boyfriends in the first place? If na man now, una no go allow us rest.
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Anonymous #5 Aug 3, 12:12 PM
pray over it kiyi Allah ya zaba maki mafi Alkhairi aure is a life time commitment donā€™t rush
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Abdourl 12 Aug 5, 07:27 AM
Most of Arewa ladies normalized cheating and expect happiness in their marriage lives.... How can you date more than 1 person and you're claiming that you love both of them? The fear of avoidance/rejection of most of our ladies is getting high that's why majority of em are so confused when it comes to marriage. The bitter truth is between A and B there's one you love and there's one you're subtly being deceitful to, the best advice here's to made up your mind and chooses whom you think is better to you and kindly leave the one you can't imagine living with find someone who truly chooses him, stop trying to deceive yourself with your fellow gender advice that they often said "Kiyi addu'a Allah ya zaba miki mafi alkhairi a cikin su" how could you mislead people and expect alkhairi? This is just the truth, Allah yasa mu dace
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Bashabdul0 Aug 7, 10:47 PM
this days ladies marry someone who is ready. so don't be deceive by your feelings for B. though it's actually a good thing to settle with someone you can confide in, someone you love and receive such love in return. finding fault before you settle with someone now knowing if you can withstand it now and later is better than finding out later. and it's not advising to marry someone you think after the marriage you will work or will get better. whatever he does now should be what you can withstand for the rest of your life. it's better not to rush than to make a decision you will regret
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