Feb 19, 04:00 PM

Is there anyone that wants to get married but doesn't want kids?

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I am willing to get ready to settle down but finding a partner is becoming hard for me, because almost all people i meet want to have kids, but i don't I want to get married and have a partner for the sake of companionship. Are there people like me out there?

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Feb 19, 05:25 PM
lol why you don't want to have kids if I might ask
Feb 19, 05:35 PM
Anonymous #1 Feb 19, 05:25 PM

lol why you don't want to have kids if I might ask

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They will just make my life more complicated than it already is and i don't think its worth the hassle
Feb 19, 05:58 PM
ofcourse there are, but are you a man or woman?
Feb 19, 05:59 PM
Anonymous #2 Feb 19, 05:58 PM

ofcourse there are, but are you a man or woman?

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i am a woman
Feb 19, 06:02 PM
of course there are, someone like me šŸ˜€
Feb 19, 06:32 PM
Anonymous Feb 19, 05:35 PM

They will just make my life more complicated than it already is and i don't think its worth the hassle

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ayyah but they can be blessing to you..... because not having a kid doesn't guarantee you will enjoy your life after marriage.... you're Muslim yakamata you should have faith. and be praying. abinda yafi alkhaire Allah ya tabata Miki dashi... I understand maybe you go through allot of challenges and you don't want to experience it in feature. but think twice
Feb 19, 06:35 PM
Here is 1 ašŸ˜‚
Feb 19, 06:39 PM
Anonymous Feb 19, 05:59 PM

i am a woman

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ohh makes sense and is totally understandable. me, I'm already married and if for second I find someone like you, I'll be elated. most women lose theirselves and marriage to cater for kids
Feb 19, 07:59 PM
Reina Feb 19, 06:02 PM

of course there are, someone like me šŸ˜€

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Are you serious? i am a Man and don't want kids either
Feb 19, 11:51 PM
'Yan bokon karshen zamani! Da yara ba abun so bane da iya yenku basu haifeku ba Sai kiyita zamanki haka tunda baki son yara As a responsible muslim wo/man, you have no reason(s) whatsoever to disdain kids
Feb 20, 12:17 AM
Anonymous #5 Feb 19, 11:51 PM
'Yan bokon karshen zamani! Da yara ba abun so bane da iya yenku basu haifeku ba Sai kiyita zamanki haka tunda baki son yara As a responsible muslim wo/man, you have no reason(s) whatsoever to dis[...] 'Yan bokon karshen zamani! Da yara ba abun so bane da iya yenku basu haifeku ba Sai kiyita zamanki haka tunda baki son yara As a responsible muslim wo/man, you have no reason(s) whatsoever to disdain kids
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wallahi fah they will surely regret it oneday
Feb 20, 12:20 AM
Baby girl Feb 20, 12:17 AM

wallahi fah they will surely regret it oneday

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Abun takaici ne ma musulmin kwarai ya yi waƱnan mgnr wlh
Feb 20, 12:23 AM
Anonymous #5 Feb 20, 12:20 AM

Abun takaici ne ma musulmin kwarai ya yi waƱnan mgnr wlh

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sosai suna mantawa da tsufa ma suna tunanin yaran wasu ne zasu kula da su ko me? Allah dai ya kyauta Allah ya bamu zuria dayyiba masu albarka mudai
Feb 20, 06:27 AM
Baby girl Feb 20, 12:23 AM

sosai suna mantawa da tsufa ma suna tunanin yaran wasu ne zasu kula da su ko me? Allah dai ya kyauta Allah ya bamu zuria dayyiba masu albarka mudai

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Amiiin thumma amiin yar uwa
Feb 20, 06:41 AM
Abi me sauki, sai ki auri me mata ai. Tun da dai kece baki son kids din.
Feb 20, 01:34 PM
And when you grew older, you may regret not wanting kids, it’s lonely during old age with no one beside you, no one thinking of you, it’s miserable. Ask around.
Feb 20, 05:41 PM
Even if it’s just one, conceive. What’s the point of marriage then if you ain’t having kids? No be person born you.
Feb 20, 05:54 PM
Anonymous #6 Feb 20, 05:41 PM

Even if it’s just one, conceive. What’s the point of marriage then if you ain’t having kids? No be person born you.

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na person ooošŸ˜‚
Feb 20, 07:27 PM
Anonymous #2 Feb 19, 06:39 PM

ohh makes sense and is totally understandable. me, I'm already married and if for second I find someone like you, I'll be elated. most women lose theirselves and marriage to cater for kids

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that's cool, its feels nice to see people that understand being childfree...
Feb 20, 07:28 PM
Baby girl Feb 20, 12:17 AM

wallahi fah they will surely regret it oneday

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why will she regret not having kids, do you really think its everyone that wants kids?
Feb 20, 07:30 PM
Anonymous #6 Feb 20, 05:41 PM

Even if it’s just one, conceive. What’s the point of marriage then if you ain’t having kids? No be person born you.

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why is it a must to born? just because you were born? that is not a logical basis
Feb 21, 07:37 AM
Tijjani Muhammad Feb 19, 06:32 PM
ayyah but they can be blessing to you..... because not having a kid doesn't guarantee you will enjoy your life after marriage.... you're Muslim yakamata you should have faith. and be praying. abinda [...] ayyah but they can be blessing to you..... because not having a kid doesn't guarantee you will enjoy your life after marriage.... you're Muslim yakamata you should have faith. and be praying. abinda yafi alkhaire Allah ya tabata Miki dashi... I understand maybe you go through allot of challenges and you don't want to experience it in feature. but think twice
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that's always what comes to my mind. but sha I've concluded to have 3-4 In Sha Allah. my own problem is not that I dont want the kids, its just that I soo much love my man that I dont want someone between us I just want the two of us to be together all the time. banason takuran mutane if I'm with him. when I love I do love completely that ban kallon kowa and I do respect you soo much that sunanka I can't say it.
Feb 21, 12:07 PM
i don't want to have kids too, but i can't even voice it out se ayi maka mammunar fassara. i love kids fah, they are adorable and a great blessing, but daga nesa suke burge ni ba nawa ba
Feb 21, 01:28 PM
Anonymous #7 Feb 21, 12:07 PM

i don't want to have kids too, but i can't even voice it out se ayi maka mammunar fassara. i love kids fah, they are adorable and a great blessing, but daga nesa suke burge ni ba nawa ba

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Interesting, I am man and i don't want kids either.. You are one of the few ladies i've seen that understand this
Feb 21, 03:00 PM
Anonymous #4 Feb 21, 01:28 PM

Interesting, I am man and i don't want kids either.. You are one of the few ladies i've seen that understand this

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ohh mashaa Allah i thought i am the only one shiyasa ma bani maganan da kowa gara inyi shiru. i am a lady fah and i am perfectly healthy kuma people don't understand our thoughts and what we feel. if alkhairi ne a gare mu Allah ya bamu masu albarka
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