Is there anyone that wants to get married but doesn't want kids?
Marriage
Anonymous Feb 19, 04:00 PM

Is there anyone that wants to get married but doesn't want kids? 0

I am willing to get ready to settle down but finding a partner is becoming hard for me, because almost all people i meet want to have kids, but i don't I want to get married and have a partner for the sake of companionship. Are there people like me out there?
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Anonymous #1 Feb 19, 05:25 PM
lol why you don't want to have kids if I might ask
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Anonymous Feb 19, 05:35 PM

They will just make my life more complicated than it already is and i don't think its worth the hassle
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Anonymous #2 Feb 19, 05:58 PM
ofcourse there are, but are you a man or woman?
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Anonymous Feb 19, 05:59 PM

i am a woman
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Reina Feb 19, 06:02 PM
of course there are, someone like me 😀
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Tijjani Muhammad Feb 19, 06:32 PM

ayyah but they can be blessing to you..... because not having a kid doesn't guarantee you will enjoy your life after marriage.... you're Muslim yakamata you should have faith. and be praying. abinda yafi alkhaire Allah ya tabata Miki dashi... I understand maybe you go through allot of challenges and you don't want to experience it in feature. but think twice
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Anonymous #7 Feb 19, 06:35 PM
Here is 1 a😂
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Anonymous #2 Feb 19, 06:39 PM

ohh makes sense and is totally understandable. me, I'm already married and if for second I find someone like you, I'll be elated. most women lose theirselves and marriage to cater for kids
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Anonymous #6 Feb 19, 07:59 PM

Are you serious? i am a Man and don't want kids either
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Anonymous #3 Feb 19, 11:51 PM
'Yan bokon karshen zamani! Da yara ba abun so bane da iya yenku basu haifeku ba Sai kiyita zamanki haka tunda baki son yara As a responsible muslim wo/man, you have no reason(s) whatsoever to disdain kids
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Anonymous #3 Feb 20, 12:20 AM

Abun takaici ne ma musulmin kwarai ya yi wañnan mgnr wlh
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Baby girl Feb 20, 12:23 AM

sosai suna mantawa da tsufa ma suna tunanin yaran wasu ne zasu kula da su ko me? Allah dai ya kyauta Allah ya bamu zuria dayyiba masu albarka mudai
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Anonymous #7 Feb 20, 06:41 AM
Abi me sauki, sai ki auri me mata ai. Tun da dai kece baki son kids din.
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BlaQ Feb 20, 01:34 PM
And when you grew older, you may regret not wanting kids, it’s lonely during old age with no one beside you, no one thinking of you, it’s miserable. Ask around.
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Anonymous #4 Feb 20, 05:41 PM
Even if it’s just one, conceive. What’s the point of marriage then if you ain’t having kids? No be person born you.
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Anonymous #6 Feb 20, 07:28 PM

why will she regret not having kids, do you really think its everyone that wants kids?
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Anonymous Feb 20, 07:30 PM

why is it a must to born? just because you were born? that is not a logical basis
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Assertive girlfriend Feb 21, 07:37 AM

that's always what comes to my mind. but sha I've concluded to have 3-4 In Sha Allah. my own problem is not that I dont want the kids, its just that I soo much love my man that I dont want someone between us I just want the two of us to be together all the time. banason takuran mutane if I'm with him. when I love I do love completely that ban kallon kowa and I do respect you soo much that sunanka I can't say it.
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Anonymous #5 Feb 21, 12:07 PM
i don't want to have kids too, but i can't even voice it out se ayi maka mammunar fassara. i love kids fah, they are adorable and a great blessing, but daga nesa suke burge ni ba nawa ba
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Anonymous #6 Feb 21, 01:28 PM

Interesting, I am man and i don't want kids either.. You are one of the few ladies i've seen that understand this
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Anonymous #5 Feb 21, 03:00 PM

ohh mashaa Allah i thought i am the only one shiyasa ma bani maganan da kowa gara inyi shiru. i am a lady fah and i am perfectly healthy kuma people don't understand our thoughts and what we feel. if alkhairi ne a gare mu Allah ya bamu masu albarka
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Anonymous #6 Feb 21, 04:11 PM

Ameen. they wont understand kuwa atimes ni ma shuru nake yi but i have said it to a few people and they think im a freak 😂 if you dont mind can we link up?😊
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Anonymous #8 Feb 22, 03:07 PM
I would want a second wife who either can't conceive naturally (barren) or someone who's not interested in having kids (0 or at most 1). I love kids and I have already got them, so it's not an issue for me if I marry someone who feels she needs no kids. So yea, it's not a sin if one doesn't want to have children, although it may not make sense to many people but it's your life not theirs.
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Anonymous #4 Feb 23, 03:15 PM

I didn't say it's a must. But goodluck finding someone who doesn't want kids.
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Mimie90 Feb 23, 09:49 PM
Salam. You're not alone poster. I want kids, but I don't want many maybe 1 or 2. There's nothing wrong with you and In shaa Allah you'll find someone compatible with you.
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Reina Feb 24, 01:08 AM

yesss i am 💯
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