

I am willing to get ready to settle down but finding a partner is becoming hard for me, because almost all people i meet want to have kids, but i don't
I want to get married and have a partner for the sake of companionship.
Are there people like me out there?
lol why you don't want to have kids if I might ask
They will just make my life more complicated than it already is and i don't think its worth the hassle
ofcourse there are, but are you a man or woman?
i am a woman
of course there are, someone like me š
ayyah but they can be blessing to you..... because not having a kid doesn't guarantee you will enjoy your life after marriage.... you're Muslim yakamata you should have faith.
and be praying. abinda yafi alkhaire Allah ya tabata Miki dashi...
I understand maybe you go through allot of challenges and you don't want to experience it in feature.
but think twice
Here is 1
aš
ohh makes sense and is totally understandable. me, I'm already married and if for second I find someone like you, I'll be elated. most women lose theirselves and marriage to cater for kids
Are you serious? i am a Man and don't want kids either
'Yan bokon karshen zamani!
Da yara ba abun so bane da iya yenku basu haifeku ba
Sai kiyita zamanki haka tunda baki son yara
As a responsible muslim wo/man, you have no reason(s) whatsoever to disdain kids
wallahi fah
they will surely regret it oneday
Abun takaici ne ma musulmin kwarai ya yi waƱnan mgnr wlh
sosai
suna mantawa da tsufa ma
suna tunanin yaran wasu ne zasu kula da su ko me?
Allah dai ya kyauta
Allah ya bamu zuria dayyiba masu albarka mudai
Amiiin thumma amiin yar uwa
Abi me sauki, sai ki auri me mata ai. Tun da dai kece baki son kids din.
And when you grew older, you may regret not wanting kids, itās lonely during old age with no one beside you, no one thinking of you, itās miserable. Ask around.
Even if itās just one, conceive. Whatās the point of marriage then if you aināt having kids? No be person born you.
na person oooš
that's cool, its feels nice to see people that understand being childfree...
why will she regret not having kids, do you really think its everyone that wants kids?
why is it a must to born? just because you were born? that is not a logical basis
that's always what comes to my mind. but sha I've concluded to have 3-4 In Sha Allah.
my own problem is not that I dont want the kids, its just that I soo much love my man that I dont want someone between us I just want the two of us to be together all the time. banason takuran mutane if I'm with him. when I love I do love completely that ban kallon kowa and I do respect you soo much that sunanka I can't say it.
i don't want to have kids too, but i can't even voice it out se ayi maka mammunar fassara. i love kids fah, they are adorable and a great blessing, but daga nesa suke burge ni ba nawa ba
Interesting, I am man and i don't want kids either..
You are one of the few ladies i've seen that understand this
ohh mashaa Allah i thought i am the only one shiyasa ma bani maganan da kowa gara inyi shiru. i am a lady fah and i am perfectly healthy kuma people don't understand our thoughts and what we feel. if alkhairi ne a gare mu Allah ya bamu masu albarka
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