i don't like my wife anymore whats the best way to divorce her?
Marriage
Anonymous Jun 1, 04:27 AM

i don't like my wife anymore whats the best way to divorce her? 4

for about 3 years yanzu muna tare, no kids and i met this lady at my workplace that i seem to like alot and realize we have alot in common ni bazan iya auren 2 wives ba so i can only choose 1 at a time kuma dama we have had issues with my wife many times naga kamar tamu bata zo daya ba. so i am thinking to divorce her so that i can marry the person i want and enjoy my marriage life. har yanzu bata san i have this plan ba so whats the best way to divorce her in a nice way. bana so inyi mata wulakanci.
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Shamsu Don Jun 1, 02:48 PM
but have you tried to find out why you don't like her i mean when you married i am sure you were in love ko dai hada ku akayi? these are the steps. - Find out why you don't like her? is it because she doesn't have kids or a personal issue between you guys? -If it is something you can talk about and resolve its is worth it for you guys to stay together - if it is not something you can talk and solve then try to sit her down and explain to her gashi gashi from then kana iya bata hakuri da saki uku (please this should be your last option). - Because staying in a marriage like this will only cause more problems if not solved. nothing like zaman hakuri.
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Anonymous Jun 1, 03:28 PM

it is not because of the kids, actually my family arranged her for me and i liked her at that time but kawai haka nan naji ta fitan mun a rai i can't really say why and i try to hide it from her because she has sacrificed alot for me and always want to impress me that is why i dont even know how to face her with this talk. my work colleague is someone i have alot in common with, we share similar interest and i even enjoy discussions with her more than my wife kuma i want to enjoy my marriage life. na gama tunani amma se inga bazan iya ba because of how she treats me amma i sincerely have fallen in love with someone else please how can i approach her with this talk?
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Jamcy Jun 1, 04:46 PM
Hmmm some men sha, To. connect me with her since you are tired of her maybe I might be the best for her. And you need to understand that in life, you cant and shouldn't always get what you want every time.
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Deejangala Jun 1, 06:23 PM
I don't know but what if you marry your co-worker and realize desame thing or you find another lady more appealing and easier to talk to? What if you start enjoying another lady's company as you are enjoying your coworker's company yanzu? I think you're finding your wife's faults because already your eyes are elsewhere. Remember while dating/before marriage we only show each other what we want them to see, we only portray our best characters to the other person what if you don't find solace in that other lady? I wouldn't want you to take the step you're willing to take gaskiya, you need to pray hard and ask for the best. All the best.
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Yar'amana Jun 9, 11:43 AM

Allah sarki, just let her go, empower her Allah yahada ta da maison ta....mata sun zama riga ynx yau Ana sonsu gone an daina..... after all the sacrifices...
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Ameerah Jun 9, 09:58 PM
Atimes divorce is better akan wulanci if you know you cant treat her well then explain that to her. Make her understand that youre no more inyrested. I'm sure she'll understand maybe itama shes tired since you have no kid...thats my view
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Ameerah Jun 9, 10:02 PM

If possible you should be patient with her since she love you. This time round true love is hard to find. Appreciate her for once and be patient and if you can't then adjust and take a second wife
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Mr Hacker Jun 12, 01:00 PM
Am having same problem with you but i did not marry 🙄
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Haleemart Jun 16, 08:26 AM
Don’t ever think of divorcing this woman. The woman you think you share things in common will come and treat you worser than you think of. Treat your wife well idan May Karin aure zakayi kayi
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