I’m a Northerner from Kano — calm, easy-going, recently married, and deeply in love with my wife. I work with the government and run my own business on the side. Life feels balanced, blessed, and purposeful.
But lately, I’ve been wrestling with something personal…
I’m a helpless romantic — the kind that loves completely — yet I’ve found myself with an urge for frequent intimacy, one that my marriage alone struggles to satisfy.
Now here’s my honest question to you all:
Is it a crime for a married man to consider taking a second wife — not out of lust or irresponsibility, but to honour his nature and remain faithful within lawful boundaries?
I ask not to provoke judgment, but to understand —
Can a man love truly, desire deeply, and still seek more, without being condemned?
Bro There is absolutely Nothing Wrong. My Advice Is People opinion Should not matter to You, Do What's Right. If it Does not go against Islam Then You are Good Regardless of What anyone will say Or Think, Try and Be Just In Dealing with Them
indeed a gentleman !
“ to honor nature & remain faithful withn lawful boundaries “
you have every reason to add another wife nobody’s option should matter here but yours
may Allah see you through and bless ya with steadfast faith!!
thank you very much
AMEEN THUMMA AMEEN
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