Are most marital issues caused by high Blind Marriage rate in our communities?
Marriage
Anonymous Apr 20, 03:49 PM

Are most marital issues caused by high Blind Marriage rate in our communities? 0

I was just thinking of this, the rate at which people are getting married these days is very high. Also the rate of divorce, unhappy marriages and other marital issues is high? Don't you think there is a strong connection between the 2?
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Deejangala Apr 20, 04:23 PM
Honestly i think it's because people get married for all the wrong reasons, some just get married because their peers are married, others because they feel they are in love, some want to fulfill their lustful desires, also couples nowadays need marriage counseling, they need to be shown the beauty of marriage, it is a spiritual bond, don't just get married because he or she is rich, handsome, rather settle down nurture your love for each other, understand each other, plan your future together and build a happy home
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Faisal Apr 20, 08:39 PM
Ni abun har mamaki yake bani, yanda mutane suke aure, especially for the women without even understanding the marriage itself, they think kawai they have to go to Gidan miji at some point if not akwai matsala. That's why Aure yanzu sai a slow kuma an fi cutan mata
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Anonymous Apr 20, 11:48 PM
It was last week a neighbor of mine around 25yrs married a man of around 45yrs, Imagine. Now her as young as she is I don't know how she will enjoy the marriage apart from the man keeping her as a house wife doing typical things, it won't be as she will be with him, as her closest friend, partner in crime, do fun stuffs together and all other fun things that come with having a partner. She will miss most of these things. And later if she/he feels unsatisfied that's when issues start arising.
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Hafsatou Apr 26, 09:46 PM
Ai ni ana yi ina dariya, kawai mutane basu gama sanin juna ba suje suyi aure as if it's by Force to marry. I hear about marital issues and divorce all the time, very sad stories wallahi, but still mata will not learn their lesson. Aure, Aure, Aure. Chaaai. Divorce, Divorce, Divorce. wasu fa kawai sun gama cin abinci sun girma a gidan iyayensu next thing you hear is aure as if abinda suke zo yi a duniya Kenan.
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